Getting wife pregnant on trt

[Capthowdy87]

As the title says … she wants another baby … last time she got pregnant I was off for a few years . Do I have to come all the way off for this ?

 

[220]

Plenty of guys get their wives pregnant on cycle or on trt.
You could go have a semen analysis if you wanted to be sure.
https://www.labcorp.com/help/patient-test-info/semen-analysis
I had one about 8 yrs ago.

 

[zwhit]

No. My wife is pregnant with our third, all conceived while on. This last one after being on at least TRT for 7-8 years with more than a few blasts thrown in.

That's not to say you won't have a hard time. Some people do but if you've been on for a while, I'd try staying on just TRT with HCG before I came all the way off. If you haven't, it might be more of a guarantee if you came off

 

[Multislacking]

Lots of success stories (and oops) while on. Enjoy the trying.

In case you missed it, there's this:
https://www.anabolicsteroidforums.c...ertility-Pregnancy-How-to-improve-sperm-count

 

[Capthowdy87]

Would there be a difference? I mean if I come all the way off what happens ? My test drops low af . Im still gonna have to wait a while for it
To bounce back to whatever it will be . I also feel like if I come all the way off I will lose whatever progress I’ve made
Over the last year witch imo has been a lot.

 

[zwhit]

You're gonna lose some gains and fertility could be no better than on until you bounce back. That's why I'd try while on first. You could get a sperm analysis to see where you're at. I'd at least get on some HCG while you figure it out

I knocked my wife up on trest, which is supposed to be a male contraceptive, and no hcg. Talk about a surprise

 

[Capthowdy87]

You're gonna lose some gains and fertility could be no better than on until you bounce back. That's why I'd try while on first. You could get a sperm analysis to see where you're at. I'd at least get on some HCG while you figure it out

I knocked my wife up on trest, which is supposed to be a male contraceptive, and no hcg. Talk about a surprise

I think I am going to try and and atleta stay on trt . I have clomid and I’m sure I can find the other stuff around here .

 

[Dano22]

My 11 year old got caught sending inappropriate messages today on his phone, my 4 year old broke the charger off in his iPad, it’s toast, and my newborn just decided to be a complete bitch today . Ill pray for you brother, today was one of those why the fuck did I have kids days

 

[Capthowdy87]

My 11 year old got caught sending inappropriate messages today on his phone, my 4 year old broke the charger off in his iPad, it’s toast, and my newborn just decided to be a complete bitch today . Ill pray for you brother, today was one of those why the fuck did I have kids days

I don’t want anymore god damn kids man. I never wanted the ones that I have . They just happened. When I was younger invisioning my future it never involved no wife and kids . I never saw myself being with just 1 woman . I don’t feel like doing a damn thing that comes along with her being prego AGAIN. It’s so annoying bc she’s gonna be all excited about this and I won’t be at all. I don’t want to spend any more time on taking care of more kids . This is an unfair situation I am in . The last few years my entire life has been based around her fucking school shit . That’s finally about to be over and she wants another fucking kid. When do I ever get to do what I want to do ?

 

[Rot-Iron66]

Wait til you spend a quarter of a million dollars putting them thru college!! (College may not be around in the future).
Not everyone goes to college... But yeah, in a 6-year period that's what I spent on it. (2 kids at staggered times).
Some people spend much more than that.

We did those Fidelity college fund things (529 plan or some shit) when they were born, so proper planning and paying into for 17 years we were ready.
Not sure how other (non-rich folks) do it without.
In any case, good luck, kids are all money (drainers) LOL

The stuff we do sometimes

 

[Multislacking]

I don’t want anymore god damn kids man. I never wanted the ones that I have . They just happened. When I was younger invisioning my future it never involved no wife and kids . I never saw myself being with just 1 woman . I don’t feel like doing a damn thing that comes along with her being prego AGAIN. It’s so annoying bc she’s gonna be all excited about this and I won’t be at all. I don’t want to spend any more time on taking care of more kids . This is an unfair situation I am in . The last few years my entire life has been based around her fucking school shit . That’s finally about to be over and she wants another fucking kid. When do I ever get to do what I want to do ?

Wow. Definitely don't do it.

