How often you guys have sex?

[Rajput]

I don’t see how a normal guy can afford that shit — you’ve got to make a lot of dough to have 2+ women…

Or get a sugar mommy

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[Rajput]

Im married to a woman that has zero sex drive now so I basically have to bribe her to get it once a month,if im lucky,if only I knew this is what it would turn into before I said I do.

Get a side chick.

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[oldbull]

Or get a sugar mommy

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Then I’d have three women making me do yard work — my wife, my mistress, and my sugar mama. That’s how life works when you look like an overgrown rodent, lol

 

[BigBoy308]

I have more sex now at 49 on TRT and roids than i ever did in my youth.
I wouldnt call it sex though. I make love to my woman. After being together or over a year she stll gets to me. I feel like a sissy all emotional and shit when with her hahaha.
Good love making all boils down to the connection you have with your partner. If you have no connecton, many people including myself woudnt even be able to get an erection. I see that problem alot on here and people refuse to admit thats the problem in their relationship. They like to think some blood marker is out of wack when its not.
As @Syntha Claus would say, "if your dick isnt working, time to find a new lady". Stop blaming roids

I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ll be 51 in January. My wife is the same age. We’re both on our second marriage and we have thoroughly untucked ourselves by this point in our lives.

We have an amazing connection, and we both know how lucky we are. She’s going through menopause, but has been working so hard to make sure that my needs are met. And she has her moments as well, so when her libido is working, my focus is on her pleasure, not mine.

We still fuck. She likes fucking and she likes to get fucked. I’m all in on that, and I’m also a romantic who really enjoys slow lovemaking where we are the only two people in the world at that moment.

She enjoys it as well, I’m just the one that gets excited about and remembers all the small details and replays them in my head and tells her about it.

Fuck, I am so blessed.

 

[lottalead]

not even close to enough

 

[LiverKing01]

I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ll be 51 in January. My wife is the same age. We’re both on our second marriage and we have thoroughly untucked ourselves by this point in our lives.

We have an amazing connection, and we both know how lucky we are. She’s going through menopause, but has been working so hard to make sure that my needs are met. And she has her moments as well, so when her libido is working, my focus is on her pleasure, not mine.

We still fuck. She likes fucking and she likes to get fucked. I’m all in on that, and I’m also a romantic who really enjoys slow lovemaking where we are the only two people in the world at that moment.

She enjoys it as well, I’m just the one that gets excited about and remembers all the small details and replays them in my head and tells her about it.

Fuck, I am so blessed.

Good shit. Alot of these guys run into problems as they get older I believe. All that banging girls gets old when you get to a certain age I think. Let it go on too long, you start thinking about your ego and start worrying about your pecker getting hard in stead of looking at the woman you with. Next point, you lose that connection with your dick and all those signals in your brain get fucked up and now it don't work no matter who is laying in front of you. All I can say, is for those guys in a relationship where they don't have connection anymore with the lady and find it hard to get it up, its time to move on or reestablish a connection with your girl. That takes time and sometimes what's done is done. Try opening up the car door for her everytime she gets in or out is a good starting place.
Ok, DR Phil out.......

 

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[AR-15]

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[oldbull]

I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’ll be 51 in January. My wife is the same age. We’re both on our second marriage and we have thoroughly untucked ourselves by this point in our lives.

We have an amazing connection, and we both know how lucky we are. She’s going through menopause, but has been working so hard to make sure that my needs are met. And she has her moments as well, so when her libido is working, my focus is on her pleasure, not mine.

We still fuck. She likes fucking and she likes to get fucked. I’m all in on that, and I’m also a romantic who really enjoys slow lovemaking where we are the only two people in the world at that moment.

She enjoys it as well, I’m just the one that gets excited about and remembers all the small details and replays them in my head and tells her about it.

Fuck, I am so blessed.

Good for you, but all that is on account of it being your second marriage. If you were the same age and been together since you were teenagers, you’d be in my shoes. Not that I am complaining — it just isn’t all that exciting anymore. But with all the boozing and other dumb shit I have done, I feel lucky my old lady has stuck with me. Better a bit boring than alone or dead…

 

[AR-15]

Get a side chick.

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My man. Best advice I’ve seen on here in 2025 by FAR!

 

[BigBoy308]

Good for you, but all that is on account of it being your second marriage. If you were the same age and been together since you were teenagers, you’d be in my shoes. Not that I am complaining — it just isn’t all that exciting anymore. But with all the boozing and other dumb shit I have done, I feel lucky my old lady has stuck with me. Better a bit boring than alone or dead…

I understand, my man. Trust me, I went through hell with my ex wife and divorce and being alienated from my boys for no other reason but spite. I stayed away from being in a relationship of any kind for 15+ years.

