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Divorce and cycle

Similar thing happened to me 14 years ago. Was married 10 years with two kids, stay at home mom. She left and then wanted to reconcile a few years later after her alimony ended, and her new man subjected her to a couple years of narcissistic abuse and she broke up with him - he subsuquently got a new girl, killer her and his twin daughters in a single engine plane crash. Stupidly I took my ex back... she subsequently became a very successful nurse injector and started making enough money to be on her own, and she left again. Good riddance!

Months later, I wind up meeting the most beautiful girl I've ever seen 20 years my junior, we fell in love and got married after nearly two years.

I say keep the cycle, do plenty of tren (it makes girls you'd never have though about seem pretty!) , and have some much deserved fun!
 
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My hands are full dealing with one woman lol.
 
Married 26yrs together 33yrs went through something similar years ago, didn't get quite where u r but hrt brought the old her back, may b even better.
12mgs test/week makes a night & day emotional difference in a women late 40's & 50's.
Best of Luck I feel for U!!!
Stay busy dont give yourself time t get in your head.
I would run a High trt dose 200 hell maybe 300/week.
 
Similar thing happened to me 14 years ago. Was married 10 years with two kids, stay at home mom. She left and then wanted to reconcile a few years later after her alimony ended, and her new man subjected her to a couple years of narcissistic abuse and she broke up with him - he subsuquently got a new girl, killer her and his twin daughters in a single engine plane crash. Stupidly I took my ex back... she subsequently became a very successful nurse injector and started making enough money to be on her own, and she left again. Good riddance!

Months later, I wind up meeting the most beautiful girl I've ever seen 20 years my junior, we fell in love and got married after nearly two years.

I say keep the cycle, do plenty of tren (it makes girls you'd never have though about seem pretty!) , and have some much deserved fun!

Same as me, married and she didn't do a thing but paint and do yoga and get fucked by me, she didn't even bj because of some medical issue. I accepted all her bullshit and gave her a effortless life and somehow she thought it was better to leave me for a few months (getting railedbno doubt) and then call me back wanting to fix things and get therapy. Only difference is I didn't take her back. She didn't miss me or even feel love for me, she missed that I gave her a healthy sheletered life.

Yah at this point , hoping I meet someone younger just to pass time. They are all bad and they all give the same result, it's just a matter of time, 1 year or 29 years. They are erratic and unreliable creatures incapable of love. One of the staples of love is that it brings great pain to separate from your person and these bitches do it reptile style.
 
Same as me, married and she didn't do a thing but paint and do yoga and get fucked by me, she didn't even bj because of some medical issue. I accepted all her bullshit and gave her a effortless life and somehow she thought it was better to leave me for a few months (getting railedbno doubt) and then call me back wanting to fix things and get therapy. Only difference is I didn't take her back. She didn't miss me or even feel love for me, she missed that I gave her a healthy sheletered life.

Yah at this point , hoping I meet someone younger just to pass time. They are all bad and they all give the same result, it's just a matter of time, 1 year or 29 years. They are erratic and unreliable creatures incapable of love. One of the staples of love is that it brings great pain to separate from your person and these bitches do it reptile style.
You are not wrong. Have you seen the crazy hot matrix video on YT? It's pretty f'ing accurate!!

As a man, particularly an enhanced one, you have to remember your value goes up as you age. A woman's goes down. A lot of these fickle women will end up alone and sad. My ex was 10 years younger than me and said "You'll never find someone as young or pretty as me that will want to be with you"... I proved that very wrong and I'm sure she thinks about it every day now :cool:
 
You are not wrong. Have you seen the crazy hot matrix video on YT? It's pretty f'ing accurate!!

As a man, particularly an enhanced one, you have to remember your value goes up as you age. A woman's goes down. A lot of these fickle women will end up alone and sad. My ex was 10 years younger than me and said "You'll never find someone as young or pretty as me that will want to be with you"... I proved that very wrong and I'm sure she thinks about it every day now :cool:
Yeah if u take care of urself, as man, you’re very valuable for a long time.
 
A woman at that age isn’t looking to be alone, the odds are she found your replacement.

100%. Women are very calculating and rarely act on anything they haven't extensively thought through. It's highly likely she's found "companionship" elsewhere. And it's just as likely that new "friend" is coaching her through this process.


