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Answer me this..keys to a successful marriage?

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well---been with wife 46 years---yes we fought! yes we loved and hated each other---basically a very good marriage until menopause arrived---- now she is grumpy and hates sex -----so if you do have a great marriage the second menopause starts have the meds ready and sneak them to her before its too late lol---other than that you both need to learn to kiss ass and suffer a bit
 
macedog24 said:
Communication, respect, appreciation, no secrets.. have to make time for each other... this should always be a priority..
one person cannot work and take on all the burdens and stress alone. When your struggling and the other complain its not enough you need to work more..or do more. While she stays at home and spend like you have money growing out your ass..
This is a touchy subject for me right now. I was asked for a divorce recently... but ill leave it at that..
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That sucks brother. I’m sorry you’re going through it. I’ve been there.
 
Augustine5I said:
There is so much to be said on this topic.

Obviously ppl can be at different stages of marriage.

Beginning? Everything is great and fucking all the time.
Many years in? Sleeping in a separate bedroom begging for sex.

Sounds amazing right? lol.

IMO marry your best friend and be as compatible as possible. You will get along most often and argue less.

Be equally yoked.

Choose each other everyday. Make each other the priority over everyone else.

Keep attention to your marriage and water your own grass to keep it greener.
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I like this.
 
lottalead said:
well---been with wife 46 years---yes we fought! yes we loved and hated each other---basically a very good marriage until menopause arrived---- now she is grumpy and hates sex -----so if you do have a great marriage the second menopause starts have the meds ready and sneak them to her before its too late lol---other than that you both need to learn to kiss ass and suffer a bit
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TRT clinics for women is a growing thing for women. It helps everything.
 
lottalead said:
well---been with wife 46 years---yes we fought! yes we loved and hated each other---basically a very good marriage until menopause arrived---- now she is grumpy and hates sex -----so if you do have a great marriage the second menopause starts have the meds ready and sneak them to her before its too late lol---other than that you both need to learn to kiss ass and suffer a bit
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Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
 
Almost 20 years of experience. I've been on all 4 sides of the fence. Grass isn't greener over there.

By year 6-7, you'll both get lazy and complacent. Someone usually cheats; this is where most marriages are done.

You gotta find someone you don't hate being around. We are like 2 good friends that can still do hood rat shit together and have sex whenever we want.
 
HAAM said:
Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
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Have a friend dealing with that, where he was looking at moving out. She got some hormone therapy to stabilize everything and helped fix a lot of the issues.
 
going on 22 years married.
make time for each other no matter what. Life gets busy and hectic, but you cant stop making the time to show each other love.
Don't get resentful or hold a grudge. If something is bothering either one of you, you gotta be able to communicate, or it will become a big deal. and you gotta be able to communicate without firing shots.
Have to accept each others faults as part of the whole. IF you are choosing this person, that is all of them, that includes their faults.
 
Beats me, divorced after 30 years and 35 together. I guess 27 "good" years. She moved out a in June over 2 years ago after a year of counseling. But now that I am with a woman who isn't boring, likes to do things, and have sex everyday as opposed to not really liking it, i now know how miserable i was married te last 15 or so years. Cost me a shit load of money and she made a shit load profit. Fucking Cunt. Haven't seen her or voiced talked to her in well over a year. she sent a fathers day text which went unanswered
 
SB Labs
Most of all these advice is solid, I’ve been married for 12 years and been together for 14year. Like most have already said is communication. She has to understand how you communicate and you have to know how she communicates. Man and woman don’t communicate the same but understand each other and being an open book helps. that the biggest because that’s what helps in every hard time you guys fall on.
You are going to be a different person when you age and so will she, you guys have to grow with each other not away from each other. Marriage isn’t easy but it’s damn sure worth it to have that ride or die chick next to you.

Also sex! A lot and a lot of sex.
 
Sirchon said:
Have a friend dealing with that, where he was looking at moving out. She got some hormone therapy to stabilize everything and helped fix a lot of the issues.
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I tried to get her to get them checked, but all she would do was get estrogen checked. Even though I read a list of her low T symptoms.
 
Sirchon said:
Have a friend dealing with that, where he was looking at moving out. She got some hormone therapy to stabilize everything and helped fix a lot of the issues.
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I tried to get her to get them checked, but all she would do was get estrogen checked. Even though I read a list of her low T symptoms.
 
HAAM said:
Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
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believe me i have tried everything but she does no script drugs or otc only Excedrin and some weed ----she had a reaction to penicillin years ago and now refuses everything --2 back surgeries and refused pain meds-----it sucks but i can't force her
 
HAAM said:
Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
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She doesnt want help, refuses it. And the option for trt/hrt. ..
No Way Omg GIF by Catholic Connect
 
ldog said:
Good am P.S.L. team!

For those who have been married for a long time, what have you discovered as the keys to a great marriage?

I value everyone’s opinion on this.

L
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Make sure you're not having repeated arguents/fights over the same recurring issue. That is a major red flag. Always find resolution or at least some sort of middle ground that allows you to go to sleep with some level of peace. Oh and don't be a dick lol.
 
Another one - make her laugh.

doesn’t need to be a full comedy routine with new material every week. Often I’m just making jokes about what a retard I can be sometimes. If I noticed it, you can be sure she did too.
 
ldog said:
Good am P.S.L. team!

For those who have been married for a long time, what have you discovered as the keys to a great marriage?

I value everyone’s opinion on this.

L
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Trading in every 7 years and getting that prenup.

😉

Lease them. Way less stressful.
 
Simply put, communication. Whether that be spoken, implied or body language. That applies to communicating the good, bad and the ugly. Let me take it a step further, if you're explaining something or even worse finding the need to explain something, you've already lost. Oh and never go to bed angry, stay up and plot revenge!
 
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lottalead said:
yeah if i could get her to do it!
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Wife sees me thriving for years and doing much better than the old me. Still thinks is all BS and I'm trying to be sure she'll get cancer.
I'm sure you all have great responses for someone with this attitude. Looking forward to reading them.
 
HAAM said:
Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
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Absolutely
 
HAAM said:
Another one - make her laugh.

doesn’t need to be a full comedy routine with new material every week. Often I’m just making jokes about what a retard I can be sometimes. If I noticed it, you can be sure she did too.
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Truth
 
Just don’t. Been married 18 years. At this point its just asset protection lol.. You’ll be better off being unmarried. The whole thing is just a fuckin scam cooked up between the church and government to make people/slaves think they have more rights than they actually do... All women just kinda gross me out these days anyways…

Get married < injecting Deca. Thats how I party now. That usually keeps me pretty happy now instead lol
 
HAAM said:
Perimenopause and Menopause can fuck women up. They may not even know wtf is happening to them. COMMUNICATE. talk about symptoms, research potential remedies together. Get her bloodwork done, lol. No shit. Test and progesterone can help a ton.
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0.04mg test a week makes a world of difference for the mental rollercoaster 👍
 

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