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Worries, the future.

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I'm always worried lately. I'm 25 and have no idea what I'm doing/ what I'm going to do with my life. My biggest fear in my life is being a loser and I'm getting older and older and if feels like I'm wasting my time. Ive been stuck in the same place for 3 years.
Everyone tells me do what makes you happy.
The part I don't understand is what makes me happy? How do you find your passion?
I feel lost, and to be honest worried about my future.
I know I sound like a puss puss, but I honestly don't have a clue what to do.
I guess I'm maybe looking for some insight and advice on how I can find what to do with the rest of my life.
So thanks to everyone who replies and all your advice.


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Find something you love to do, something you have a passion for... Look at others that do what it seems you have a passion for and figured out what they did to get where they are... And push, push hard. Work hard, and don't stop till you love what your doing in life....

I was right where you are at your age... Flash forward a few years and now I have a beautiful wife, kid and new house... A job that seems like I don't work at. It's a passion I love doing it.. And a second job that pays the bills that I sit and watch the clock..lol but that's only a few hours a week compared to my passionate job... Life is great.. I never understand what people said but now I completely get it... It won't take a day, a week or a year.. It's a journey of forwarded progress.... Start now not later....

Good luck bro
 

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Thank for the reply dema the problem is that really I only spend my time lifting and working
I've been thinking about going back to school but idk what for.


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I'm always worried lately. I'm 25 and have no idea what I'm doing/ what I'm going to do with my life. My biggest fear in my life is being a loser and I'm getting older and older and if feels like I'm wasting my time. Ive been stuck in the same place for 3 years.
Everyone tells me do what makes you happy.
The part I don't understand is what makes me happy? How do you find your passion?
I feel lost, and to be honest worried about my future.
I know I sound like a puss puss, but I honestly don't have a clue what to do.
I guess I'm maybe looking for some insight and advice on how I can find what to do with the rest of my life.
So thanks to everyone who replies and all your advice.


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If you ever start feeling really down and in the dumps , just think of Dema ... and praise the lord baby Jesus u r not him ....
 

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Thank for the reply dema the problem is that really I only spend my time lifting and working
I've been thinking about going back to school but idk what for.


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If u do go back to school , practice mental disorders and perhaps one day you could save the next Dema
 

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Find something you love to do, something you have a passion for... Look at others that do what it seems you have a passion for and figured out what they did to get where they are... And push, push hard. Work hard, and don't stop till you love what your doing in life....

I was right where you are at your age... Flash forward a few years and now I have a beautiful wife, kid and new house... A job that seems like I don't work at. It's a passion I love doing it.. And a second job that pays the bills that I sit and watch the clock..lol but that's only a few hours a week compared to my passionate job... Life is great.. I never understand what people said but now I completely get it... It won't take a day, a week or a year.. It's a journey of forwarded progress.... Start now not later....

Good luck bro

What do you do for work if you don't mind me asking


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Roid doesn't even know what that means , he is half drunk in his lazy boy and can't find his glasses !!!

What about you summer. What do you do for work and how did you become what you are today??


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What about you summer. What do you do for work and how did you become what you are today??


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Bro Sumner lives in a trailer park with his mom don't think u want to be like him.....lol
 

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Bro Sumner lives in a trailer park with his mom don't think u want to be like him.....lol

lol I want to know what everyone does to get an idea of careers that out there. What about you rehh


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I'm always worried lately. I'm 25 and have no idea what I'm doing/ what I'm going to do with my life. My biggest fear in my life is being a loser and I'm getting older and older and if feels like I'm wasting my time. Ive been stuck in the same place for 3 years.
Everyone tells me do what makes you happy.
The part I don't understand is what makes me happy? How do you find your passion?
I feel lost, and to be honest worried about my future.
I know I sound like a puss puss, but I honestly don't have a clue what to do.
I guess I'm maybe looking for some insight and advice on how I can find what to do with the rest of my life.
So thanks to everyone who replies and all your advice.


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Take a employment aptitude test online.

If you answer honestly you will see what your strong points are for career.
 

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Just give yourself time dude. All things come in time. Keep working out and don't give in to depression....never!
 

