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    Ok who's paid for sex?

    Never cheated on the wife she pretty much does it all for me. But being with the same woman for 25 years and being 46 I'm not getting any younger and I often wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. Yeah I have a few options for free but I wouldn't want the connection or the ongoing trouble. More of a pay to go away deal.

    This is kind of a fantasy and I have no idea why I feel like I can post this shit here lol. But you guys have always been straight shooters. What your thoughts on this?

    BTW I'm not talking a street walker here obviously. I'm talking a 1k a hr call girl. Low numbers kind of woman.

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    I feel your pain. Speaking for myself, I've ran through a lot of chicks before I was married and thought the itch was scratched. Got married, been with her for 13 years and we barely have sex anymore. If I don't get some new puss every 2 years or so I go crazy. I love my wife but fuck, it sucks being a man sometimes and feeling that pull on you.

    My thoughts are this...if you're the kind of guy that will fuck someone else and be up all night riddled with guilt, don't do it. I have no idea what kind of personality you have so you'll have to soul search this on your own. DO NOT fuck another chick if you'll honestly think it'll eat you alive with guilt. However, if you're not going to have that issue then a call girl is right up your alley. I've personally never paid for pussy in my life but, I would.

    Here's how I would look at paying for it. I'm not paying for "sex", I'm paying for her "to leave when its done". Big difference. The reason I've never paid is because I just love the hunt. I love dating, being charming, the connection, etc. But...as you've already pointed out. That comes with potential "ongoing trouble". For me its not an issue b/c I'm very good dealing with women and they actually all know that I'm married before I fuck them. But enough of my rambling, you're not asking for dating advice, you're asking thoughts on a call girl. From what my guy friends have told me, $1000 would be grossly overpaying FYI. But maybe its that high b/c you're paying for the "low numbers". I personally would say bullshit on the low numbers. But that's up to you to determine. A buddy of mine showed me a website a couple years ago and apparently there's a massage parlor here in Tampa that has prostitutes. The pics and bios of the girls were on that site and honestly...they were fucking hot. Like porn star hot, I was impressed. The prices were about $200 an hour if I remember. I cannot for the life of me remember that site but I have an idea that something like that happens in every major city. Anyhow that's my thoughts and 2 cents!

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    Every boy pays for kisses.



    FYI--you're doing the midlife crisis thing from the sound of things. Your wife does it all, but you're wondering what a different puss would feel like? You know what they feel like. Real great right up until you bust and then it's just another puss and you're wondering why the hell you did it. If you made it this long, you made it for a reason. Instead of investing that time and effort into figuring out which whore won't give you a disease, spend it romancing the wife. If you just have a prostitute fantasy, tell the wife...throw some 20's at her and tell her you want your dick sucked like there's no tomorrow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigshow300 View Post
    I feel your pain. Speaking for myself, I've ran through a lot of chicks before I was married and thought the itch was scratched. Got married, been with her for 13 years and we barely have sex anymore. If I don't get some new puss every 2 years or so I go crazy. I love my wife but fuck, it sucks being a man sometimes and feeling that pull on you.

    My thoughts are this...if you're the kind of guy that will fuck someone else and be up all night riddled with guilt, don't do it. I have no idea what kind of personality you have so you'll have to soul search this on your own. DO NOT fuck another chick if you'll honestly think it'll eat you alive with guilt. However, if you're not going to have that issue then a call girl is right up your alley. I've personally never paid for pussy in my life but, I would.

