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55, healthy, on TRT at 160/week for about 5 years. I have done a few 500 cycles in the past. I have done a few deca and anavar cycles in the past. Nothing but 160/wk TRT for over a year or so.

I take 10mg Cialis daily from legit GP doc. Started at 5 for about a year and went to 10 for about a year now.

I have lost most all of my sex drive.

Here is my situation so I can include details for insight.

WIfe died about 8 years ago from brain cancer. I didn't date for about a year. Then I did. It went well for a while but fell apart. I met a girl who wanted to be just FWB and that was good with me. Then i met another. Then another. Yes, then another. At one time, I had 6 women all as FWB. This was nice as someone who was with the same girl since I was 15 till she died. Never cheated.

That was too much too handle and keep everyone satisfied so a few faded out, which was fine. I was done to 3, which was a good balance and especially after having 6. I could actually have some free night to not do anything but chill out at home or whatever.

I have kind of been in that state for the past few years. One leaves the group - finds a boyfriend, falls in love with me when she knows I don't feel the same and leaves, moves away, etc. I come across another. Only one has been with me since the beginning.

Lately over the last month, I fucking dread having to maintain the "relationship" or lose it with all of them. I find myself "lying" that am sick, have a family thing, etc. to not spend time with any of them.

I am having a huge issue with finishing during sex over the last month. This has moved to being unable to stay hard during. I just 10000% lose all interest mid-fuck.

I don't know if this is a mental thing, an age thing, a hormone thing, wtf.

I literally had a woman just message me that "she wants to stop by on her way to work and suck me off and then go to work". She is porn start material at that task honestly but it made my stomach turn. I lied and said my sister was coming over for dinner and I couldn't. My sister lives 200 miles away!! lol

I don't know really know but I don't want to live without a sex drive. Eventually, I want to find ONE woman and maybe this is my sign/message to do just that and live a "normal" life.

No, I haven't gotten bloods done to what my status is. Last night was a wakeup call after losing it mid stream with a much above average looking woman. I just 100% lost interest mid-fuck like I said above. We have been together enough times where it wasn't a big deal for her but I stay awake a long time thinking things over. Not really sure who to ask about shit like this so I figured here even though I am not a well-known member.

Love any thoughts, advice, insight, etc.
 
They say those are the tell tales of a closeted gay man. I guess the monogamy at the beginning of life would combat those signs tho. Welp maybe you’re gay. Don’t shoot the messenger just reach up in there and pull out what ever it is you’re feeling ya know.
 
Cypher said:
Assuming someone’s sexuality based on "stereotypes" isn’t insight—it’s projection.

Sounds like you need to relect on your own feelings judging by your post, and the OP doesn't need someone else assigning them to him.
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Yea I knew it was not entirely correct to say. So I do apologize for the assessment. Regardless of the chemicals or the high E. Those are the correct attributes that conform psychologically in a pre homosexual man. If a women or multiple women don’t turn you on or can no longer satisfy you, there’s one other option. Well nowadays I guess there’s a few depending on their detachment on traditional scientific values. But nonetheless you are right a suggestion to seek professional therapy was more appropriate then saying “maybe your gay” .. butt, I’m just sayin.
 
Detroitgatsby said:
Yea I knew it was not entirely correct to say. So I do apologize for the assessment. Regardless of the chemicals or the high E. Those are the correct attributes that conform psychologically in a pre homosexual man. If a women or multiple women don’t turn you on or can no longer satisfy you, there’s one other option. Well nowadays I guess there’s a few depending on their detachment on traditional scientific values. But nonetheless you are right a suggestion to seek professional therapy was more appropriate then saying “maybe your gay” .. butt, I’m just sayin.
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All good.
 
I had some of those same issues, assuming your E2, progesterone and prolactin are all within range, you should try taking 500 IU EOD of HCG, that solved my libido in erection problems
 
cencal2235 said:
55, healthy, on TRT at 160/week for about 5 years. I have done a few 500 cycles in the past. I have done a few deca and anavar cycles in the past. Nothing but 160/wk TRT for over a year or so.

I take 10mg Cialis daily from legit GP doc. Started at 5 for about a year and went to 10 for about a year now.

I have lost most all of my sex drive.

Here is my situation so I can include details for insight.

WIfe died about 8 years ago from brain cancer. I didn't date for about a year. Then I did. It went well for a while but fell apart. I met a girl who wanted to be just FWB and that was good with me. Then i met another. Then another. Yes, then another. At one time, I had 6 women all as FWB. This was nice as someone who was with the same girl since I was 15 till she died. Never cheated.

