I have had two coaches. I have learned from both of them, but not in a way you’d expect.
One was initially what appears as “cookie cutter”, which is also what my programs might appear. But understand that a coach needs to start somewhere with what he knows and known results of that program. He doesn’t know you, so this is the only logical place to start.
Also, it gives a coach (me at least) and idea of what the new clients is doing. It won’t do any good to keep modifying a plan if the clients is only doing some of it. (This is 50% or more of clients from my experience. And I’m being generous.)
The best thing about this first coach is he would respond to any communication fairly quickly. I paid extra for “unlimited communication” and it was well worth it.
This is why unlimited communication is a part of my package. No extra charge. I have a new client that in his first month, I have probably spent four or five hours total just answering his texts. But I LOVE it. As someone who constantly seeks knowledge myself, I appreciate his desire to learn.
The first coach was an East Coast USA guy and we definitely didn’t see the world in the same way. But since I already know what I am doing and hired him as an “overwatch” only, I made my own adjustment. Most clients won’t have the capabilities of doing this.
(I described this before; where he wanted me to eat tilapia, but I have fresh fish available as I live in the #1 fishing place in the world.)
I wasn’t a fan of his one line responses either. Constantly asking for elaboration was a bit tedious. My goal for my clients is self efficacy. They can’t learn if things aren’t explained. If anything, I am long winded in my responses. (Surprise, surprise.)
That first coach took me to incredible shape at my first National show. No complaints. We still communicate, but mostly about our other passion; reptiles.
So when I hired my second coach, I knew what to ask. I pay him double what the first coach cost. After interviewing him, I hired him for several reasons that really aren’t worth getting into. But it badically comes down to the facts that he is old (my age of 60), he has a track record of many pro cards and he has a posing studio where he works with his clients closely concerning posing, which is my greatest weak spot.
I didn’t ask him about his thoughts on drugs, because I knew I would be making the final decision on them anyway. I am a very low drug guy, (only what is absolutely necessary) so I was going to keep with that concept regardless if he suggests grams.
Again, like the East Coaster, this guy seems to have little idea what the rest of the world is like. “Order this from Amazon…”, totally not understanding living in a 3rd world country, we can’t just get something instantly, on demand. We need lead time, if we can get it at all.
I have had mostly non-USA clients and one of the first thing I ask is, availability of food and supplements. Even now, for my American clients, I ask where they live and research what and where they can get items prescribed on my programs.
This brings up my second complaint; he doesn’t lay out anything for the future. I think some guys do this so you don’t abandon them. Sort of “hold their cards close”.
I know the concern, having laid out a program with a three month committment, only to never see payment for the second month. Too bad that people don’t understand that any of the info a coach can give is readily available everywhere on the internet. You pay the coach for adjustments and helping you sift through the internet garbage.
No matter who you choose, understand that you only get what you give. A coach should “vibe” with you in some way. You don’t have to be buddies, but you need to sort of “get” where each other is coming from.
Some guys want to be coddled. While I try to choose my words carefully, I have no tolerance for bullshit. I am as quick to fire a client as they are to fire me, if things aren’t working out.
As I mentioned, I (we) give out diets that produce known results. If you are eating exactly what we say, then we know what is going to happen. Lying is not lying to us. We know, trust me. You are only lying to yourself.
Lastly, no one seems to know the value of a qualified coach. But once they get one, they wonder why they waited so long. And they know exactly why they spent years accomplishing very little (if anything) before.
We coaches have coaches. What does that tell you?