Sexual Partners

[Fletcher]

Just wondering how many different chics (or men)you guys have HONESTLY been with? It all counts. Blow jobs, didn’t finishes, it’s all good in my book and should count as one.

Please be honest and don’t come back with some stupid number like 1000. To my knowledge there are no porn stars here.

Right now Im stuck at 32 different chics. I always wanted to hit 100 but that’s way more work than I realized. Now I’m kinda ok at 32. Lol

By the time I left my 2nd year of college at 20, I was at 88. Havent counted since. Im 48. Didnt get married till I was 42.
Its def several hundred.
1,000 is not even an unrealistic # for someone in their 40s. There were times where I had 3-4 regular partners plus a diff new hook-up fri/sat night clubbing.
Plenty of 2-at-times. Etc...
Maybe Im an exception to the average.

 

[Fletcher]

Even if you just take 1 new one each friday, and saturday. I started at 16. Very promiscuos by 18. Thats 2 per week. 8 per month. Which is 96 per year. X 26 years = 2,496 + the 88 I counted. Lol
Not proud of it. Happy to be married bc despite the the excitement. The single life is adventurous but empty.
If you are above average attractive, above average built, and aggressively seeking sex... 1,000 is rookie numbers.

 

[Battousai]

Where's Max

 

[Doug 64]

I’d estimate Im around 50. Most of the experiences weren’t great and I would happily be faithful to one woman for the rest of my life. Unfortunately, this doesn’t seem like it’s in the cards.

Never say never bro...there's a lid for every pot!

 

[Doug 64]

Twenty-three total. But in my defense, I was married for 35 years total (4 wives) and never cheated on any of them.

Bro...you're cruising for sainthood! Tons of respect my man.

 

[KingoftheNorth14]

Where's Max

Right…he probably still counting since the start of this thread…just ain’t done yet.

 

[KingoftheNorth14]

I’ve hit 28. I also got married at 21yrs old.

 

[tommygunz]

Even if you just take 1 new one each friday, and saturday. I started at 16. Very promiscuos by 18. Thats 2 per week. 8 per month. Which is 96 per year. X 26 years = 2,496 + the 88 I counted. Lol
Not proud of it. Happy to be married bc despite the the excitement. The single life is adventurous but empty.
If you are above average attractive, above average built, and aggressively seeking sex... 1,000 is rookie numbers.

 

[BlackRain]

I can't even remember. Between all the hookers and whores and actual bitches fuck man..

40

 

[BBruce]

Even if you just take 1 new one each friday, and saturday. I started at 16. Very promiscuos by 18. Thats 2 per week. 8 per month. Which is 96 per year. X 26 years = 2,496 + the 88 I counted. Lol
Not proud of it. Happy to be married bc despite the the excitement. The single life is adventurous but empty.
If you are above average attractive, above average built, and aggressively seeking sex... 1,000 is rookie numbers.

I agree, I was always a 1 woman man but some of my friends that haven’t been in long relationship that are above average looking/built, have “game” and are in their 40’s now is up there, maybe not in 1000’s but a few 100’s for sure.

Well, and then I have a friend that’s a porn star, he’s easy in the 1000’s…

 

[Nobodyishere]

Somewhere between 30-40.

 

[HighCotton]

Lost count around my 3rd year flying. "Oh you're an aviator, well here's my panties" Stupid.

 

[Halfi]

Probably in the high 30s low 40s

 

[Canebrake]

how many of you use condoms when getting these large numbers

I got divorced in 2016 and that’s where almost all my experiences started. I haven’t wore a condom since 2006 when I got married and not one single female has asked me to put one on.

 

[Fletcher]

Giving yourself away so frequently is damaging to the soul, in hind-sight.
At the time it was fun.

 

[Nobodyishere]

Giving yourself away so frequently is damaging to the soul, in hind-sight.
At the time it was fun.

Underrated statement

 

[Battousai]

Giving yourself away so frequently is damaging to the soul, in hind-sight.
At the time it was fun.

When you're young you don't think about those things. If only we are so lucky like Draig to find someone to spend our lives with.

The first chick I was with was just ugh. I was a virgin in college and she was a chick that threw herself on me when we were all hanging out drinking. She was a bit older than me and honestly I wasn't all that into her, she drank frequently and probably slept around a lot. It's kind of disgusting thinking about that. Second girl was a virgin, she loved me, but she was crazy and a narcissist. Glad I don't have to live with that anymore. Shit ruined my life. It's much more peaceful just to focus on myself and if something happens it will happen. Sex isn't everything but ideally I'd like to be with someone I care about and can grow with. Problem is getting myself back out there, lol.

But I agree it is damaging spiritually.

 

[Fletcher]

When you're young you don't think about those things. If only we are so lucky like Draig to find someone to spend our lives with.

