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Girlfriend with low sex drive

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I know u think it's my fault...

Seriously, what is recommended for women who aren't trying to work out?
 
Is she on birth control or anti depressants?
 
Neither. Mine is just unnaturally high. We are trying to het her up to my level but she is just doing it for HRT kind of results, not bodybuilding.
 
A peptide...check it out..lots of info out there on it. Its also the an active ingredient in mt2 that raises libido like crazy. That labpe link in my sig carries both.
 
A lot of it is tied to frequency. Believe it or not, if you schedule sex 2x a week at set times for example, you'll start to look forward to it, then you move up to 3x a week later, and you start getting really horny when the time comes and crave it more often, then you eventually go to 4x-5x 2 weeks later, which is a nice spot (and then you won't need to schedule it, cause you'll feel like having sex more often). Actually set times and schedule it for now if the libido is low :D

I've done this with girls who thought they had low sex drives before, it's worked for 4/5 I'd say.

Make sure she's not taking birth control or any medication that could interfere with libido. What is she taking?

Diet and exercise are also crucial - get her lifting weights 2x a week at least, eating enough fat daily (and eating HEALTHY) and you'll see a libido materialize.

Make sure you set the mood - dim the room a little, make sure she's not stressed (you take care of those dishes or the chores for once!) and warm into it (get a little romantic and kiss her throughout the day and ease into it, don't just start making out 2 mins before and go from there). Have sex in places other than the bed.

If that doesn't fix it, you're not smooth enough or it's your technique. We can still help with that.

/slightly drunk
 
Great advise. Now I can see this is coming from a grizzled vet. LOL
Besides anyone having a quote from our man Jimi has been around to see a thing or two. LOL
 
RAINier said:
A lot of it is tied to frequency. Believe it or not, if you schedule sex 2x a week at set times for example, you'll start to look forward to it, then you move up to 3x a week later, and you start getting really horny when the time comes and crave it more often, then you eventually go to 4x-5x 2 weeks later, which is a nice spot (and then you won't need to schedule it, cause you'll feel like having sex more often). Actually set times and schedule it for now if the libido is low :D

I've done this with girls who thought they had low sex drives before, it's worked for 4/5 I'd say.

Make sure she's not taking birth control or any medication that could interfere with libido. What is she taking?

Diet and exercise are also crucial - get her lifting weights 2x a week at least, eating enough fat daily (and eating HEALTHY) and you'll see a libido materialize.

Make sure you set the mood - dim the room a little, make sure she's not stressed (you take care of those dishes or the chores for once!) and warm into it (get a little romantic and kiss her throughout the day and ease into it, don't just start making out 2 mins before and go from there). Have sex in places other than the bed.

If that doesn't fix it, you're not smooth enough or it's your technique. We can still help with that.

/slightly drunk
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This is great advice. But, cmon, Rainier, you left out "look deep into her eyes". Haha. I kid, I kid.

Take this advice and I bet things will be right as rain in no time.
 
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heavylifting said:
my girl to shes on Birth control. I have to work to get action lol..

im searching something too
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Get her to stop taking it. Look into a "non-hormonal IUD", such as Paraguard. It is non-hormonal :winkfinger:, can be put in and removed at any time by a gynecologist, and can last for 10 years. Foolproof, no pills to take everyday for her (ie no worries for you) and it's hands-down the best form of contraception for a long-term relationship.

It's the most widely-used method of birth control in the world, and it's catching on in the USA recently.
 
GSRacer said:
This is great advice. But, cmon, Rainier, you left out "look deep into her eyes". Haha. I kid, I kid.

Take this advice and I bet things will be right as rain in no time.
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Not even kidding, that works really well too. Stop during sex while you're inside her for a good 5 seconds, just look her deep in the eyes maintaining perfect eye contact, and kiss her slowly, resume sex. If she asks why you're looking at her, tell her "you're really beautiful."

You guys have no idea how much women get horny over this kind of stuff. Not to mention that "intimate" feeling that comes through afterwards.

I'm gonna stop writing these sorts of basic "tips", I prefer to keep this place a little PG :roflmao: and can't go spilling all my secrets!
 
RAINier said:
Not even kidding, that works really well too. Stop during sex while you're inside her for a good 5 seconds, just look her deep in the eyes maintaining perfect eye contact, and kiss her slowly, resume sex. If she asks why you're looking at her, tell her "you're really beautiful."

You guys have no idea how much women get horny over this kind of stuff. Not to mention that "intimate" feeling that comes through afterwards.

