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if your ex knows you do drugs/roids then get rid of them asap.
when dealing with police be polite an level headed and they will most likely think shes pulling some bullshit, if you get all angry they are gonna think shes right. but more importantly they will document the interaction so in court it will read far worse than it is.
I recommend you see a counselor / therapist you seem to have a lot of issues, you should work on your own demons before you drag another woman into your mess and end up in the same cycle
 

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Illegal phone use...WTF..
What are you left handed..??lol
Such BS charges. Sounds like you fucked the phone...shame on you.
DV...need to get that one snuffed..
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if your ex knows you do drugs/roids then get rid of them asap.
when dealing with police be polite an level headed and they will most likely think shes pulling some bullshit, if you get all angry they are gonna think shes right. but more importantly they will document the interaction so in court it will read far worse than it is.
I recommend you see a counselor / therapist you seem to have a lot of issues, you should work on your own demons before you drag another woman into your mess and end up in the same cycle

Yeah man I definitely have some issues and it’s 100% relates to what happened with her and I am seeing a therapist I’ve only seen her four times so far but anyways I think as long as she does not use this as leverage in a custody battle, then I think this was actually a good thing. It was a real eye-opener to say the least. It’s the push I needed to realize that I just cannot fuck with this woman. Both me and my penis need to be nowhere near that bitch she will be the end of meOtherwise.

But I really don’t get it man I wish I understood why I’m so obsessed with her. I mean I know I hate her fucking guts and I know she’s the most disgusting human being I’ve ever met in my life yet she feels like a drug to me I just crave her I don’t fucking get it man


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I don’t understand the disorderly conduct or illegal use of a phone unless you faked an emergency call. This was just a phone conversation right?
 

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I am at the point now where I am completely done with her I just want to Use this as motivation to get my life together as best as I can and be able to provide the best for my kids. So if anybody wants to reach out I’ve been humbled enough by this experience to just open the accept any recommendations and or advice on how to go from here I don’t want to lose my kids pretty sure if I did I would just kill myself


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I don’t understand the disorderly conduct or illegal use of a phone unless you faked an emergency call. This was just a phone conversation right?

Yeah I basically went off on her told her she ever talks to me like that again I’m gonna fucking Kill her. I literally sound like a psychopath and now even better she’s technically the victim

I’ve gotta learn to bury my emotions and not be so fucking reactive all the time it’s gotten me into so much trouble with my life not even since it’s her even before this I was always so quick to react fight go off on someone shit like that it’s really made my life more difficult than it has to be

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The problem is people think hate is the opposite of love but it's not. When you "hate"you still have emotion. The opposite of love is apathy, when you have no concern or interest in that individual anymore beyond your parental responsibilities.
 

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The problem is people think hate is the opposite of love but it's not. When you "hate"you still have emotion. The opposite of love is apathy, when you have no concern or interest in that individual anymore beyond your parental responsibilities.

Maybe that’s why this is so much easier for her she is the most apathetic person you could ever imagine it’s part of her condition heaven being a Sociopath. That’s the worst part I have all these feelings for her but she’s just empty she’s not even capable of feeling the way I am for her it’s a one-way road and for some reason it doesn’t even make me feel any less


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Maybe that’s why this is so much easier for her she is the most apathetic person you could ever imagine it’s part of her condition heaven being a Sociopath. That’s the worst part I have all these feelings for her but she’s just empty she’s not even capable of feeling the way I am for her it’s a one-way road and for some reason it doesn’t even make me feel any less


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Then she can't be fixed, and by ignoring your own personal growth and directing unnecessary energy toward her, all you're doing is assuring that the children are being shorted on both ends. Make some sacrifices and take time out for yourself.
 

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When I was young...I would read none fiction...educational stuff..
Read a book about emotions..saying Not to bottle up or bury, but rather work through them...in a positive manner..
When you bury them, sometimes they resurface..and usually 10 times worse..

Brother...
Just concentrate on the children..
Do right by them,avoid conflict and try to be a good Father...
At times, that's all any of us can do..
Love you Brother..
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Get Shredded!
Illegal phone use...WTF..
What are you left handed..??lol
Such BS charges. Sounds like you fucked the phone...shame on you.
DV...need to get that one snuffed..
Z...
He used an FCC Registered device to convey a terroristic threat. Anything criminal that happens over a phone is "Criminal Use of a Communication Device".
 

