I snapped on my wife over the phone last night. Said some shir I shouldn’t have an I threatened her if she were to ever to it again… etc cops knocked at my door for 30mins straight at 5 AM freaking out right now to say the least
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So, I decided to respond to this one because I’ve more or less been in very similar situations in the past. Granted, when the police showed up, it was for something else and it was at around 3am and not 5.
First off, relax. You are not going to be arrested. If they were there to arrest you, they would have had a warrant and then they would have announced the warrant. If you failed to respond, they would have kicked your door in. Period. Full stop.
As another poster mentioned, cut off all ties with this person. If she’s calling the police, she’s serious. As in the most serious a person can possibly be. Maybe the police don’t have enough evidence to arrest you now but that doesn’t mean that if you continue, they won’t in the future.
They probably wanted to talk to you in hopes of you incriminating yourself and, thus, giving them enough evidence to place you under arrest. If they come back again, still do not answer the door. Say nothing to the police in this or any other circumstance.
I also sincerely hope that anything of an illicit nature that you possess at the residence will be quickly and quietly transferred offsite for a third party to hold in trust.
Outside of that, change your phone number. There is an off chance she may try to bait you in hopes of destroying your life. She wants you to pay for whatever she imagined occurred between the two of you. Don’t fall for it.
All in all, I hope everything works out for you.