I’ve had to completely reinvent myself as a man and completely start over in my career in my mid 40s. I always find a way to get my shit together, and I don’t ever stop working to improve things. I won’t ever settle again, and I won’t deny myself what I need to have peace and be happy.

That includes in my relationships. I’m blessed in that my wife feels the same and understands that it’s important that we both are getting what we need from the relationship. So we communicate openly about everything and we have mutual respect. If she’s unhappy, so am I and vice versa.

It takes work by both parties to keep it interesting. I love to learn from the guys who have been doing it for a long time. What do y’all do to try to keep things fresh? Do y’all try to be spontaneous? Use toys/props? Go on dates?

Any advice for us?

 

[Milford King]

I get laid so often now I might as well be gay.

I was trying to tell my wife to get a hormone panel done and that women do have testosterone and she could take a very small amount and maybe want to get some again.


But I fear I may have to look elsewhere again. Or continue to be celibate.

I swear im not ugly and I’ve been with enough women to know my way around the battle field.

I think my wife hates me.

And rightfully so, I guess.

Silver lining, I can fulfill my true destiny. And take over the world

 

[oldbull]

I understand, my man. Trust me, I went through hell with my ex wife and divorce and being alienated from my boys for no other reason but spite. I stayed away from being in a relationship of any kind for 15+ years.

I’ve had to completely reinvent myself as a man and completely start over in my career in my mid 40s. I always find a way to get my shit together, and I don’t ever stop working to improve things. I won’t ever settle again, and I won’t deny myself what I need to have peace and be happy.

That includes in my relationships. I’m blessed in that my wife feels the same and understands that it’s important that we both are getting what we need from the relationship. So we communicate openly about everything and we have mutual respect. If she’s unhappy, so am I and vice versa.

It takes work by both parties to keep it interesting. I love to learn from the guys who have been doing it for a long time. What do y’all do to try to keep things fresh? Do y’all try to be spontaneous? Use toys/props? Go on dates?

Any advice for us?

I’ve been with my wife for over 25 years and actually have found that over-talking things tends to be a bad idea. It makes the other person defensive and just ends up starting arguments that escalate.
It’s better to just intuitively try to accommodate the other person and vice versa.
The fact is, either you get accustomed and accept the things you don’t like in a relationship or you let them fester. I don’t get resentful that we don’t have as much exciting sex as we used to, because we’re getting older and have been together a long time. It was bound to happen. Even 10 years ago, we were randomly having sex outdoors and stuff, and I could not see that happening anymore.
But it would do no good to say I miss that and wish we could go back to behaving that way. It would just make her feel bad.
Better to just resign myself to how things are now and realize shit could be worse. She still cooks and cleans for me, and puts up with my hours of silent and unresponsive woodworking, without gallivanting around to bars and whatnot.
If I broke things off, I know I’d be miserable within a few days. And if I found some new chick, inevitably there would be other issues. It would never be worth it. That’s just the nature of life.

 

[oldbull]

I get laid so often now I might as well be gay.

I was trying to tell my wife to get a hormone panel done and that women do have testosterone and she could take a very small amount and maybe want to get some again.


But I fear I may have to look elsewhere again. Or continue to be celibate.

I swear im not ugly and I’ve been with enough women to know my way around the battle field.

I think my wife hates me.

And rightfully so, I guess.

Silver lining, I can fulfill my true destiny. And take over the world

It’s not that our wives hate us, and the lack of sex drive doesn’t necessarily relate to our appearance. It has more to do with the fact we have become so familiar and boring to them that they just don’t see us the same way anymore. We’re like an old reliable station wagon rather than an exciting new sports car. No amount of talking will change that, so we just have to resign ourselves to the lack of enthusiam.
But if your wife is totally unwilling to have sex with you, I would agree that is a pretty serious problem.
Mine will accommodate my occasional horniness without much enthusiasm, much as I will carry heavy objects for her or throw scary spiders outside.

If your old lady is unwilling to at least do that much, I’d say she’s being pretty selfish. It might be one of the few times I think you might just have to straight up ask what the deal is and make clear it’s bothering you.
As I said above, nitpicking at shit is pointless, but if something escalates to the point the relationship has become totally a one-way street, then you probably have no choice but to speak up…

 

[Milford King]

It’s not that our wives hate us, and the lack of sex drive doesn’t necessarily relate to our appearance. It has more to do with the fact we have become so familiar and boring to them that they just don’t see us the same way anymore. We’re like an old reliable station wagon rather than an exciting new sports car. No amount of talking will change that, so we just have to resign ourselves to the lack of enthusiam.
But if your wife is totally unwilling to have sex with you, I would agree that is a pretty serious problem.
Mine will accommodate my occasional horniness without much enthusiasm, much as I will carry heavy objects for her or throw scary spiders outside.