 

[zwhit]

Yea have that conversation with your wife not just here

 

[Dano22]

I told my wife the same thing, she said then pack your shit . I said fine fuck it ….. Bend over

 

[Bdawg]

I told my wife the same thing, she said then pack your shit . I said fine fuck it ….. Bend over

Lmao!

 

[Bdawg]

Wait til you spend a quarter of a million dollars putting them thru college!! (College may not be around in the future).
Not everyone goes to college... But yeah, in a 6-year period that's what I spent on it. (2 kids at staggered times).
Some people spend much more than that.

We did those Fidelity college fund things (529 plan or some shit) when they were born, so proper planning and paying into for 17 years we were ready.
Not sure how other (non-rich folks) do it without.
In any case, good luck, kids are all money (drainers) LOL

The stuff we do sometimes

Dude, you hit it… I have two in college and two more coming in 6-7 years. Add in the sports, clothes, electronics, fucking truck loads of food… I can’t believe I’m not homeless.

The key - start the 529 plans at birth.

 

[Seattlesbest]

I don’t want anymore god damn kids man. I never wanted the ones that I have . They just happened. When I was younger invisioning my future it never involved no wife and kids . I never saw myself being with just 1 woman . I don’t feel like doing a damn thing that comes along with her being prego AGAIN. It’s so annoying bc she’s gonna be all excited about this and I won’t be at all. I don’t want to spend any more time on taking care of more kids . This is an unfair situation I am in . The last few years my entire life has been based around her fucking school shit . That’s finally about to be over and she wants another fucking kid. When do I ever get to do what I want to do ?

Man fuck that!! Don't get off who gives a fuck. Tell her... ok you got it baby and up your dose so you don't have anymore kids. Kids are so much workkkkkkkkkkk!!!!

 

[Capthowdy87]

I have no idea what to do . I don’t want to be tied down by more kids . It’s hard enough to do simple shit with 2 already . Like going to the gym or the fucking barber . I definitely don’t want to change diapers . The only way I’d even consider this is if after she’s done school then she’s fucking done . Her free time will now be spent with kids all the time so no more school or any shit like that. I feel like I’m never going to start living . I’m Just getting older but standing still in a diaper changing twilight zone .

 

[wesley_swolle]

I have no idea what to do . I don’t want to be tied down by more kids . It’s hard enough to do simple shit with 2 already . Like going to the gym or the fucking barber . I definitely don’t want to change diapers . The only way I’d even consider this is if after she’s done school then she’s fucking done . Her free time will now be spent with kids all the time so no more school or any shit like that. I feel like I’m never going to start living . I’m Just getting older but standing still in a diaper changing twilight zone .

So why not tell your wife this? Well, not exactly this, something a little more tactful

 

[JaceBon]

Just throwing this out there: if you know being on could potentially cause problems, why not try artificial ensemenation? I imagine that would be your best chances...and I imagine less likely to experience birth defects from low count.

 

[Augustine5I]

I don’t want anymore god damn kids man. I never wanted the ones that I have . They just happened. When I was younger invisioning my future it never involved no wife and kids . I never saw myself being with just 1 woman . I don’t feel like doing a damn thing that comes along with her being prego AGAIN. It’s so annoying bc she’s gonna be all excited about this and I won’t be at all. I don’t want to spend any more time on taking care of more kids . This is an unfair situation I am in . The last few years my entire life has been based around her fucking school shit . That’s finally about to be over and she wants another fucking kid. When do I ever get to do what I want to do ?

Having a child is a mutual agreement between you both.

If you aren’t wanting more children then it’s a hard “no.”

It’s not like you haven’t given her any.

Idk her motive. But you aren’t on the same page.

 

[Capthowdy87]

So why not tell your wife this? Well, not exactly this, something a little more tactful

Hahaha yea that’s the hard part that’s why I’m doing it on here

 

[Fletcher]

Short version, stay on, cruise, blast, whatever. When mine wanted to get pregnant I just came in her everytime we had sex. Took about 18 months. 18 porno-sex-having months haha! I never came off, no pct drugs or fertility drugs.

Life will always be a pain in the ass no matter what, at least you'll have a happy wife.

 

[Dano22]

Time to start shopping for minivans my dog . Swole dads in vans is super cool

 

[Multislacking]

So why not tell your wife this? Well, not exactly this, something a little more tactful

Lol...nah...tell her *exactly* that. I guarantee she won't want him putting another baby in her.