That was too much too handle and keep everyone satisfied so a few faded out, which was fine. I was done to 3, which was a good balance and especially after having 6. I could actually have some free night to not do anything but chill out at home or whatever.

I have kind of been in that state for the past few years. One leaves the group - finds a boyfriend, falls in love with me when she knows I don't feel the same and leaves, moves away, etc. I come across another. Only one has been with me since the beginning.

Lately over the last month, I fucking dread having to maintain the "relationship" or lose it with all of them. I find myself "lying" that am sick, have a family thing, etc. to not spend time with any of them.

I am having a huge issue with finishing during sex over the last month. This has moved to being unable to stay hard during. I just 10000% lose all interest mid-fuck.

I don't know if this is a mental thing, an age thing, a hormone thing, wtf.

I literally had a woman just message me that "she wants to stop by on her way to work and suck me off and then go to work". She is porn start material at that task honestly but it made my stomach turn. I lied and said my sister was coming over for dinner and I couldn't. My sister lives 200 miles away!! lol

I don't know really know but I don't want to live without a sex drive. Eventually, I want to find ONE woman and maybe this is my sign/message to do just that and live a "normal" life.

No, I haven't gotten bloods done to what my status is. Last night was a wakeup call after losing it mid stream with a much above average looking woman. I just 100% lost interest mid-fuck like I said above. We have been together enough times where it wasn't a big deal for her but I stay awake a long time thinking things over. Not really sure who to ask about shit like this so I figured here even though I am not a well-known member.

Love any thoughts, advice, insight, etc.
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Hey man I have alot of goodies to help ya out. I normally try not to advertise in a thread but with this topic, you and anyone else reading will be glad I did.

Happened to me once. .and only once. Pulled a hot polish girl while on a massive cycle..didn't think she'd let me sleep w her first date. Well she did and I couldn't perform. It was so embarrassing. .thankfully I begged her, literally for another shot the next day. Popped 20mgs Cialis and 50mgs Viagra..1000iu HCG and tore into her for hours. She still talks about this years later 🤣🙃

Point being I understand this to be one of the most serious and sensitive issues a man can have. I keep Cialis in my gym bag and glove compartment just in case. I'll never let that happen to me ever ever again 🤣💪🏼👑

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Just curious if anyone could chime in, but I'm in a similar boat. On 150mg of test/wk and I have basically 0 sex drive. I kind of expected it to be like how I was when I was ages 13-23 and had a major porn addiction, but even that shit doesn't interest me now. I felt basically the same when I was rocking 300ng/dl on clomid so not even sure I'll continue the TRT. My E2 on that was even lower just FYI.
 
OK, I’m gonna recommend you some Tren 😂🤣 kidding kinda and some high octane for the get busy night. And some caber - why do you ask? Trust me you’re gonna come multiple times porn star style. Probably get on a regular dose of Cialis. 5 mg a day..
And get out of your head. She’s not that great. Just stick your cock in her mouth.
 
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Thanks for the replies. Going to get bloods in the next few days and then wait for the results.

Not gay.

Don't want a strictly chemical solution.

I already take 10mg Cialis daily that is prescribed by my GP.

Not sure I need a penis transplant :ROFLMAO:

I don't know. I guess wait for bloods and see if there is something that is a gotcha. Maybe it's mental. I think that I may be tired of the FWB life. It is kind of shitty. You can't really do normal shit like go to dinner, go out of town for a weekend, or even just watch a series on Netflix over a few weeks. Women don't work like that. They fall in love. They thing we are dating no matter how clear I make it that we aren't.

I haven't jerked off in probably 3 years or so. Serious. I have never had to. I want to fuck, I want a BJ, I text someone and it's taken care of. Maybe sissy, but it sucks that I haven't had a nice, sincere hug that lingers in probably 8 years.

I will wait for bloods and go from there.

I have never taken any HGC. i was always under the assumption that the only benefit was keeping fertility and ball size. Neither I really care about. I am fine with my raisins. Always a conversation the first time a woman goes searching around with her mouth. lol

Maybe I will get some of that and try it. Isn't it pricey? I will have to look it up. What is a recommended dosage/EOD/Weekly/whatever?

Thanks for all the comments and replies! One thing that I will add that I forgot is that I can't fucking sleep. It takes hours to fall asleep and I wake up constantly and can't get back to sleep. Crazy dreams too that are so fucking randomly about nothing.
 
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GYMnTONIC said:
Hey man I have alot of goodies to help ya out. I normally try not to advertise in a thread but with this topic, you and anyone else reading will be glad I did.