I'm not in the school of thought that you can make a woman change her mind when.she is ready to go, at the very best that just buys you time.

The scariest thing about women for me is that when they are ready to go, they are 100% ready. Even though *The logic is bad, the reasoning is bad, and it could just be the dumbest mistake of their life but they are committed to it.

I learned a long time ago that it's like a light switch for women: once they turn it off, it's off... And buddy, that fucker stays off.

And, as @Thechemicals said, you can coax her back, kiss her ass, and buy yourself some time and drag out the misery, or you can rip off the bandaid and go on with your life. The end state will be the same either way.

Either that or jump on tren and get a restraining order, lose your retirement and any further income.
Married 29.5 years you’re gonna be paying her for life anyway. May as well go down in flames😈

Many years ago, I saw a bumper sticker that said, "Why bother getting married? Just find a woman you hate and buy her a house." I wish I would have listened to the advice :LOL:

Take some test and hit the gym. Use it as an outlet.

Finally, OP, I'm sorry as hell you're going through this, but a big part of getting through it is taking care of yourself. Just as @Wardamn said, keep on some test at a minimum so you don't get the extra emotional BS from being totally off and get your workouts in. You owe it to yourself.

Good luck, brother. We're here if you need to vent.
 
I would drop everything except Test. T won't make you lose your cool but something like Tren will for sure. After that many years I would want to salvage the relationship but its entirely up to you.

What is your read on her wanting arbitration?
She wants out. she came back from a week away at her parents and said she would be doing it for me not her. She has said she is codependent and started to slip back into that.

She keeps saying the future isn't written....

She's moving to her parents at the end of the school year when her work is over.
 
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She wants out. she came back from a week away at her parents and said she would be doing it for me not her. She has said she is codependent and started to slip back into that.

She keeps saying the future isn't written....

She's moving to her parents at the end of the school year when her work is over.
I’m not an experienced married man like many others here. Heck I’m only in my early 30s. But. Just going off what I’m reading, I bet ur hurt, and that’s okay, but man, rip the bandaide off, focus on urself, get in disgustingly great shape, and go date a bunch of lady’s.
 
I went through a divorce in my mid 40s; we were married for 14yrs...Divorce was mostly my fault for various reasons. Unfortunately, I have no great advice for you, but I do have some experience. If you still love her, maybe give it some time and try whatever you can to work it out. If it doesn't, at least you will know in your heart that you gave it an honest try. Believe it or not, there is a life and happiness on the other side of divorce.
 
Stay on cycle. It will help you to fuck every other woman.

This may seem like a bad thing to go through but your free you saved your self from misery and pain. You just added time to your clock.

Go out and start fucking. All the woman it is good for you and much more rewarding.
 
Stay on cycle. It will help you to fuck every other woman.

This may seem like a bad thing to go through but your free you saved your self from misery and pain. You just added time to your clock.

Go out and start fucking. All the woman it is good for you and much more rewarding.
Thinking like this just surmises that all women are cum dumpsters. And the women you end up bedding are just whores with little understanding of themselves to begin with. I think this is just a path to chaos on many levels. Whores have no values and are often manipulators. Do strong men with good values really want to saddle up with such women? I think it better to be the model. Do things the best way possible. Be viewed as such and when the dust settles chart out the best path forward.
 
Married twice, divorced twice. It's obvious you are in the shock and and awe stage, and you'll mourn, you'll feel like it's your fault, maybe lash out, maybe get depressed, shrink away from things you like, essentially be in misery. I strongly encourage you to say "fuck all that" and now is the time to work on YOU. You might not want to run a gram of tren right now, but go ahead and keep working on your physique. Now more than ever you need to stay focused on something YOU appreciate. It's clear your soon to be ex is focusing on what SHE thinks is best for HER. Not you, not "us", she's being a selfish bitch. If you've been a shitty husband, then it's on her to call you out and work on fixing it - thats not the case here though. Sounds like she may have already found somebody, or wants to find something else.

The hardest thing to do is keep from feeding negative people energy. If she's making this decision and its obvious she's on the outs, focus on you. You don't have time for someone who isn't contributing to your health and well being. I'd say speak to her less, workout more, and make sure she's not funneling money from your accounts. Go get a lawyer and do all your comms via email and test to your soon to be ex.

