Maybe your on to something bro but IMO, and it’s meant with no disrespect, your acting like you own your wife rather than just being married to her or you have Neanderthal views on a marriage. Pretty much the same thing really. I mean what if she still doesn’t listen after I lay down the law? What’s my next step if I don’t want to kick her to the curb? Should I start beating her? You know just a punch or two to make her see my point at first but then if that doesn’t work I probably should start clubbing the bitch with like ball bats and shit. That will make her want to fuck me on command guaranteed. After all what woman doesn’t want to be beat down like a rented mule.
I think you misunderstand some of what I am saying.
But to answer, you would be one of many who are stuck with an incompatible spouse.
If one chooses well, there is no need to argue or fight over sex. No need to go to plan B.
Both spouses want the same thing.
That’s me and my wife now. Never one single fight in our marriage. Hard to believe when you are with a spouse and there are lots of fights.
I would have believed it either until now.
When I had to lay the law down, the person I was with wasn’t compatible enough.
And they all went to the way side.
I never recommend leaving the house for 3 days. Someone else said that... I just recommend expressing strongly that needs aren’t being met.
And wants aren’t being considered. That it’s creating a wedge and tearing the marriage apart. Bc when you’re intimate, it’s a chance to bond, for the both of you.
If she isn’t giving you that?? Then she isn’t for you. And you know what? One you find someone more compatible in this regard, you will thank God.
I get pissed when a woman portrays herself as like mind and then changes with marriage. That’s bait and switch.
And so the saying was created, “once you say I do, they say I don’t.”
If you’re seriously being deprived then why the fuck would any man want to stay anyway? To look at a hot pussy they never really get.
My ex told me near the end that I am lucky that we have sex once a week. That her friends she spoke to have sex once a month.
Imagine that? Lucky.
Now she’s some other man’s problem. He can jerk off into a fucking pillow.
Bc I am not that guy.
No disrespect meant bro. You know that.