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Hopefully someone gets a kick out of this,
Started dating this woman. She’s been feeling me out seeing if I am capable of taking her on. Didn’t know she had a kid until we made plans to hang out at her place. (She arranged for her kid to be with her dad) About a week later out of left field. (“We need to talk”) turns out she didn’t anticipate liking me and that she spoke with her Mom, her Mom said to tell me the truth about dancing (stripping) as her main income. She told me she could not see her self moving forward without playing games until she told me. She cried, I choked for a bit trying to wrap my head around what I was told.
Needless to say, this has been so difficult! Im the one sleeping in her bed at night, but Goddamn does it fuck with my head that her job is to flirt, tease, attend warehouse parties, work guys for loads of money, etc, etc. We have communicated about my concerns and it genuinely seems like she wants me and only me at the end of the day. Despite all the flirtatious conversations floating around her iMessage. Wether they are clients or not. Grrr... I want to take her on.
My life’s a circus I’m open for fun and jokes but this is also very real. Lmfao. I would like to get some different perspectives on how someone would deal with a circumstance like this? How would you separate in your mind the work and her loyalty to you?
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Started dating this woman. She’s been feeling me out seeing if I am capable of taking her on. Didn’t know she had a kid until we made plans to hang out at her place. (She arranged for her kid to be with her dad) About a week later out of left field. (“We need to talk”) turns out she didn’t anticipate liking me and that she spoke with her Mom, her Mom said to tell me the truth about dancing (stripping) as her main income. She told me she could not see her self moving forward without playing games until she told me. She cried, I choked for a bit trying to wrap my head around what I was told.
Needless to say, this has been so difficult! Im the one sleeping in her bed at night, but Goddamn does it fuck with my head that her job is to flirt, tease, attend warehouse parties, work guys for loads of money, etc, etc. We have communicated about my concerns and it genuinely seems like she wants me and only me at the end of the day. Despite all the flirtatious conversations floating around her iMessage. Wether they are clients or not. Grrr... I want to take her on.
My life’s a circus I’m open for fun and jokes but this is also very real. Lmfao. I would like to get some different perspectives on how someone would deal with a circumstance like this? How would you separate in your mind the work and her loyalty to you?
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