The first chick I was with was just ugh. I was a virgin in college and she was a chick that threw herself on me when we were all hanging out drinking. She was a bit older than me and honestly I wasn't all that into her, she drank frequently and probably slept around a lot. It's kind of disgusting thinking about that. Second girl was a virgin, she loved me, but she was crazy and a narcissist. Glad I don't have to live with that anymore. Shit ruined my life. It's much more peaceful just to focus on myself and if something happens it will happen. Sex isn't everything but ideally I'd like to be with someone I care about and can grow with. Problem is getting myself back out there, lol.

But I agree it is damaging spiritually.

Ive always tried to be a one-woman man. Always (until my wife) with the WRONG women. I was either in a relationship and 100% faithful (with them cheating in many cases) or I was a complete sex addict chasing every and any opportunity.

 

[Swole_Wes]

Twenty-three total. But in my defense, I was married for 35 years total (4 wives) and never cheated on any of them.

Went back and crunched the numbers. What I really meant was 2,300. I mean, it's the internet, right? I can be whatever I want to be, lol

 

[DirtyIron14]

Right…he probably still counting since the start of this thread…just ain’t done yet.

He's probably waiting on the last Asian chick to bring him an abacus.

 

[DirtyIron14]

Props to you @Draig to have been able to find a good one from the start. I could of done without all the bullshit over the years before I got with my wife. Never had a piece that was worth all the crazy.

 

[Matt88]

Where's Max

@maxmuscle1

He`s gonna be like urmmm 5754 as of 5 min ago

 

[Framer9]

48 to I don’t remember (
Married to 5. Don’t judge I got 5 to marry me.
Engaged to pro fitness girl who was bisexual. Countless threesomes and few 4 girls and me. Don’t judge.

 

[Battousai]

@maxmuscle1

He`s gonna be like urmmm 5754 as of 5 min ago

Oh wait 5755, 56, 57

 

[Rivalson]

Too many. Most didnt deserve it either. Worth it because all my choices in life led me to my wife.

 

[Androgenocide]

Never say never bro...there's a lid for every pot!

Pretty sure I’m doomed but I appreciate the support dude

 

[bighuck]

This is kinda fun to think back about. I’ve never kept track, and have even forgotten a good many of them, until someone mentions a story or something. I’m 47 now, and worked in a popular bar in Folsom, Ca back in the early 2000’s, for 6 years. If I had to guess, I would say there’s been somewhere around 60-70 women. Best part of all, never caught any funky shit from any of them.
Pretty lucky I think.

 

[AR-15]

I gotta say I love you guys , in a non gay way Ofcourse, but I personally think some of you are completely full of shit. Don’t get me wrong I’ll take you all on your word but deep down I still think a good many of you are multiplying instead of adding.
Any of the younger dudes get a pass on their numbers in the 100’s since they do use the internet to find sluts for a good time. I can even see working a door at the night clubs or something along those lines but for some of you guys in your 40’s50’s amd even 60’s that are claiming ungodly numbers I’m not so sure about. I mean I’m not bragging because now I’m embarrassed by a lot of it but I spent probably 10 years in the LA party scene and I have a smoking hot wife that also enjoys a hot woman and I’m still at 32. I’ve been to the after hour parties, the sex clubs, orgies and again I’m still at 32. Apparently I suck. Lol

 

[Androgenocide]

I gotta say I love you guys , in a non gay way Ofcourse, but I personally think some of you are completely full of shit. Don’t get me wrong I’ll take you all on your word but deep down I still think a good many of you are multiplying instead of adding.
Any of the younger dudes get a pass on their numbers in the 100’s since they do use the internet to find sluts for a good time. I can even see working a door at the night clubs or something along those lines but for some of you guys in your 40’s50’s amd even 60’s that are claiming ungodly numbers I’m not so sure about. I mean I’m not bragging because now I’m embarrassed by a lot of it but I spent probably 10 years in the LA party scene and I have a smoking hot wife that also enjoys a hot woman and I’m still at 32. I’ve been to the after hour parties, the sex clubs, orgies and again I’m still at 32. Apparently I suck. Lol

Nah man, Tinder is like a literal cheat code. Especially if your standards are trash lol

 

[AR-15]

What's is definition of a sex attic,I was told I wasn't bcus its w one woman now....shit I'ma attic,..I gotta have it,ask my woman,I can't make it longer than 12 hrs..

Well being overly horney is a start and will definitely get your foot in the sex addict door for sure.
My reasoning is more because once I start I can’t stop. When I was younger I would literally sit and beat off for days and days until my dick was basically raw and bleeding. It was insane. Yes I had a fucked up upbringing. It’s not as bad now but that’s after years and years of therapy. Still to this day though if I have the time and the wifey is willing to do whatever I’m still down for a three day fuck fest. Just not into having to have my dick heal for 3 weeks after. Breaking my dick also kinda tamed me a bit. One of the scariest things that has happened to me to date.