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Best advice I could give you right now is to relax. You’re a little too freaked out over some cops showing up at your door. I don’t know if you’ve been locked up before or dealt with 5-0 and no disrespect intended, but you don’t seem the brightest when dealing with them. I say this off the fact of how worried you are and the fact you think calling the sheriffs to try and gain something on them is a good idea LOL that’s not how it works bud. The only thing you can do when you talk to police is fuck yourself. That’s the whole reason they want to talk to you. If they have hard evidence, they don’t need to talk all they gotta do is read you your rights and let you know you’re under arrest under x charges. If you made any sort of threats or anything like that it comes down to he said she said, BUT you don’t want to explain any of this trying to prove you didn’t say or do x because you’ll only give them something to get hold off and eventually the truth will come out. Court battles are not about what’s true or not they’re about what can be proven. If you get in contact with LE you request a lawyer formally and shut the f** up. You then talk to your attorney and he handles the rest. That’s if any of this goes that far. Also nobody comes into your house without a warrant. Relax and whatever communication you have with this woman cut it, NO texts. You’ll be alright unless you put hands on her or something of that sort.
All fantastic advice and I’d listen to everything he said. I’d also add that warrants are much different then search warrants. And search warrants have to be specific for what they believe they are looking for. Now I’m not saying they wouldn’t have a search warrant to search for AAS… especially if your wife is looking to jack you up. I’d be hard pressed to believe they would issue a search warrant on your property over an ex “saying” you had drugs in your house. They would need more than that… I would think. Again I’m not 100% sure on it. I am sure about them needing to be specific to what they are on your property for.

It sounds to me like you lost your cool and said some dumb shit… she called and told on you and they’re now doing what they should be doing and making contact with you. They could have an arrest warrant for you however I don’t think you threatening her (if you did or didn’t it’s just the accusation at this point) would get them in your house searching through your property.

They could also be serving you with a 51A which is just a restraining order on steroids. It’s an emergency restraining order…

I’d protect yourself going forward. Stop having phone calls with this woman… if you need to speak to her you use text or email. If you have children with her there is a website called the “Family Wizard”. It’s a site you need to pay for ($100 something a year for each person). There you can communicate back and forth safely and it has a calendar for children's activities, an area for child support discussions, and it will even proofread your email and make suggestions when your being antagonistic or sarcastic… it’s design is to keep the peace and have a place where communication is recorded and it’s safe for everyone and easily accessible. I’ve used it with my ex wife and we have two children together.

Don’t talk to the police about this. You say… “ the things you’re suggesting sound serious and they say if you are ever in a situation to ask for a lawyer” Then request a lawyer and wait…

If it’s a he said/she said thing… 95% of the time it will be thrown out.
 

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Man, no one has said this yet after dozens of your threads, and it might be lost on some of the newer guys but…

We may have lost ROID and Bomber but you are the son of both, no doubt.
 

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Damn…. I just saw your post about being arrested. Hopefully this is the road you needed to go down to learn your lesson my friend. You are saying all the right things about being done with her but what I’m seeing is someone who is constantly putting someone else in front of himself. You haven’t done for you… what you should have been doing. And that’s taking care of yourself. It’s time to start working on you brother. Put the relationships aside and work on yourself
 

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Damn…. I just saw your post about being arrested. Hopefully this is the road you needed to go down to learn your lesson my friend. You are saying all the right things about being done with her but what I’m seeing is someone who is constantly putting someone else in front of himself. You haven’t done for you… what you should have been doing. And that’s taking care of yourself. It’s time to start working on you brother. Put the relationships aside and work on yourself

Absolutely 100% correct I have self sabotage myself to no end for this woman I cannot believe how much I’ve done for her and how much I’ve sacrificed and how much I’ve lost willingly to appease her I do not know what the hell is wrong with me the right man I need to hold myself up higher I don’t deserve this shit I don’t know why I’m doing this to myself

I’m not even sure what it means to do those things that you say, to take care of yourself and everything I have no idea what to even do or where to start but I think the first thing I gotta do is Stay as far away from this woman is possible that she has done so much to hurt me and she clearly has no intention of ever stoping.

Thank you though if you have any more specific insight on how I might be able to start taking care of myself I’m all ears man I can’t go on like this. If she takes these kids from me I’m really worried what I might do and I see that with all honesty. This woman is just pushed me too far I feel like I’m about to go on a suicide mission if she does anything more

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Man, no one has said this yet after dozens of your threads, and it might be lost on some of the newer guys but…

We may have lost ROID and Bomber but you are the son of both, no doubt.