Happened to me once. .and only once. Pulled a hot polish girl while on a massive cycle..didn't think she'd let me sleep w her first date. Well she did and I couldn't perform. It was so embarrassing. .thankfully I begged her, literally for another shot the next day. Popped 20mgs Cialis and 50mgs Viagra..1000iu HCG and tore into her for hours. She still talks about this years later 🤣🙃

Point being I understand this to be one of the most serious and sensitive issues a man can have. I keep Cialis in my gym bag and glove compartment just in case. I'll never let that happen to me ever ever again 🤣💪🏼👑

Sexual Aids/Enhancers - Page 1 - GymNTonic.com

stores.gymntonic.com stores.gymntonic.com
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I take 10mg Cialis daily already. I have always heard NOT to take viagra if you take cialis daily. That is CAN be okay/safe in single shot doses of each but something about having it built up in your system makes the viagra not a wise idea. Thoughts?

Also, and I will go research this because I never even looked into HGC, but what does that do for limp dick issues/sex drive? Anything?
 
cencal2235 said:
Thanks for the replies. Going to get bloods in the next few days and then wait for the results.

Not gay.

Don't want a strictly chemical solution.

I already take 10mg Cialis daily that is prescribed by my GP.

Not sure I need a penis transplant

I don't know. I guess wait for bloods and see if there is something that is a gotcha. Maybe it's mental. I think that I may be tired of the FWB life. It is kind of shitty. You can't really do normal shit like go to dinner, go out of town for a weekend, or even just watch a series on Netflix over a few weeks. Women don't work like that. They fall in love. They thing we are dating no matter how clear I make it that we aren't.

I haven't jerked off in probably 3 years or so. Serious. I have never had to. I want to fuck, I want a BJ, I text someone and it's taken care of. Maybe sissy, but it sucks that I haven't had a nice, sincere hug that lingers in probably 8 years.

I will wait for bloods and go from there.

I have never taken any HGC. i was always under the assumption that the only benefit was keeping fertility and ball size. Neither I really care about. I am fine with my raisins. Always a conversation the first time a woman goes searching around with her mouth. lol

Maybe I will get some of that and try it. Isn't it pricey? I will have to look it up. What is a recommended dosage/EOD/Weekly/whatever?

Thanks for all the comments and replies! One thing that I will add that I forgot is that I can't fucking sleep. It takes hours to fall asleep and I wake up constantly and can't get back to sleep. Crazy dreams too that are so fucking randomly about nothing.
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I have a legitimate question here. In 1 paragraph you mention that these girls fall in love no matter how clear you make it that a relationship isn't something you are looking for, then in the next paragraph you say "maybe sissy" but you haven't had a sincere hug in 8 years.
Kind of contradictory, at least the way I read it.

I'm asking because some of the best sex I've had is when it's with a person I really care about or am in love with and that person feels the same way.

Maybe there's a psychological component as well that you need to address. The FWB's was great for awhile, then it just becomes meaningless after so much time.

It's not sissy to want intimacy and affection with someone you care about (maybe to some on this board it is, but to most people it's having a connection with someone that makes it better.)

I'd still get lab work done, but I'd explore other avenues as well. Might take a multimodal approach to get things right again

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Johnny1976 said:
I have a legitimate question here. In 1 paragraph you mention that these girls fall in love no matter how clear you make it that a relationship isn't something you are looking for, then in the next paragraph you say "maybe sissy" but you haven't had a sincere hug in 8 years.
Kind of contradictory, at least the way I read it.

I'm asking because some of the best sex I've had is when it's with a person I really care about or am in love with and that person feels the same way.

Maybe there's a psychological component as well that you need to address. The FWB's was great for awhile, then it just becomes meaningless after so much time.

It's not sissy to want intimacy and affection with someone you care about (maybe to some on this board it is, but to most people it's having a connection with someone that makes it better.)
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Boom 💯

@cencal2235 Assuming hormones are all in line, this is what I’d look at op. Over time meaningless sex becomes just that; meaningless sex. We can become used to anything. If after an extended period of time with literally 6 FWB man I’d be more surprised if you WERE still excited about it.

Letting us know you were with your wife for such a long time was actually a great detail. You really missed that period most likely (for a lot of us, early college age) where we are excited for freedom and “explore our sexuality” you could say (in simpler terms act like a man whore).

Everyone is different, and I personally after time really have completely lost the desire to have sex just for the sake of getting a nut. Now there’s other guys that through their entire life will pounce at any opportunity. Neither is wrong, neither is right. We’re all different and it’s your life.

Overexposure is real and has effects. We see it a lot with pornography. Just something to think about.

Maybe the “excitement” you’re looking to feel again is no longer going to be found in a simple hookup. You’ve done it enough perhaps and it’s not unusual at all for you to not feel the same way about it you once did.