 

[GYMnTONIC]

I have no idea what to do . I don’t want to be tied down by more kids . It’s hard enough to do simple shit with 2 already . Like going to the gym or the fucking barber . I definitely don’t want to change diapers . The only way I’d even consider this is if after she’s done school then she’s fucking done . Her free time will now be spent with kids all the time so no more school or any shit like that. I feel like I’m never going to start living . I’m Just getting older but standing still in a diaper changing twilight zone .

You will have even less time with yourself. With your gf or wife. You will have new financial strains. New stress. Less sleep.

Definitely the love of a new baby is an amazing thing but these things are things to consider.

Often a wife/Gf with several kids at an older age starts to complain and blame her husband. Why you have no free time for her. Why no date nights. Why no extra money. Why no vacation. Why are you working more hours to pay more bills.

I have seen that in my days counseling very often tbh sir.

No offense to you and your wife. But every male I ever worked with said "I didn't see it coming. Or I didn't think she would respond that way."

Just a heads up from me to you sir. Good luck.

 

[Milford King]

Go get your nuts cut and don’t tell your wife.

jeez Louise bro. I know kids can be a pain in the ass and I understand the frustration involved when you’re taking it on the chin so your wife can finish school but I truly hope you don’t expose your kids to that selfish attitude you just exposed us to. This is how daughters become strippers bro. Lol

just know this. You won’t get those years back. Someday after your muscles have shriveled up and your hair has fallen out and your sitting all alone wondering why your kids don’t call or visit, I hope you go back to the “I never wanted these damn kids” post.

holy hell bruh

 

[Capthowdy87]

Go get your nuts cut and don’t tell your wife.

jeez Louise bro. I know kids can be a pain in the ass and I understand the frustration involved when you’re taking it on the chin so your wife can finish school but I truly hope you don’t expose your kids to that selfish attitude you just exposed us to. This is how daughters become strippers bro. Lol

just know this. You won’t get those years back. Someday after your muscles have shriveled up and your hair has fallen out and your sitting all alone wondering why your kids don’t call or visit, I hope you go back to the “I never wanted these damn kids” post.

holy hell bruh

Me saying I never saw my self having kids does not mean I don’t love them . It also doesn’t mean I want more kids then the 2 I already have taking away more time and money that I want to spend or give . I want to live my life finally . Not spend it raising more kids . If that’s selfish , then I guess I am selfish . If any of this sounds that way then you are taking it that way. Me wanting to finally do what I want after ALWAYS doing what ever one else wants is fair .

 

[Multislacking]

You will have even less time with yourself. With your gf or wife. You will have new financial strains. New stress. Less sleep.

Definitely the love of a new baby is an amazing thing but these things are things to consider.

Often a wife/Gf with several kids at an older age starts to complain and blame her husband. Why you have no free time for her. Why no date nights. Why no extra money. Why no vacation. Why are you working more hours to pay more bills.

I have seen that in my days counseling very often tbh sir.

No offense to you and your wife. But every male I ever worked with said "I didn't see it coming. Or I didn't think she would respond that way."

Just a heads up from me to you sir. Good luck.

Wes touched on a pretty common thing here. She is likely wanting *another* baby because of that love. When a husband isn't giving a wife enough attention, she will want another baby to fill that "love hole" that the husband isn't fulfilling. It is subconscious and almost instinctual for them. And then you have the ones that flat out want an "anchor baby" to keep the husband obligated.

 

[Milford King]

Hey man. Not judging. You do you. It will be easier if you open up to your wife about what you want tho. Why would you even entertain the idea of knocking her up again feeling the way you do.

go get your nuts clipped bro. It’ll save you time and money in the long run.

also multi and Wes bring up a valid point. You both are busy with life but you gotta make time for each other otherwise they can get pretty psychotic…

good luck broSki

 

[Capthowdy87]

Ok so I have 2 kids . The older 1 is 12 and he has a different mom . With my wife of 10 years now we have a 2 year old and she wants him to have a sibling close in age . I agree with this 100% . She’s an only child and has always wanted 2 kids. I talked to her about this once when she brought it up and it was mostly her talking bc I really didn’t know what to say yet . So I’m taking this time to put this together before I actually have a real conversation with her .