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Androgenocide

Androgenocide

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How many people here were abused as children? I’m not looking for stories I’m just curious how many members here feel as if they were abused as children. No tough guy shit about how “my Dad used to beat me with an ax handle but nobody thought it was abuse back then and all the kids today are pussies”. All I’m looking for is a yes or a no.
 
I think I had a decent childhood with no abuse. I tell my wife stories like it was something amusing and humorous, she thinks what I tell her is some fucked up shit.

I don't think everyone who was abused recognizes it as such. But even then, is abuse something that you can strictly define? I have no idea.

Sorry to ruin your yes or no thread.
 
Leather belt and metal buckle. I knew it was a consequence. The getting hit with it wasn’t abuse. My father lost control sometimes though and when it was rage, I guess that’s when it is probably defined as abuse. I ceased talking to him 15 years ago but that was for different reasons.
 
Nope.

Had a great childhood.

I miss my dad, my grandpa and my grandma everyday.

Wish I could go back in time and tell them how grateful I am to have had such a good childhood. Even if we were fiscally impoverished we were so wealthy in all the ways that matter.

I wish every kid on every continent could say the same thing.

Two things that really make me angry and sad at the same time, enough to make me kill.

1.) child abuse
2.) dog (any animal really) abuse

Makes me more willing to expose my white rage than politics even.
 
Androgenocide said:
How many people here were abused as children? I’m not looking for stories I’m just curious how many members here feel as if they were abused as children. No tough guy shit about how “my Dad used to beat me with an ax handle but nobody thought it was abuse back then and all the kids today are pussies”. All I’m looking for is a yes or a no.
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Yes.
 
KrossOut said:
Leather belt and metal buckle. I knew it was a consequence. The getting hit with it wasn’t abuse. My father lost control sometimes though and when it was rage, I guess that’s when it is probably defined as abuse. I ceased talking to him 15 years ago but that was for different reasons.
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I hope you and your old man can make amends before it’s too late. From the bottom of my heart, even if he was in the wrong.

No son and father should leave this earthly realm on bad terms (unless of course he was a child rapist or something along those lines, at that point it’s Woodchipper time and you can find a new, more deserving father figure).
 
Nah i got a great set of parents. me and my brother's wellbeing were their #1 priority at all times. still got the occasional spanking or something, but i understood my parents usually had my best interest in mind, so whatever they would tell me to do was usually a good idea and id obey.
 
I hope people participate in the thread. I feel like a lot of men get overlooked when it comes to this type of thing. I feel like this could be a potential avenue for some of these guys who have closed themselves off to the world because of the hurt and abuse and in a lot of cases even worse, the neglect.

One of societies biggest flaw is men who had to grow up without a mother and fathers love.

Perhaps we can help these boys get shit off their chest and start to fix themselves through this thread.

One of the main lessons I try to teach my son is the burden of man. That burden should be carried with pride and dignity and that burden is the fact that even if we didn’t break it, it’s up to us to fix it.

It’s what separates real men from boys. Husbands from fuck boys. Fathers/Dads from sperm donors.

It’s not about whose fault it is….. it’s about fixing it.
 
Dad was a bachelor, threw me away to my mentally ill 20 year old mother.

Mother used me as a pawn in her scams.

Dad, treated me like a Roomate not a son.

But I made amends with both. Mental illness is not a choice. This is what god gave me. I needed to go through this. Regret nothing. Hate no one.
 
Iwannabezyzz said:
Dad was a bachelor, threw me away to my mentally ill 20 year old mother.

Mother used me as a pawn in her scams.

Dad, treated me like a Roomate not a son.

But I made amends with both. Mental illness is not a choice. This is what god gave me. I needed to go through this. Regret nothing. Hate no one.
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Well if that’s you in your profile picture, you’re doing great brother!

Glad you forgave your delinquent parents. It’s really the only for a man to move forward and pave his own successful path.

And when you have kids yourself… you’ll know what not to do and do your part to create a generation of good men and women.

Bravo.
 
Many kinds of abuse. Sometimes the mental can be worse than the physical and vice/versa.

I'll probably get shit for saying this but f off. I would argue letting your child become obese (the age where all they eat is pretty much from what you make them) is child abuse.

I was lucky not suffer any abuse. Heart goes out to those that did.
 
This isn’t something I talk about much. My dad’s 2nd ex-wife was incredibly emotionally and verbally abusive to me from the age of 9 to about 14 until I was able to live with my mom. Apparently she was physically and sexually abusive to sister when she would visit alone. She was also physically abusive to my dad. When my dad finally divorced her, he said he was grateful we all made it out alive. He apologized for everything, and it took me a bit, but I have forgiven him. He was so fucking trapped — he was worried she would kill him or my sister and me if he left her. She had borderline personality disorder. Could go into all the crazy shit she did, but it’d be a book. She is facing felony charges currently and has domestic violence already on her record.

My dad and I since have a very solid relationship. Not the typical father son relationship per se, but he is a big part of my life now. He shows up to every bodybuilding show and helps with my health stuff with gear, as he’s a doctor. He’s an alcoholic now, as I know he uses it to numb the pain of living with the guilt of putting us through hell. Anytime it comes up, he just bursts into tears. It’s truly heartbreaking knowing he lives with this and nothing anyone can do will fix it.

I am definitely grateful i didn’t go through anything more than what I did, but man, I feel some guilt for what my sister and dad went through. I’m thankful to god for truly protecting us through it and allowing me to fully process everything and get on with my life. My sister struggles immensely to this day, and she has a lot of residual trauma.
 
Milford King said:
Well if that’s you in your profile picture, you’re doing great brother!

Glad you forgave your delinquent parents. It’s really the only for a man to move forward and pave his own successful path.

And when you have kids yourself… you’ll know what not to do and do your part to create a generation of good men and women.

Bravo.
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his pfp is Zyzz
 
Meetketchup said:
Many kinds of abuse. Sometimes the mental can be worse than the physical and vice/versa.

I'll probably get shit for saying this but f off. I would argue letting your child become obese (the age where all they eat is pretty much from what you make them) is child abuse.

I was lucky not suffer any abuse. Heart goes out to those that did.
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the overweight parents in wrestling grind my gears really bad. Never wrestled, dont train, arent fit.
push their kids crazy hard doing things they couldnt do in a million years.
have their kids cut ridiculous amounts of weight, at the same time, not controlling what they eat or their own weight.
yelling at their kids for losing, and not doing what they wanted.
its like you go try taking that kid down lol.
absolutely despise those parents.
most of those kids end up hating their parents or quitting the sport ive found.
ive seen it happen sooo many times.

12u/10u kids wrestling 100 matches a year, literally insanity, and kid isnt improving at all.

I never make my kids do anything I wouldnt do.
 
No

But I did get switched neck back and back of legs on bare skin once because my brother and his friend broke all the windows out of a parts truck my dad bought. That stung like a bitch for days... We had to pick rocks for 2 weeks after... My dad didn't believe I wasn't involved.

One time I had a argument with my dad and I told him to go fuck himself then I took off down the hallway. He caught me of course grabbed me by the neck and slammed my head against the wall over and over.. till I blacked out my grandma told me she was right there trying to get my dad to stop. I just remember him grabbing me by the throat and the first smash of my head against the wall...

So wasn't abused by did get my ass kicked a few times.
 

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