But hey I’m also a lot younger and am yet to experience as much as many in here so maybe I’m way off, but just sharing my thoughts based on how things have worked out for me so far.
 
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Johnny1976 said:
I have a legitimate question here. In 1 paragraph you mention that these girls fall in love no matter how clear you make it that a relationship isn't something you are looking for, then in the next paragraph you say "maybe sissy" but you haven't had a sincere hug in 8 years.
Kind of contradictory, at least the way I read it.

I'm asking because some of the best sex I've had is when it's with a person I really care about or am in love with and that person feels the same way.

Maybe there's a psychological component as well that you need to address. The FWB's was great for awhile, then it just becomes meaningless after so much time.

It's not sissy to want intimacy and affection with someone you care about (maybe to some on this board it is, but to most people it's having a connection with someone that makes it better.)

I'd still get lab work done, but I'd explore other avenues as well. Might take a multimodal approach to get things right again

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Hey, thanks for the reply. I guess maybe the best way that I can answer you question is that I was never looking for a relationship with THEM. If had ever found the girl that liked my hobbies, shared similar interests, would put up with me and all that, I would have probably jumped at it.

I also think that it's fair to say that i could have turned some of the women I was FWB with into relationships like a normal fucking person but I shut that down in my head and heart because I DO like my freedom and lack of accountability to anyone.

It was a strange world to live in having never made a large, adult decision in your life by yourself to being 100% independent. Buying a new TV, furniture, setting up a vacation wtih the kids to Disney, whatever. Then you are totally in control of your money, time, sex, everything. I think I really liked that and didn't want to give it up.

I really fucked up with one girl in particular about 2 years ago that I would love to have back. She was crazy about me but i was stupid and looking back, I nit-picked her in my mind for the dumbest shit till I finally cut her loose. I would have been happy with her for sure looking back.

So to the point, I didn't mean to imply that "all" of the women I have been with fall in love with me. That isn't true at all if I made it sound like that. Some do, many don't. They like a good fuck with no strings as well for many. What I meant by not having a meaningful hug is honestly I don't allow that. Not that it's a rule or something like that but I close that up. Like I said above, I don't take a girl to dinner, a movie, anything. That blurs the line of fwb and dating I found long ago and makes things messy and feelings get hurt. I like that girls that i am fwb with. I don't want to hurt them. I am not a dick to them. They are all good people. I spent a good chunk of money on each for Christmas gifts.

Could I get a meaningful hug from them? Yes, for sure. Would it be like just standing in the kitchen on on a random Tuesday after work while meat is cooking and dropping a hug that lingers on my wife? Not even close. Closeness isn't intimacy. Licking a pussy while she cums 4-6 times isn't even intamacy if it isn't.

I think that is what has caught up with me...........or my bloods are fucked up and I am turning gay:confused:
 
FearsomeCOR said:
Boom 💯

@cencal2235 Assuming hormones are all in line, this is what I’d look at op. Over time meaningless sex becomes just that; meaningless sex. We can become used to anything. If after an extended period of time with literally 6 FWB man I’d be more surprised if you WERE still excited about it.

Letting us know you were with your wife for such a long time was actually a great detail. You really missed that period most likely (for a lot of us, early college age) where we are excited for freedom and “explore our sexuality” you could say (in simpler terms act like a man whore).

Everyone is different, and I personally after time really have completely lost the desire to have sex just for the sake of getting a nut. Now there’s other guys that through their entire life will pounce at any opportunity. Neither is wrong, neither is right. We’re all different and it’s your life.

Overexposure is real and has effects. We see it a lot with pornography. Just something to think about.

Maybe the “excitement” you’re looking to feel again is no longer going to be found in a simple hookup. You’ve done it enough perhaps and it’s not unusual at all for you to not feel the same way about it you once did.

But hey I’m also a lot younger and am yet to experience as much as many in here so maybe I’m way off, but just sharing my thoughts based on how things have worked out for me so far.
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This is what I have been considering the last few days. I don't watch porn ever but I think I have the same effect except that I have been desensitized to "real sex" by real sex rather than fantasy sex via porn.

A problem many guys would love to have I know. I think that it's still true though. Not sure.
 
mannn I feel like a slug off cycle. I had like 0 sex drive. It’s rediculous lol I think I broke my self. Before I started using gear I was always ready to go. Now , i could care less unless I’m on
 
cencal2235 said:
I don't watch porn ever but I think I have the same effect except that I have been desensitized to "real sex" by real sex rather than fantasy sex via porn.
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Of course man, exposure is exposure regardless the medium.
 

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