Hopefully I can change that. I’m trying to do better man I just keep fucking up. I I don’t know what I did to piss god off that he felt I needed this woman in my life.

The hardest thing for me to live with is the fact that she got away with this shit from five years ago and it’s like literally every single little thing that I do comes back to me and she can get away with attempted murder

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When I was young...I would read none fiction...educational stuff..
Read a book about emotions..saying Not to bottle up or bury, but rather work through them...in a positive manner..
When you bury them, sometimes they resurface..and usually 10 times worse..

Brother...
Just concentrate on the children..
Do right by them,avoid conflict and try to be a good Father...
At times, that's all any of us can do..
Love you Brother..
Z..

Yeah man I know that’s what I meant honestly just trying to figure out how to have control over my emotions. Are some people just not able to control that shit? Or is this something that anyone can learn


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Yes I need to stop speaking to her period we are absolutely toxic… I cannot forgive her and I’m lashing out verbally badly. Very badly

Can you get in trouble for making threats and blowing up someone’s phone?


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Yes, you can be arrested and tried for terroristic threats. Your wife can sue civilly, and the State can press a criminal case against you.
 

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Yes, you can be arrested and tried for terroristic threats. Your wife can sue civilly, and the State can press a criminal case against you.

Yes I figured that out this morning they charge me with domestic violence disorderly conduct


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Yes I figured that out this morning they charge me with domestic violence disorderly conduct


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Do as others have said and get an attorney. Speak to no one about the case. They can still add more charges if they want to. Threatening to kill a person is generally not taken lightly. Let the attorney do all of the talking. You shouldn't personally speak to anyone without that attorney present, and only if the attorney gives you permission to answer.

If interrogated by the police, please understand they are not being held under oath. They can, and some will lie to trick you into giving them the answers they want. I'm not trying to paint the police as being the bad guy, I'm just telling you LE is not on your side when you are being interrogated.

I have a friend that went through a divorce a few years back. He and his wife got into an argument and she called 911. His first stupid mistake was to take the phone and disconnect the call. His second mistake was following her outside as she was leaving.
Later that night he was headed to one of his kids ball games. The police were waiting on him at the intersection down from his house. He was arrested then and there. His mom had to come out and pick the little ones up he had with him. His kids had to watch him go through that.

Once he stood before the judge at his arraignment he found out he had a list of charges against him. Most were lies, but they were there, and now he had to prove himself innocent. Several charges were felonies.

The DA tried multiple times to make a plea deal with my friend that would drop the felonies to misdemeanor offenses. Luckily he denied any pleas and he and his attorney took the case to court.

In his case there was a lack of evidence for everything except the disconnected emergency call. Because he chose a bench trial everything was left in the hands of the judge. The judge was letting my friend off very easy, but he was an idiot and told the judge to screw off when he was sentenced to nothing more than 12 months of probation.
That instantly turned into anger management classes, three years of probation, community service, and a nasty fine. Before my friend could say anything else the judge saved him from being a bigger idiot. The judge interrupted as soon as my friend began to speak and said, "Do you want to add jail time to your sentencing? I do not want you to go to jail. You are the only person working and paying to care for your children. Please think about your children as you move forward".

If you have a good attorney they can have charges reduced and even dropped. Just listen to the attorney and keep your mouth shut.
 

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Absolutely 100% correct I have self sabotage myself to no end for this woman I cannot believe how much I’ve done for her and how much I’ve sacrificed and how much I’ve lost willingly to appease her I do not know what the hell is wrong with me the right man I need to hold myself up higher I don’t deserve this shit I don’t know why I’m doing this to myself

I’m not even sure what it means to do those things that you say, to take care of yourself and everything I have no idea what to even do or where to start but I think the first thing I gotta do is Stay as far away from this woman is possible that she has done so much to hurt me and she clearly has no intention of ever stoping.