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lol I want to know what everyone does to get an idea of careers that out there. What about you rehh


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Hit the road and go travelling. And not to some English speaking country, somewhere completely alien.

SE Asia has trannies. Go fuck a few of those for perspective and never look back.

If you've never left the USA you live in a bubble.


<insert giant winkfinger here>
 

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lol I want to know what everyone does to get an idea of careers that out there. What about you rehh


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Well my wife is corporate IT, I was self employed IT for many years then went to work for one of my clients in the environmental testing and inspecting industry, I started my own business in this field as well but the contracts and demand has fizzled out in this industry so now looking to get into something else which sucks ass. I own some heavy equipment I rent out as well as mold and water remediation equipment I rent, so have multiple income streams but still not enough lately, not steady enough income, seasonal and inconsistent.

Good luck man
 

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Take a employment aptitude test online.

If you answer honestly you will see what your strong points are for career.

Answering honestly is hard on those but yea I'm definitely going to give it a shot definitely worth paying for a good one


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Just give yourself time dude. All things come in time. Keep working out and don't give in to depression....never!

Depression is the worst I try not to even acknowledge that shit.lol but I still can't help to feel that I'm wasting time, my father always said time is something that your can't get back, don't waste it.


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Hit the road and go travelling. And not to some English speaking country, somewhere completely alien.

SE Asia has trannies. Go fuck a few of those for perspective and never look back.

If you've never left the USA you live in a bubble.


<insert giant winkfinger here>

I usually go on a multi day hike with the bro usually in the states though. Would love to go out side the realm but banging trans I don't think I could do that lol I can't get into anal even all about the v life


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Well my wife is corporate IT, I was self employed IT for many years then went to work for one of my clients in the environmental testing and inspecting industry, I started my own business in this field as well but the contracts and demand has fizzled out in this industry so now looking to get into something else which sucks ass. I own some heavy equipment I rent out as well as mold and water remediation equipment I rent, so have multiple income streams but still not enough lately, not steady enough income, seasonal and inconsistent.

Good luck man

Thanks for the reply and yea I'm not big into technology I've been an emt for 3 years but recently quit cause I couldn't stand the private life no more lol it's the hardest thing to find a passion


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Seriously I can't thank you guys enough for the replies it make the worry dim down a bit knowing that some others have gone through what I'm in


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The only thing that you're wasting time on is worrying that you are wasting time.
 

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Not into anal ? Did you have a bad experience?

Lmao yea got shit on my D the first and last time also I just figured why go the big A when there is a nice juicy snatch waiting.



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Well my wife is corporate IT, I was self employed IT for many years then went to work for one of my clients in the environmental testing and inspecting industry, I started my own business in this field as well but the contracts and demand has fizzled out in this industry so now looking to get into something else which sucks ass. I own some heavy equipment I rent out as well as mold and water remediation equipment I rent, so have multiple income streams but still not enough lately, not steady enough income, seasonal and inconsistent.

Good luck man

So that whole story about gay for pay was bullshit? :)

I've been in the hazardous waste management business for decades and work certainly is not what it used to be.
 

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So that whole story about gay for pay was bullshit? :)

I've been in the hazardous waste management business for decades and work certainly is not what it used to be.

Hazardous waste? So your in the mob skip aka tony soprano lol


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read this book

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they found some old tablets from ancient studies about what makes two guys with the same background one would be successful and another poor. its interesting and I heard from a customer who's private jet I fixed say he requires all his employees to read it twice before he hires them
 

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So that whole story about gay for pay was bullshit? :)

I've been in the hazardous waste management business for decades and work certainly is not what it used to be.

My sons waste management company was just bought out by waste industries, our best friends were bought out by the same company a few years ago. Waste Industries is aggressively buying out all the competitors in this area.


G4P.... Lol
True story, There was guy trolling in my gym a few months ago looking for mature guys to be escorts to older women. Saw him twice and he approached me both times asking if I'd be interested to try it. Said he could guarantee me 100k+ a year. He said you would travel and stay with women for up to a week or more, not just go fuck and leave. Dude was dead serious.
 
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