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Bullseye Forever

Bullseye Forever

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Well to narrow a long story,I was on the hospital for 15 days back in October of last year and I got one month behind on my rent and I’ve tried to get caught up every month but not all of it and my la lord can by yesterday’ and collected this months rent and she said if I couldn’t pay her all
Of what I owe her by May I’d havet to move so looks like I’m having to get out of my apartment at the end of April and get me another place so this has been nerve racking to me today I gotta get my mind focused and start looking for another place this week. Just posted this to get some support from all my brothers to get my butt in gear and find me a place don’t have any friends here to rely on but all yall
 
Keep your head up bro. Stay positive no matter what bullshit comes along. It’s never easy but the more positive you stay in your head the more positive outcomes will show up. Maybe a new apartment will set off a whole new outlook on life brother. Everything happens for a reason so hopefully this is that one shitty thing that turns the entire table in your favor. Stay a good person and good things will come your way. You’ll see.
 
AR-15 said:
Everything happens for a reason so hopefully this is that one shitty thing that turns the entire table in your favor.
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I actually was thinking about this on the ride to work today. I went way back 20 years and started thinking about the things that I thought were bad at the time but started thinking about the good opportunities that they led to.

"If that wouldn't have happened, I wouldn't have ended up there."

What i started to realize that my life hasn't only been just a series of bad events, but it had also been a series of positive events that came as a result of the bad.

....Damn, so much to keep thinking about. I even thought about making a map
 
AR-15 said:
Keep your head up bro. Stay positive no matter what bullshit comes along. It’s never easy but the more positive you stay in your head the more positive outcomes will show up. Maybe a new apartment will set off a whole new outlook on life brother. Everything happens for a reason so hopefully this is that one shitty thing that turns the entire table in your favor. Stay a good person and good things will come your way. You’ll see.
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Man thanks so very much for the positive comments and your right everything happensnfir a reason and thinking be a blessing in disguise
 
Big_Jimmy434 said:
I actually was thinking about this on the ride to work today. I went way back 20 years and started thinking about the things that I thought were bad at the time but started thinking about the good opportunities that they led to.

"If that wouldn't have happened, I wouldn't have ended up there."

What i started to realize that my life hasn't only been just a series of bad events, but it had also been a series of positive events that came as a result of the bad.

....Damn, so much to keep thinking about. I even thought about making a map
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Things could be worse ya know man
 
Bullseye Forever said:
Things could be worse ya know man
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With all respect, I hate this phrase. Tell a man that's slowly drowning in the ocean, "Well, could be worse. At least you're not on fire." That phrase really doesn't do much along the lines of encouragement, and it damn sure doesn't save him from drowning. Its the proverbial, "embrace the suck" which has never actually never really helped anyone embrace the suck. The phrase itself screams, "I'm drowning and I don't know what else to tell myself so I'll just keep drowning and remind myself of all worse things as I continue to drown in this thing. " These dialogs (internal and external) are important because they have power.

So for you or anyone else that feels like they are drowning in "life," I'm yelling at you today...

Quit trying to logic through this shit-tuation by thinking about worse shit-tuations. I know you feel scared, but you're not gonna drown. We won't let you. Gather your composure, calm yourself down, and focus. Now kick your damn feet, move your arms, and paddle your ass over here and grab my hand. I'm here. We're all here. You're gonna be alright! You can do it. SWIM DAMNIT!
 
Big_Jimmy434 said:
With all respect, I hate this phrase. Tell a man that's slowly drowning in the ocean, "Well, could be worse. At least you're not on fire." That phrase really doesn't do much along the lines of encouragement, and it damn sure doesn't save him from drowning. Its the proverbial, "embrace the suck" which has never actually never really helped anyone embrace the suck. The phrase itself screams, "I'm drowning and I don't know what else to tell myself so I'll just keep drowning and remind myself of all worse things as I continue to drown in this thing. " These dialogs (internal and external) are important because they have power.

So for you or anyone else that feels like they are drowning in "life," I'm yelling at you today...

Quit trying to logic through this shit-tuation by thinking about worse shit-tuations. I know you feel scared, but you're not gonna drown. We won't let you. Gather your composure, calm yourself down, and focus. Now kick your damn feet, move your arms, and paddle your ass over here and grab my hand. I'm here. We're all here. You're gonna be alright! You can do it. SWIM DAMNIT!
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embrace the suck, because adversity builds character, everyman falls its how we pick ourselves up that defines us
 
heckler7 said:
embrace the suck, because adversity builds character, everyman falls its how we pick ourselves up that defines us
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Its all about picking yourself back up whether or not you "embrace" it or not. Embracing has nothing to do with it.

But You're absolutely right. 100 Agree. Adversity builds strength. This is the same as weight training. Stress creates growth and strength.
 
I wanted to share this story that a retired marine told me today at work. I'll try to make it short...

Last week of boot camp and the had to climb Mt. MF. 3 big hills, 3 big plateaus. Dont slow down through the flats. Keep the same pace. Rough hill, only 2 more. Damn, I'm tired but I only got 1 more. I can make it. Last hill, I got this. Then you find out, there are 2 more hills. 5 total. Not 3. But I've already made it through 3 so I believe in myself now. I can make it. They made it and look back down at what they've accomplished.

The DI: If i told you there were 5 hills, it would seem over whelming to you, but 3 you can handle. After the first 3, you started believing in yourself and made the push through. You made it. Now, pickup a rock and put it in your pocket. Take it back down and give it to those guys standing there and ita day 1 for them. They're afraid. Just like you were on your first day. Give them the rock and remind them that if you were strong enough to make it through, then they can make it too.

To all my brother's like @Bullseye Forever, here's my rock brother. I made it through and you can too. You dont know how many hills life has for you, but believe in yourself and Just Keep climbing.

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Thanks bro !! Well the landlord wouldn’t tell me all this face ti face she had total me on text message which is as pussybif you ask me she scared to tell face ti face so I’ve been looking all day yesterday and next week when I calm down I’m really get in the ball and try and find one this just caught me off guard and it’s been devastating!!And bring the story you just told me hit home and had a moral to the story and it helps so but much
 
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Go to chat GPT.

Tell it (gpt) to act like a lawyer in your state. give it ALL the details of your situation.

then ask it to draft documentation about the legality of the situation and what the landlord is allowed to do and what she cant. next time she comes back just show her that.

99% chance it's illegal to evict you for being partially 1 months behind. some libtard states you can not pay rent for like a year before they can evict you
 
celrin321 said:
Go to chat GPT.

Tell it (gpt) to act like a lawyer in your state. give it ALL the details of your situation.

then ask it to draft documentation about the legality of the situation and what the landlord is allowed to do and what she cant. next time she comes back just show her that.

99% chance it's illegal to evict you for being partially 1 months behind. some libtard states you can not pay rent for like a year before they can evict you
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Man you’ve given me some hope !!!! Snd I didn’t think that i could be theee out isn’t a months rent I’m gonna make an appointment with my lawyer this week and sees what my rights are
 
I only have 2 1/2 weeks left fo find a place and then I don’t know what I’m gonna do then I guess sleep in my car in my sisters driveway
 

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