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Wife’s hrt and non-existent libido, my mental battle, seeking guidance

Smokeshowin said:
Thank you! It’s not off the table. I’m sure it could help. We both are the type to fix it ourselves and that’s what we are trying to do. I’m a gf/paramedic so I have some knowledge of hormones, chemical imbalances, and effects on the body. I’m not jumping into anything without heavy research, especially if it’s for her not me. I’m fine being my own lab rat but I accept the responsibility of that. I couldn’t live with myself if I fucked her up just to change libido. It’s a process and I know that. I have been amazed at the number of guys giving sound logical advice. Makes me feel less alone and even if you don’t know me you have enough of a shit to say the hard truths not just the easy button.
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You mentioned being a fireman. I worked in the public sector for a good while and I know that they usually have a very good employee assistance program. And most times it’s free or close to it.

Might be a place to start.
 
REHH said:
This is what I was about to say, I think he needs a therapist/ psychologist more than a hormone Dr. My wife had hysterectomy in her 30s, lots of her friends have had them, nothing unusual. To be traumatized for years is a psychological problem.
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I’m not disagreeing with anyone about the therapy. I do want to point out, her hormones were FUCKED. Undetectable test levels, high sbgh, low progesterone. Since we are working through that I want to help her feel optimal and if that doesn’t help then explore therapy etc. I fully agree it could be psychological.
 
Smokeshowin said:
Thank you! It’s not off the table. I’m sure it could help. We both are the type to fix it ourselves and that’s what we are trying to do. I’m a gf/paramedic so I have some knowledge of hormones, chemical imbalances, and effects on the body. I’m not jumping into anything without heavy research, especially if it’s for her not me. I’m fine being my own lab rat but I accept the responsibility of that. I couldn’t live with myself if I fucked her up just to change libido. It’s a process and I know that. I have been amazed at the number of guys giving sound logical advice. Makes me feel less alone and even if you don’t know me you have enough of a shit to say the hard truths not just the easy button.
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I think Tommy is showing some wisdom.
 
tommygunz said:
You mentioned being a fireman. I worked in the public sector for a good while and I know that they usually have a very good employee assistance program. And most times it’s free or close to it.

Might be a place to start.
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I completely forgot about that!!!
 
Smokeshowin said:
I’m not disagreeing with anyone about the therapy. I do want to point out, her hormones were FUCKED. Undetectable test levels, high sbgh, low progesterone. Since we are working through that I want to help her feel optimal and if that doesn’t help then explore therapy etc. I fully agree it could be psychological.
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Yeah my wife’s hormones were messed up for about a year too, but guess what she would still have sex pretty much whenever I wanted, part of a wife’s JOB is to satisfy her man with sex, this is written biblically and recognized by the state. Refusing to have sex with your husband is grounds for divorce and even one of the categories in a divorce application lol. There’s been a thousand times when I wanted sex but for whatever reason my wife wasn’t into it but she would still have sex, we’ve been married for 24yrs. Just now I walked in from the gym and she asked me if I wanted sex after looking at all those camel toes at the gym, she knows seeing camel toes at the gym get me horned up haha.
I know 3-4 guys that have gotten divorced just because the wife would refuse sex. All a women has to do is open her legs to have sex literally.
I do know one couple where they’ve separated twice because the husband doesn’t want to have sex anymore, the wife has gone out and dated and had sex with other men because of it. He found out he has very low testosterone and refuses to go on testosterone.

Here’s a quick snippet from a chat with a friend of mine just recently . He dates this chick for year with good sex, they get married then she starts denying him sex right after the marriage. You can see my response. She tells him he can go fuck other women at the end muahaha. He says his new wife is awesome and gives him all the sex he wants and never denies him.

You have a marriage problem more than a hormone problem
 

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REHH said:
6 kids at 30yrs old? Holly shit!!
Damn with this economy you better be making at least 300-500k a year. Think I read it’s about 500,000 to raise a child to 18 in the US now! How do you go out to eat or go on vacation with 8 people? Drive a passenger van? Family trip to Disney world would be at least 10K

Anyway my wife had a hysterectomy years ago and since has been on test, progesterone and estrogen. Her sex drive is good at 60 and can have sex every day, she always has orgasms too. I’m 55, on TRT and can have sex pretty much every day and sometimes twice a day.

Interestingly I have a friend who’s 68 and all natural and can have sex everyday and sometimes twice a day as well. He divorced about 6yrs ago so is dating. He sometimes has trouble finding a woman who can keep up with him wanting sex everyday but he’s found a few. I can attest I’ve heard right from their mouth saying they’re willing, able and can have multiple orgasms a day!!! lol.
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Is your wife injecting test? If so how much is she taking?
 

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