I don’t blame you man. I’m having a hard time forgiving my wife for going out to the bar with my best friend (at the time). Apparently they left the bar to go to his friends house across the street to play video games but they didn’t fuck apparently. I just ran into him at the store (literally 30 mins ago) First time seeing him since that whole thing happened. I wanted to knock his teeth in. Tried bringing them together to talk about that night but my wife got pissed off and stormed off… he claims they didn’t do anything but he did hug her. I do believe him though. I saw his text in her phone the next day morning he told her he wishes he would have kissed her too…. Wife still insists the whole night was nothing and she had no interest in him that way…. Fuck bro I’m ready to loose it right now I’m shaking… couldn’t imagine if I knew she actually fucked him or even worse my cousin…
Her storming off is bullshit. Her way to reverse it on you by getting pissed off. What a joke.
You absolutely deserved an explanation and details.
IMO they didn’t go play video games. They went and found a place to be alone together.
That’s one more reason your wife shouldn’t be going out without you. Especially a bar. Where inhibition drops ten fold with alcohol.
I have personally witnessed “girls night out” once. I say have the girls were meeting up with someone or ended up going home with someone.
“Honey, going to sleep over at Jenna’s house, too drunk to drive home. See you in the morning. Give the kids a kiss Gn “
I understand you have to make a choice to believe or not. And what happens if you choose the latter.
Ppl make mistakes. Men and women do slip up.
But I do agree with you and Ar15…. Once the trust is gone?? Relationship is pretty much over.
I have been there before.
I guess make peace with it and live a happy quiet life for your kids.
Always remember tho with guy friends,
“familiarity breeds contempt.”