I try and tell everyone this precise thing.Listen I was open to my wife about everything since day one. Unfortunately now that it’s time to move on she uses my steroid use as the reason for everything that’s wrong or ever went wrong in the past. She use to have no problem with pinning me or putting here hand out for fight checks or living the lifestyle it all paid for. Now pffft complete 180 and she’s quick to tell everyone she’s sees about roids now too. In hindsight I wouldn’t have told her shit. I have no doubt I’ll be pertrayed as a crazy abusive steroid abuser in court now as well.
I try and tell everyone this precise thing.
When I went to Court for custody for my older daughter, the first thing they tried to do is paint me as an anabolic user
My lawyer knew it and so we brought my scripts in and I did labs prior to.show I was in range.
Her attorney tried to get custody by lying, saying I was abusive bc of steroid, roid rage etc. They had zero evidence but went with that
My lawyer hands the judge our packet. Proving script and in range and medical need. With a smile on his face.
The judge immediately scolded the other lawyer and embarrassed her in front of everyone. I ended up winning.
This is the second time in my life that a woman, I trusted to the end of the Earth, betrayed me and tried to set me up.
My point being, do not EVER tell your gf or wife about your use. Never.
When you get setup or burnt like many of us have, you will understand. You think you can trust that person with your life until they are desperate and vengeful.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
Keep your mouth shut. Trust me
My wife does my pinning, cooks my food puts my shoes on for me if I can’t myself. She wiped my ass early in our relationship after caring for me in ICU when the nurses were slacking.
I have no room for duplicity in my life. She knows and is a part of everything that she want to be.
An interesting post.
Because when I was much younger a guy said to me “Women are the enemy.” I thought that, man, that’s pretty harsh. But then he continued “…and once you understand that, you can begin to have meaningful relationshoips with them.”
Sort of like that uncle or cousin who you KNOW is a piece of shit crook, but once you acknowledge it, you can sort of set boundaries in your head and be able to enjoy whatever kind of interactions you have with him.
In my much older self, I totally see that. In fact, I understood this early and so have had many awesome relationships with women.
I think most would have nothing really bad to say about me.
I never understood how you can love someone so much them go after them with such evil intent?
If you have to lie, hide and sneak around someone’s back to live your life the way YOU want to, probably not a good idea to enter into a harsh legal and moral contract with any woman.
Of course compromise is part of the deal but you need to decide how much shit you can eat first.
My wife knows I take prohormones or serms and I've been open that I wanted to take a cycle but I never actually told her I did. I brought it up before and she freaked about having needles in the house w young kids (valid).. I've run 2 cycles without her knowing. She's not a snooper but I also keep things in high places.
I say it depends.
It depends on the woman you are with.
My wife is amazing. I was afraid to tell her at first Bc I wasn’t sure how she would react.
Her reaction?? Can I use something too???
We are in the lifestyle together.
And I can say it cuts down on a lot of stupid arguments.
My ex gf tolerated it for awhile. But eventually blamed anything and everything I did or said on the steroids.
In her defense, she went thru my trials of tren and it wasn’t good. I fucked it up.
IMO you need to find someone compatible who is on board with you… if you have to hide or lie?? Idk what kind of marriage you want.
Bc they will find out and you will pay. Of course some guys here are doing half truths. Maybe you can fool them for awhile
But if you want to use PEDS and you girl isn’t into it, then you aren’t compatible. Period.
For those women that “change” after awhile, get angry and vindictive…. They were always that way.
And they were lying and fooled you too
Seriously tho, when relationships go south, it gets ugly often times. And ppl use whatever to hurt you. Maybe you hurt them first. Idk.
I am with Cabo on the idea of ending relationships as friends. You loved each other once, remember that and be friendly. Women don’t want to hurt you if you are friends.
My ex wife cheated a few times. I tried like hell for my son. Couldn’t do it.
I had every reason in the world to hate her. I made the decision to remain friendly.
It has paid big dividends for me. I see my son all the time. No child support or alimony. She knew she did me wrong…
Always remain friendly. At least until the dust settles. Tell them you want to remain friends. Be in their lives. Whatever it takes.
Or you will be living in a one bedroom apartment trying to make your bills. Working two jobs. And never see your kids. All while her new man raises your son.
That's good info and heart felt knowledge there Brothers..
Being a single parent for yrs...A true Man loves his kids and Will sacrifice anything for them..
Nice 51...
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Bro, Ty
Love my son so much.
My ex cheated like 3 times. I tried to get back to a fresh start, but she couldn’t be trusted.
Up nights with knots in my stomach. No response from her.
Meanwhile I am watch our son.
I think when the cops finally came to the house (she called) I knew it was over.
Anyone who frowns on divorce or thinks any marriage can be saved? Never met my ex.
Biggest liar I have ever met in my life.
Now her new husband has to deal with her shit. And btw they are ready for a divorce.
SHe left me for him. Married him the same week our divorce was finalized. Got matching tattoos with “soul mates.”
Lolz.
But, my life is so great right now. I would go thru it again to be right where I am.
We all have our stories.
Haha... I don't know I can't imagine keeping this from her or maybe making it her idea that I start a cycle.. shes been on var and steriods is a normal topic in the house... more than likely it will come out.. I thought it was going to last cycle when I blew up taking sdrol and my body really changed in a short time but she just thought I was eating more.. she's nieve sometimes.Do you plan on doing it behind her back for the rest of her/your life? I just don’t see how that’s even practical if you guys are close. I mean she’ll probably see the holes you’ve been boring in your ass at some point, surprised she hasn’t yet
That sucks brother. Sorry to hear that.
My wife knows it all. But then she now blasts to the last 6 or 7 years and is on self prescribed trt too. She went through the "change" and her being on proper thyroid meds for her their issue and trt she had zero issues with that whole thing that lasted about 18 months.
I couldn't imagine having a wife or girl that i had to hide it from. That would be miserable. But unless they're around that life or do it themselves, sadly most don't get it. Just like the covid scam, they're brainwashed by their tv's about aas.
My son who's just getting going in this world where gear is needed for his career choice, I've been over and over how women can be and how they'll be cool until something goes south and then they'll shoot their mouth off to anyone that'll listen about what a "roid head" you are. How much you do, where you get it from, anything. So girls can definitely be a liability in some ways with this life.
Curious as to what career field he’s going into that gear use is needed
Him specifically. Wasn’t asking for a list.
I was genuinely curious about what he was saying.
I’m just guessing at careers where you’d need gear. MMA maybe?
I’m just guessing at careers where you’d need gear. MMA maybe?
Maybe an elementary school PE teacher… gotta show them little bitches who’s boss