If your old lady is unwilling to at least do that much, I’d say she’s being pretty selfish. It might be one of the few times I think you might just have to straight up ask what the deal is and make clear it’s bothering you.
As I said above, nitpicking at shit is pointless, but if something escalates to the point the relationship has become totally a one-way street, then you probably have no choice but to speak up…

I heard a slutty feminist (you know the kind) say : “ you gotta fuck the war out of them”

And I agree with her.

As far as my wife goes… her insecurities have always been an obstacle… or an excuse.

Im thinking about giving up on my hobbies and becoming a fat alcoholic and then going gay (not for the sex, but for the fishing)

And an occasional blowjob here and there.

Then I’m gonna set myself on fire in my kayak … til Valhalla !

 

[lottalead]

Would like more than a couple a week but menopause hit and its really kicked things in the head (or balls).

menopause should be illegal!!!

 

[rdm]

I heard a slutty feminist (you know the kind) say : “ you gotta fuck the war out of them”

And I agree with her.

As far as my wife goes… her insecurities have always been an obstacle… or an excuse.

Im thinking about giving up on my hobbies and becoming a fat alcoholic and then going gay (not for the sex, but for the fishing)

And an occasional blowjob here and there.

Then I’m gonna set myself on fire in my kayak … til Valhalla !

Well if you're gonna go the gay route then stay in shape, I think that increases your odds in that market. Maybe solicit some advice from kilsong if he ever come back.

 

[Milford King]

Well if you're gonna go the gay route then stay in shape, I think that increases your odds in that market. Maybe solicit some advice from kilsong if he ever come back.

Lol …

gay guys used to hit on me all the time….like coach Cabo just said about the wall. Old queers don’t even wanna smash anymore. Haha

 

[oldbull]

I heard a slutty feminist (you know the kind) say : “ you gotta fuck the war out of them”

And I agree with her.

As far as my wife goes… her insecurities have always been an obstacle… or an excuse.

Im thinking about giving up on my hobbies and becoming a fat alcoholic and then going gay (not for the sex, but for the fishing)

And an occasional blowjob here and there.

Then I’m gonna set myself on fire in my kayak … til Valhalla !

I guess this explains why you are hoping for the apocalypse, lol…

Seriously, though, your wife probably does have insecurities and it is not just an excuse.

My wife used to be much more adventurous with me sexually but now she feels old and doesn’t even want the light on.

You gotta feel for them, because they’re a lot more invested in their looks than men are. At least most men. Maybe not on a steroid forum, lol.

My gift is that I have always been pretty homely looking so I don’t get upset about it. I won the wife over based on personality and that remains largely unchanged…

 

[Wally954]

menopause should be illegal!!!

My wife is going through it too, I have a friend whose wife takes progesterone and it turned her into a teenager again supposedly, I’m trying to get my wife on it, but she won’t do it, she has hot flashes like every 10 minutes and she’s sweating from her neck to her legs, if it gets rid of the hot flashes alone, it would be so worth it, I tell her she can bypass the menopause and feel great for a few years , my wife is a trooper though, we have sex at least 5 to 10 times a week, if I don’t get laid For a day and a half I start going crazy

 

[Milford King]

I guess this explains why you are hoping for the apocalypse, lol…

Seriously, though, your wife probably does have insecurities and it is not just an excuse.

My wife used to be much more adventurous with me sexually but now she feels old and doesn’t even want the light on.

You gotta feel for them, because they’re a lot more invested in their looks than men are. At least most men. Maybe not on a steroid forum, lol.

My gift is that I have always been pretty homely looking so I don’t get upset about it. I won the wife over based on personality and that remains largely unchanged…

My wife is good looking. One of the hottest girls in her school when I popped her cherry. We used to bump uglies every chance we got and I was horrible at sex back then.

If it’s insecurities that’s a cop out… Ibe hammered on fatties and straight up homely looking girls that were straight up freaks with no shame. Lol

If its boredom… I’ll send her your way and you send me yours.

But seriously I’m just bitchin for no reason other than I honestly think I’m going through a mid life crisis or something.

I might smash this new girl at work. Then get divorced and not be able to afford internet access…. And if that happens we will surely lose the meme war.

 

[oldbull]

My wife is good looking. One of the hottest girls in her school when I popped her cherry. We used to bump uglies every chance we got and I was horrible at sex back then.

If it’s insecurities that’s a cop out… Ibe hammered on fatties and straight up homely looking girls that were straight up freaks with no shame. Lol

If its boredom… I’ll send her your way and you send me yours.

But seriously I’m just bitchin for no reason other than I honestly think I’m going through a mid life crisis or something.

I might smash this new girl at work. Then get divorced and not be able to afford internet access…. And if that happens we will surely lose the meme war.

Women are complicated and feel insecure regardless of whether you are standing there with a boner or willing to fuck a warthog. They compare themselves to how they looked at 20 extremely critically and get depressed about it.

