Would you date a former prostitute?

[Swilly91]

Marry. No. Date? Meh they’d need to be a high end one. Not the back page $50 Friday special one

In reality though dating nowadays is basically escorting judging by all the feminist nonsense on social media. Women demanding expensive and lavish dates if men expect them to put out. It may not be straight cash in hand but demanding a $250+ dinner so that I MAYBE get some leftover roast beef sandwich that 4 other dudes got last week?

At least a high end escort would not only be physically attractive but would definitely know what she’s doing cuz man some of these women I’ve had the misfortune of dating I’m just like…is this why you are single? Cuz I get more effort from a fleshlight

If you’re still at Arby’s can you get me a # 5

 

[Swilly91]

Marry. No. Date? Meh they’d need to be a high end one. Not the back page $50 Friday special one

In reality though dating nowadays is basically escorting judging by all the feminist nonsense on social media. Women demanding expensive and lavish dates if men expect them to put out. It may not be straight cash in hand but demanding a $250+ dinner so that I MAYBE get some leftover roast beef sandwich that 4 other dudes got last week?

At least a high end escort would not only be physically attractive but would definitely know what she’s doing cuz man some of these women I’ve had the misfortune of dating I’m just like…is this why you are single? Cuz I get more effort from a fleshlight

 

[eazy_]

A discussion we had in my philosophy class.

I said “No, pair bonding and habits don’t just go away. She will view the relationship as transactional.”

yes

Every human relationship is transactional. The only exception may be birth mother and son.

I respect the hustle. The average 28-32 year old woman these days has just as many bodies, with nothing to show for it.

She will already be in the habit of getting resources and bringing them back to me.

 

[Omoplata]

I never said I accepted them lol. Social media is inundated with “dating coaches” telling women to “know their worth” and “if they offer a coffee date they’re not a man” type women. I had a fair number of female friends who bought into this mentality and would always bitch about being single haha.

I spent a few years after my ex wife dealing with these types and they’d get a single date generally (cuz if we barely know each other and you’re demanding I take you to Flemmings or some shit you can kick rocks). Current gf pays for stuff but the number of “hooker lite” mentality of “pay for expensive shit or I won’t put out but I’m not a whore so don’t expect it” out there is wild

Yeah the low quality ones are rampant, you found a good one so keep her. We get what we give with a woman typically is what I notice

 

[Omoplata]

yes

Every human relationship is transactional. The only exception may be birth mother and son.

I respect the hustle. The average 28-32 year old woman these days has just as many bodies, with nothing to show for it.

She will already be in the habit of getting resources and bringing them back to me.

Interesting perspective brother… Care to elaborate on how you would learn to value such a person after those life choices?

 

[elit3keraed]

Yeah the low quality ones are rampant, you found a good one so keep her. We get what we give with a woman typically is what I notice

I better not be getting dick from my gf. I may live in Cali but that doesn’t mean I’m looking for chicks with dicks .

But on a serious note, I find it’s more “we get what we allow”. After “giving up” on dating and spending a good amount of time doing therapy and getting my shit right, I no longer cave to what someone else wants. If I don’t want something or I’m not interested in doing something, there’s no way in hell I’m going to do it. Lost a lot of female friends when I decided to put my foot down and not allow them to walk all over me. Coincidentally I also wound up finding myself out of the “friend zone” by a fair number of women. But by that point I couldn’t care less because I knew the type of person they were and wasn’t about to deal with their chaos

 

[eazy_]

learn to value such a person after those life choices?

I am a reformed scum ball who lives in a glass house. I would not judge anybody about anything.

I would trust and value this person more than a square. We understand things about the nature of people and the world in a way you would not if you haven't lived through certain things.

this person is also likely to value every second of her second chance at a different type of life in a way that someone who has not lived through some things will not.

 

[Omoplata]

Coincidentally I also wound up finding myself out of the “friend zone” by a fair number of women. But by that point I couldn’t care less because I knew the type of person they were and wasn’t about to deal with their chaos

Yeah I found that most men don’t learn to be assertive until adulthood. Good for you. I respect it.

 

[Omoplata]

I am a reformed scum ball who lives in a glass house. I would not judge anybody about anything.

I would trust and value this person more than a square. We understand things about the nature of people and the world in a way you would not if you haven't lived through certain things.

this person is also likely to value every second of her second chance at a different type of life in a way that someone who has not lived through some things will not.

I’d get a beer for you just to hear your perspective more. This is gold. Would you mind sharing more in DM sometime for a research paper? No pressure.

 

[AR-15]

I am a reformed scum ball who lives in a glass house. I would not judge anybody about anything.

I would trust and value this person more than a square. We understand things about the nature of people and the world in a way you would not if you haven't lived through certain things.

this person is also likely to value every second of her second chance at a different type of life in a way that someone who has not lived through some things will not.

I respect and agree with a lot of what you’re saying. I personally still wouldn’t form a relationship with an ex whore. For her sake not mine. I know how competitive I am and there’s no way I could deal with the fact that she’s taken miles of dick day in and day out. That’s not gonna work out so well so I wouldn’t even bother. A few fun nights? Ok cool. Dating or relationship? No fucking way. I’d probably end up killing her or some dude that she banged. Probably both and then everyone they love. Lol

 

[9Major Open]

Nah.. she belongs to the streets

 

[sepknight]

Absolutely not as I already have dated one. Specifically, this girl was a "sugar daddy" girl which is essentially just another term for a escort especially if they have multiple sugar daddies. How they view relationships is permanently skewed towards a transaction based structure which leads to never being satisfied with a partner as each reward has to either match or exceed the previous one from you or their past clients. Also, how could you ever be confident that she actually enjoys sex with you? You can't as their literal job was to fake the enjoyment of a act that is supposed to occur out of mutual desire for the act, not for the reward or incentive from it.