This might sound drastic, but after dealing with this shit twice, I've learned every ounce of energy you spend trying to move the unmovable is a total waste of time. What if she just changed her mind and wants what she had? Ready to swallow your pride and live with knowing you weren't the priority until her options ran out? I'm older, jaded with the concept of true love. Then again I married a hairdresser on the second go round you think I would have learned.

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together 35 yrs? and youre divorcing to accomplish what exactly. You’ve spent your whole lives together. Man have some real talk and figure it out like you have for the last 35yrs. A 25 yr old isnt going to fix jack, but you will spend yours on her lol

My answer to your OP, TRT for now is fine. no need to over hormone, the potential to not see things clearly are obvious and you need clarity.
 
Thinking like this just surmises that all women are cum dumpsters. And the women you end up bedding are just whores with little understanding of themselves to begin with. I think this is just a path to chaos on many levels. Whores have no values and are often manipulators. Do strong men with good values really want to saddle up with such women? I think it better to be the model. Do things the best way possible. Be viewed as such and when the dust settles chart out the best path forward.
During my mid life whatever crisis after my 2nd divorce, I decided to be nothing more than a charming asshole, lost all respect for women. The shittier I treated them, the more they hung on like a dryer sheet. So many one and dones, at the time yea great sex, id challenge myself to try to snag the best looking girl outta the bar. Some neat memories, but man what a hollow existence. I probably needed that as I was always "in a relationship" and took a few years after that to reset everything. I got some stories tho lmao. Looking back, as I have a 20yr old daughter now, I'd never want my daughter treated the way i disrespected those women, whether they deserved it or not. You'll get your groove back but take time for yourself.
 
I’d rather stay married. 29.5 years married and 35 years together.

Empty nest and finds out she’s not happy.

That’s how it works. She will find out it it’s a different world now in terms of dating. It’s hook up culture now.
 
Don’t take Tren or Halo in court room. You will lose it all.
 
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I'd say T only . Wait to cycle. Sorry about your wife bro. Women do weird shit. She'll spend a few holidays alone and come crawling backwards especially once the kids have an awkward holiday with her. You've got mothers day labor day memorial day thanks and Christmas.



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I went through a nasty divorce after a terrible 5 years of marriage

  • get an attorney , get a very good attorney
  • don’t argue with the ex , let attorney navigate it for you
  • your marriage is over and this is a negotiation, remove emotion and get yourself the best deal you can
  • develop hobbies away from Gym
  • hit gym with an absolute rage in you
  • start learning how to be OP the single guy, father, grandfather etc but not the husband
  • cruise on test
  • daily cialis will get you slaying like a champ
  • limit booze the best you can
  • get used to living solo. It can be harder than you think

Just a few things which worked for me. Keep your head up and my messages are are open
 
I'd say T only . Wait to cycle. Sorry about your wife bro. Women do weird shit. She'll spend a few holidays alone and come crawling backwards especially once the kids have an awkward holiday with her. You've got mothers day labor day memorial day thanks and Christmas.



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You don’t say?

Lol
 
Put on a ski mask and get and play base ball with her brother. Its a great game play it Howard beech style. No mate what the verdict is whisper in her ear makeing a reference to it with no criminal liability. That’s how you get around statements some may think it’s violence being at advocated) it’s not because if we where in court at what point did I tell anyone to hurt some one. My statement says to get a ski mask - cause of COVID. Then I said get a bat. But followed up with a game. It sounds.at first violent but a very harmless statement.


I hope my advice helps people no violence never worth it.
 
I went through a nasty divorce after a terrible 5 years of marriage

  • get an attorney , get a very good attorney
  • don’t argue with the ex , let attorney navigate it for you
  • your marriage is over and this is a negotiation, remove emotion and get yourself the best deal you can
  • develop hobbies away from Gym
  • hit gym with an absolute rage in you
  • start learning how to be OP the single guy, father, grandfather etc but not the husband
  • cruise on test
  • daily cialis will get you slaying like a champ
  • limit booze the best you can
  • get used to living solo. It can be harder than you think

Just a few things which worked for me. Keep your head up and my messages are are open

When I'm dictator of the world, after I kill Clause Slobb with a chainsaw and pliers, I'm going to exterminate divorce lawyers, family court judges and restore the patriarchy.
Just leave my defense attorney and my attorney dealing with NYS liquor authority board. If he wins. If he doesn’t well
then surprise me.
 
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