As a Catholic, I can’t condone adulterous sex, but if you do fuck the girl at work, just don’t get caught. In other words, no silly phone games, meet only when you have an alibi sewn up, and above all, don’t let the girl get any ideas about long-term commitment.

In fact, fuck her a few times, then get super clingy and annoying so she dumps you and wants nothing to do with you. Much better option than having her trying to destroy your marriage because she thinks she can force you to leave your wife.

Like I said, I don’t condone that behavior, but if you wife is legitimately giving you zero point zero sex — rather than just going through the motions and not being enthusiastic — then I think it will be defensible when you face St. Peter.

Might end up with a few extra years in purgatory, but I imagine you probably think it is worth it at this point.

The important thing is to not get caught and let it destroy your whole lives together. Better off not going down that path at all, but human nature being what it is…

 

[Milford King]

Women are complicated and feel insecure regardless of whether you are standing there with a boner or willing to fuck a warthog. They compare themselves to how they looked at 20 extremely critically and get depressed about it.

As a Catholic, I can’t condone adulterous sex, but if you do fuck the girl at work, just don’t get caught. In other words, no silly phone games, meet only when you have an alibi sewn up, and above all, don’t let the girl get any ideas about long-term commitment.

In fact, fuck her a few times, then get super clingy and annoying so she dumps you and wants nothing to do with you. Much better option than having her trying to destroy your marriage because she thinks she can force you to leave your wife.

Like I said, I don’t condone that behavior, but if you wife is legitimately giving you zero point zero sex — rather than just going through the motions and not being enthusiastic — then I think it will be defensible when you face St. Peter.

Might end up with a few extra years in purgatory, but I imagine you probably think it is worth it at this point.

The important thing is to not get caught and let it destroy your whole lives together. Better off not going down that path at all, but human nature being what it is…

Yeah I’m not a scumbag like that, anymore. My wife and I have a lot of history…. And built our lives together. No hot piece of ass is worth losing that, at this point in the game at least. Plus, I love the bitch.

Appreciate the pep talk though. Just gotta stay focused on the short term goals that I have. And play it by ear.

Peace and love to all my married and divorced ASF bros.

Tis the season. Hope everyone has a blessed holiday and end of the year.

 

[lottalead]

My wife is going through it too, I have a friend whose wife takes progesterone and it turned her into a teenager again supposedly, I’m trying to get my wife on it, but she won’t do it, she has hot flashes like every 10 minutes and she’s sweating from her neck to her legs, if it gets rid of the hot flashes alone, it would be so worth it, I tell her she can bypass the menopause and feel great for a few years , my wife is a trooper though, we have sex at least 5 to 10 times a week, if I don’t get laid For a day and a half I start going crazy

my wife won't do any drugs at all and it pisses me off because she actually needs some! menopause 7 years now!

 

[Wally954]

my wife won't do any drugs at all and it pisses me off because she actually needs some! menopause 7 years now!

Same here, I can’t believe how much she suffers and she still won’t try the hormones, I don’t know how they can deal with it for so long and just let it ride when there is a solution

 

[lottalead]

Same here, I can’t believe how much she suffers and she still won’t try the hormones, I don’t know how they can deal with it for so long and just let it ride when there is a solution

don't know if i am glad to see other people with my problem or not

 

[oldbull]

Yeah I’m not a scumbag like that, anymore. My wife and I have a lot of history…. And built our lives together. No hot piece of ass is worth losing that, at this point in the game at least. Plus, I love the bitch.

Appreciate the pep talk though. Just gotta stay focused on the short term goals that I have. And play it by ear.

Peace and love to all my married and divorced ASF bros.

Tis the season. Hope everyone has a blessed holiday and end of the year.

Just take up woodworking to keep your mind occupied and drink booze to kill your sex drive — worked for me!

 

[Milford King]

my wife won't do any drugs at all and it pisses me off because she actually needs some! menopause 7 years now!

Same here. I asked her to get a hormone panel and that she can take a tiny bit of test without fear but she won’t do it. I need to get my hands on some type of drug that makes her a dirty little nympho…. If such thing exists…. Slip it in the coffee.

 

[Milford King]

Just take up woodworking to keep your mind occupied and drink booze to kill your sex drive — worked for me!

Been there done that. I’m getting back into playing guitar and teaching my son some riffs but playing in a band or even just jamming again makes me miss partying. And I’m not sure I should go back down that path.

 

[Big Puppy]

Same here. I asked her to get a hormone panel and that she can take a tiny bit of test without fear but she won’t do it. I need to get my hands on some type of drug that makes her a dirty little nympho…. If such thing exists…. Slip it in the coffee.

a 31g 5/16 slin pin of 5iu test in the butt while she's asleep might work. As she wakes up, slap her on the butt and claim it's a spider. Couple weeks in and she'll be begging for it.
Who said I don't have good ideas....