 

[sepknight]

yes

Every human relationship is transactional. The only exception may be birth mother and son.

I respect the hustle. The average 28-32 year old woman these days has just as many bodies, with nothing to show for it.

She will already be in the habit of getting resources and bringing them back to me.

That still doesn't disregard the fact that sex work is the lowest effort form of this "hustle". There are many high paying jobs in various industries held by woman simply because of their looks. Whether its some sort of sales job, executive assistant, or marketing role, there are jobs where you can use your natural advantage of aesthetics without giving up your personal dignity. Also she won't be in the habit of getting resources and bringing them back to you. She's been wired to literally siphon funds from someone like you and keep them to herself regardless if shes "done" with that life. Its like expecting a dentist to not care about your teeth lmfao.

 

[Omoplata]

That still doesn't disregard the fact that sex work is the lowest effort form of this "hustle". There are many high paying jobs in various industries held by woman simply because of their looks. Whether its some sort of sales job, executive assistant, or marketing role, there are jobs where you can use your natural advantage of aesthetics without giving up your personal dignity. Also she won't be in the habit of getting resources and bringing them back to you. She's been wired to literally siphon funds from someone like you and keep them to herself regardless if shes "done" with that life. Its like expecting a dentist to not care about your teeth lmfao.

This was well thought out. I agree, there’s always a way to live an honest life. Excuses are cop outs.

 

[Farmerdan]

Found my high school crush on backpage years ago

Same. But I dialed the number.

 

[Rajput]

Never

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[Omoplata]

Never

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Didn’t expect anything less from you, Raj.

 

[62Young]

Just out of curiosity, are many of you finding the opportunity arising rather frequently these days?

 

[HFO4]

I’m betting many men even some of us here have already been with a a sugar baby, or an escort, unbeknownst to us

 

[heckler7]

I am a reformed scum ball who lives in a glass house. I would not judge anybody about anything.

I would trust and value this person more than a square. We understand things about the nature of people and the world in a way you would not if you haven't lived through certain things.

this person is also likely to value every second of her second chance at a different type of life in a way that someone who has not lived through some things will not.

all the more reason if you are reformed, unless you are saying you are too damaged to judge. if you surround yourself with people who make choices you will make better choices too, if your with a woman that is drama it will be your drama too.

 

[heckler7]

all the more reason if you are reformed, unless you are saying you are too damaged to judge. if you surround yourself with people who make good choices you will make better choices too, if your with a woman that is drama it will be your drama too.

editted, meant to say good choices

 

[HFO4]

I am a reformed scum ball who lives in a glass house. I would not judge anybody about anything.

I would trust and value this person more than a square. We understand things about the nature of people and the world in a way you would not if you haven't lived through certain things.

this person is also likely to value every second of her second chance at a different type of life in a way that someone who has not lived through some things will not.

From one hurricane twisting tornado of a wrecking ball to another

Your logic is flawed bro. That dog don’t hunt.

People are creatures of habit, comparing a good girl tasked and raised with values and virtue versus a former hooker with no values, no virtue and sold her body out, tasked with having to manipulate men for a living and carries all that trauma daily for her whole life and you are expecting the opposite character traits that comes their thinking up to the point you met them to oppose and be the polar opposite in their future with you is straight up fools gold my man

 

[JJB1]

Sex and love are synonymous to me.
It would be hard for me to be with a woman who didn’t see sex as something special to share with someone you love. I’ve had girlfriends who didn’t respect sex the way I do. It never felt as right as when I was with someone who believed in ‘making love’ as opposed to ‘fucking’. I cringe when I hear the current generation say, ‘hooking up.” It belittles the act to no more than shaking hands. That being said, one of my favorite rock stars, Oz Fox of Stryper, married a former prostitute. They’ve been together for 16 years and seem very much in love! She now has a ministry called, ‘Hookers for Jesus.”
If I met a woman I’m attracted to, and we enjoy each other’s company, then I’d give her a fair chance, regardless of her past. I’m deathly afraid of STD’s though! JJ’s peepee don’t want no hair-pees or pee warts! Hell nah!!!

 

[JJB1]

If you’re still at Arby’s can you get me a # 5

Extra roast beef, hold the mayo from previous customers, please!

 

[eazy_]

From one hurricane twisting tornado of a wrecking ball to another

Your logic is flawed bro. That dog don’t hunt.

People are creatures of habit, comparing a good girl tasked and raised with values and virtue versus a former hooker with no values, no virtue and sold her body out, tasked with having to manipulate men for a living and carries all that trauma daily for her whole life and you are expecting the opposite character traits that comes their thinking up to the point you met them to oppose and be the polar opposite in their future with you is straight up fools gold my man

how old are you?

 

[eazy_]

if your with a woman that is drama it will be your drama too

we agree here

 

[eazy_]

@Omoplata

great topic.

it needs a time frame.

but I framed the question as it relates to me. If I met a woman my age who has 20+ years of clean time, like I do, having done sex work in her past would not disqualify her. Depending on what she was addicted to and for how long, I would presume it even if she didn't disclose it.

I understand the replies I am getting. I would not date someone who turned a trick yesterday.

 

[LukeOvEarth]

Something casual? As long as she has a recent clean bill of health. Date? Not a chance in hell.