I'm gonna stop writing these sorts of basic "tips", I prefer to keep this place a little PG :roflmao: and can't go spilling all my secrets!
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That's pretty gay, bro.

;)
 
he he he.
No thats not gay at all. He's talking from personal experience from what works for him.
Lets face it fella's girls love the romance and if you can work you'r way into it slowly with the little things you say and kisses and such it really gets them in the mood.
 
Addition: I'm not saying you grow a pussy in addition to what you already have, just try to do things in a romantic way once in a while (not all the time of course!), it'll leave her wanting it more often, because sex is tied with emotion for women.
 
Rainier I wasn't sure which post to copy and high five ya on...great advice all around man.

Haha I picture you looking like the Dos Equis commercial guy. Your a Jack of all trades brother
 
give her viagra. give her anavar. give her winni. giver her ruffies. give her a back massage. give her an ultimatum to put out or get out...
 
Red wine, back rubs and a little more red wine...that usually gets me in the mood.

Seriously though, Ranier hit the nail on the head, pay attention to her, you already want it, now make her want it. Every woman is different and a riddle to be solved, it's part of the hunt..the pursuit. Her biggest sexual organ is between her ears. Remember back, way back, when you first wanted her to want you, now go there.

My work is done here.
 
THey either have it-ot thy don't. If you picked a dud-you are just going to b jerking off for many years. Give her your credit card and tell her you will meet her for dinnner AFTER she is done shoppping. If that doesn't work-you are truly UNFUCKED.If you ar cheap -broke or both-you are in trouble. I don't care how big your arms - chest et etc-the size ot that WALLET is what makes women horny. This ia ALPHA LAW-not thi so silly ass bullshit. I am a big old ALPHA-but I make great $$$ and I a bettting I get more pusys than 10 young guy. -OD ~~~
 
tommygunz said:
Red wine, back rubs and a little more red wine...that usually gets me in the mood.

Seriously though, Ranier hit the nail on the head, pay attention to her, you already want it, now make her want it. Every woman is different and a riddle to be solved, it's part of the hunt..the pursuit. Her biggest sexual organ is between her ears. Remember back, way back, when you first wanted her to want you, now go there.

My work is done here.
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This is "spot on-but she WANTS your$$$$ FIRSTAFTER -thy will do ANYTHING -OD
 
ordawg1 said:
THey either have it-ot thy don't. If you picked a dud-you are just going to b jerking off for many years. Give her your credit card and tell her you will meet her for dinnner AFTER she is done shoppping. If that doesn't work-you are truly UNFUCKED.If you ar cheap -broke or both-you are in trouble. I don't care how big your arms - chest et etc-the size ot that WALLET is what makes women horny. This ia ALPHA LAW-not thi so silly ass bullshit. I am a big old ALPHA-but I make great $$$ and I a bettting I get more pusys than 10 young guy. -OD ~~~
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Always talking about pussy. You own a whore house don't you?
 
RAINier said:
Not even kidding, that works really well too. Stop during sex while you're inside her for a good 5 seconds, just look her deep in the eyes maintaining perfect eye contact, and kiss her slowly, resume sex. If she asks why you're looking at her, tell her "you're really beautiful."

You guys have no idea how much women get horny over this kind of stuff. Not to mention that "intimate" feeling that comes through afterwards.

I'm gonna stop writing these sorts of basic "tips", I prefer to keep this place a little PG :roflmao: and can't go spilling all my secrets!
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Interesting, because she has actually asked me to do that.
 
colochine said:
give her viagra. give her anavar. give her winni. giver her ruffies. give her a back massage. give her an ultimatum to put out or get out...
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This is kind of like the answer I'm looking for. I'm afraid to throw her way off. I know what works for me, but in a book I read the doses were alot less than what the men's were. (the men's doses were very low as well)
 
Please don't give a woman testosterone. That's a bad idea on many different levels.
If her and you wanna go the drugs route, there's a dozen better options.

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tommygunz said:
Red wine, back rubs and a little more red wine...that usually gets me in the mood.

Seriously though, Ranier hit the nail on the head, pay attention to her, you already want it, now make her want it. Every woman is different and a riddle to be solved, it's part of the hunt..the pursuit. Her biggest sexual organ is between her ears. Remember back, way back, when you first wanted her to want you, now go there.

My work is done here.
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Tommy is our resident sex columnist. Listen to him. Couples much worse off are able to solve their problems with just some skill and smoothness.
 

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