Thank you though if you have any more specific insight on how I might be able to start taking care of myself I’m all ears man I can’t go on like this. If she takes these kids from me I’m really worried what I might do and I see that with all honesty. This woman is just pushed me too far I feel like I’m about to go on a suicide mission if she does anything more

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Listen man I know shit stings some times but other guys have been there before. And everyone has to learn their lessons and take their lumps. While I was divorcing my ex-wife I was caught in a very strange time in my life. I won’t bore you with it but what I learned from those couple of years was my dependency on a relationship, going good or not, and how I was using that to distract me from some of the issues I had. In essence I was using women to numb myself and while I was doing that it allowed me to a distraction from what was really going on. And what was really going on was I had issues within myself. It won’t be until you reach that point when you deal with these issues that you’re able to look at a relationship with a woman in a correct way. Right? A woman… or a relationship is meant to enhance your life. It’s meant to compliment your life. And that relationship needs to be strong and healthy but most of all the relationship needs consistency. While I was going through those years the last thing I could see myself as was consistent. It lead to bad relationships with other broken women who also had issues. And while doing all of that MM all I was doing was not thinking about myself. I was so worried and consumed with pleasing someone else that I wasn’t making myself happy. I would buy them things… new stoves or refrigerators… tile their kitchens and install new toilets… I would take them on shopping trips and spend $1k in a day. That’s not a ton of money but it was more about then realizing later that….. I didn’t have a new tile floor. I didn’t have new cutting boards and $500 kitchen knife sets. I was searching around for just a single fork at my house at times lol. I know those are silly descriptions… but it was all figured out after the fact.

When I started addressing these issues I had… I realized I couldn’t be in a relationship at the moment. It wasn’t healthy for me to be in a relationship. What I needed was to work on me, to buy things that bettered MY LIFE, to better MY well being, and to put myself first in my life for the first time. It was hard work… I love pussy man, lol. I love it! And although I needed that I had to tell myself to take a different approach. I wasn’t there to save anyone anymore. And I certainly wasn’t there to be anyones white knight. I was alone for a year… in that time I worked on my house, my bills, my debt, my credit rating… I went to the gym and food prep’d.. I made sure my fridge had groceries. I was for the first time in my life… in my very late 30’s.. living my life on my own and on my own terms. After that year I realized I needed sex and I started down that path. But I was very upfront with any women I met and told them what I was looking for. Some turned me down and a lot understood and valued my honesty.

Last thing I’ll say…. All those years later I am so happy I went through those hard times. I am so glad I stood up for myself and learned those lessons… because it, again, for the first time it finally paid off. 5 years ago I met the most amazing woman you could ever imagine. The most incredible… stunning… absolutely beautiful inside and out… she’s the truest form of what a real woman is that I have ever seen. And I can honestly tell you we are happy, healthy, we share things in common, we respect one another, we argue but we don’t yell or scream and it’s never disrespectful. If I hadn’t made those changes MM I would have fucked this relationship up more than you know. But…. I haven’t and I don’t know what the future entails but what I do know is.. I love myself. And that allowed a REAL woman to love me.

Take your lumps… don’t fold into a distraction.. feel everything. Get upset and be angry… then listen to what I said and let that go. Learn to forgive and learn to put yourself forward but mean it! You’re going to be just fine brother. You’re just learning that’s all.

Hear if you need to talk… my door is always open.
 

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I snapped on my wife over the phone last night. Said some shir I shouldn’t have an I threatened her if she were to ever to it again… etc cops knocked at my door for 30mins straight at 5 AM freaking out right now to say the least


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Was it a BDSM role play gone bad ?


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In my State it is illegal to record a phone conversation without the consent of both parties. So we had a case where a guy was threatening someone. The other person recorded it illegallly. The police investigated, lawyers got involved and the person recording the convo, who legit received a threat was arrested.

Legit backwards. Just like alot of laws.

But you should research the laws in your State.
 

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In my State it is illegal to record a phone conversation without the consent of both parties. So we had a case where a guy was threatening someone. The other person recorded it illegallly. The police investigated, lawyers got involved and the person recording the convo, who legit received a threat was arrested.

Legit backwards. Just like alot of laws.

But you should research the laws in your State.
recording is illegal unless you believe a crime is being committed thats the loophole
 

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recording is illegal unless you believe a crime is being committed thats the loophole

I have never heard that before people are recording people all the time this day and age secretly or otherwise


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treat every conversation or interaction as if your being recorded. since she recorded the call she probably knew exactly how to play you so you would trip balls. get one of those recording apps and record every call she may try to contact you and get you to trip again
 

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Listen man I know shit stings some times but other guys have been there before. And everyone has to learn their lessons and take their lumps. While I was divorcing my ex-wife I was caught in a very strange time in my life. I won’t bore you with it but what I learned from those couple of years was my dependency on a relationship, going good or not, and how I was using that to distract me from some of the issues I had. In essence I was using women to numb myself and while I was doing that it allowed me to a distraction from what was really going on. And what was really going on was I had issues within myself. It won’t be until you reach that point when you deal with these issues that you’re able to look at a relationship with a woman in a correct way. Right? A woman… or a relationship is meant to enhance your life. It’s meant to compliment your life. And that relationship needs to be strong and healthy but most of all the relationship needs consistency. While I was going through those years the last thing I could see myself as was consistent. It lead to bad relationships with other broken women who also had issues. And while doing all of that MM all I was doing was not thinking about myself. I was so worried and consumed with pleasing someone else that I wasn’t making myself happy. I would buy them things… new stoves or refrigerators… tile their kitchens and install new toilets… I would take them on shopping trips and spend $1k in a day. That’s not a ton of money but it was more about then realizing later that….. I didn’t have a new tile floor. I didn’t have new cutting boards and $500 kitchen knife sets. I was searching around for just a single fork at my house at times lol. I know those are silly descriptions… but it was all figured out after the fact.

When I started addressing these issues I had… I realized I couldn’t be in a relationship at the moment. It wasn’t healthy for me to be in a relationship. What I needed was to work on me, to buy things that bettered MY LIFE, to better MY well being, and to put myself first in my life for the first time. It was hard work… I love pussy man, lol. I love it! And although I needed that I had to tell myself to take a different approach. I wasn’t there to save anyone anymore. And I certainly wasn’t there to be anyones white knight. I was alone for a year… in that time I worked on my house, my bills, my debt, my credit rating… I went to the gym and food prep’d.. I made sure my fridge had groceries. I was for the first time in my life… in my very late 30’s.. living my life on my own and on my own terms. After that year I realized I needed sex and I started down that path. But I was very upfront with any women I met and told them what I was looking for. Some turned me down and a lot understood and valued my honesty.

Last thing I’ll say…. All those years later I am so happy I went through those hard times. I am so glad I stood up for myself and learned those lessons… because it, again, for the first time it finally paid off. 5 years ago I met the most amazing woman you could ever imagine. The most incredible… stunning… absolutely beautiful inside and out… she’s the truest form of what a real woman is that I have ever seen. And I can honestly tell you we are happy, healthy, we share things in common, we respect one another, we argue but we don’t yell or scream and it’s never disrespectful. If I hadn’t made those changes MM I would have fucked this relationship up more than you know. But…. I haven’t and I don’t know what the future entails but what I do know is.. I love myself. And that allowed a REAL woman to love me.

Take your lumps… don’t fold into a distraction.. feel everything. Get upset and be angry… then listen to what I said and let that go. Learn to forgive and learn to put yourself forward but mean it! You’re going to be just fine brother. You’re just learning that’s all.

Hear if you need to talk… my door is always open.

Thanks so much for writing that up I like that you roll from the heart man I really appreciate that I hope I have a similar end in here. I do finally feel like I can just stop worrying about pussy it’s just causing so many problems right now so it’s time to do what you did years ago. That last bit you said they’re about loving yourself that’s a huge problem with my man I don’t think I do not in the slightest.

I’m just gonna focus on my kids and myself before I end up losing them too.


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Hopefully I can change that. I’m trying to do better man I just keep fucking up. I I don’t know what I did to piss god off that he felt I needed this woman in my life.

The hardest thing for me to live with is the fact that she got away with this shit from five years ago and it’s like literally every single little thing that I do comes back to me and she can get away with attempted murder

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Can't blame God for your own actions, that's ridiculous, Proverbs 19:3 states
"A man's foolishness ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the LORD". Start taking some accountability, that's the only way change happens homie.
 

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treat every conversation or interaction as if your being recorded. since she recorded the call she probably knew exactly how to play you so you would trip balls. get one of those recording apps and record every call she may try to contact you and get you to trip again

Man I wonder if she’s been using one of those apps for a while now. I won’t lie and I won’t sugarcoat it I have definitely been laying into her verbally, but as soon as I mention what she did she hangs up. Good way to get me to react on tape with out while hanging up before I did the same thing that would that would incriminate her..

So initially we We’re going through a uncontested divorce without attorneys so I am wondering if she decides to use this as ammunition in a custody battle when will I know that she’s no longer going through with the uncontested divorce?


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