    Here's how I would look at paying for it. I'm not paying for "sex", I'm paying for her "to leave when its done". Big difference. The reason I've never paid is because I just love the hunt. I love dating, being charming, the connection, etc. But...as you've already pointed out. That comes with potential "ongoing trouble". For me its not an issue b/c I'm very good dealing with women and they actually all know that I'm married before I fuck them. But enough of my rambling, you're not asking for dating advice, you're asking thoughts on a call girl. From what my guy friends have told me, $1000 would be grossly overpaying FYI. But maybe its that high b/c you're paying for the "low numbers". I personally would say bullshit on the low numbers. But that's up to you to determine. A buddy of mine showed me a website a couple years ago and apparently there's a massage parlor here in Tampa that has prostitutes. The pics and bios of the girls were on that site and honestly...they were fucking hot. Like porn star hot, I was impressed. The prices were about $200 an hour if I remember. I cannot for the life of me remember that site but I have an idea that something like that happens in every major city. Anyhow that's my thoughts and 2 cents!
    Lol to tell you the truth I probably couldn't even do it when it came down to it. Even if she was hot as hell and half my age standing butt naked in front of me. So I think you hit the nail on the head.

    I'm not that guy that likes the hgun. I have a bunch of hobbies that I'd rather do to tell you the truth lol. Thanks for your post.

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    FYI--you're doing the midlife crisis thing from the sound of things. Your wife does it all, but you're wondering what a different puss would feel like? You know what they feel like. Real great right up until you bust and then it's just another puss and you're wondering why the hell you did it. If you made it this long, you made it for a reason. Instead of investing that time and effort into figuring out which whore won't give you a disease, spend it romancing the wife. If you just have a prostitute fantasy, tell the wife...throw some 20's at her and tell her you want your dick sucked like there's no tomorrow.
    Another one right on. Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by wesley_swolle View Post
    Would your wife go for a ggb 3some? Two fantasies for the price of one

    I didn't choose the swolle life, the swolle life chose me~Wesley Swolle
    We've been with maybe 16 girls but fuking the other girl is off limits. Everything else is all good. Honestly we grew bored of it as we aged lol. We still have sex about 3 times a week and it's good as I could ask for. She's down for anything to make me happy. It's just those thoughts of what other pussy is like or the reactions from someone else kind of thing.

    After seeing these posts I know it's just a fantasy. Thanks guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigtime916 View Post
    We've been with maybe 16 girls but fuking the other girl is off limits. Everything else is all good. Honestly we grew bored of it as we aged lol. We still have sex about 3 times a week and it's good as I could ask for. She's down for anything to make me happy. It's just those thoughts of what other pussy is like or the reactions from someone else kind of thing.

    After seeing these posts I know it's just a fantasy. Thanks guys.
    Got damn! Maybe I need to be asking you for advice, lol

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    Girls here are super expensive but, it is all about what you want/they list what they do online and in there ads. Some will let you make sex tape for $$ amount. There are high end , famous porn girls, IG girls(that u think are just sexy) but they hook. Then you have the real bad , waking streets types(nobody does that except other addicts). Although, a local Doc got arrested(Indian) : He would only give the girl $30 after agreeing on $100. Get this: she actually called the police and turned him in (she was arrested but was so mad(and mental obviously). What a fool! He is well known too.
    Cheap bastard! . For some reason, I am a magnet for couples: at clubs/parties/even at a hotel pool by myself. They all use similar tactics everytime: True story:
    I am barely out of high school, at a Extended Stay Hotel by myself for 2 weeks. I am laying out at pool , only about 25 people hanging at pool. So, this 30 something guy walks up and starts small talk(workout stuff Everytime), Then he asks if I think “that girl is hot?” Pointing over to where he was earlier. I instantly know it is his girl , so of course I am cordial(she was pretty but) I didn’t want to be outta line . I say “ Very “
    He tells me his name and then tells me it is his wife and she likes my looks. I am getting the creep factor feeling now. I was didn’t know what to say , just “thats cool”, he takes a sec more and the nice to meet you, repeating his and his wife’s name. Later, I’m walking out and he catches me , wife starting to follow. They tell me the room number and try to tie me down for drinks later. I don’t drink, sorry. Then he just lets it out: “ Dude, I am not gay and I swear I won’t touch you. I will sit in a chair but, my wife wants you and I don’t mind you fucking her, I like to see her do it! (I am 19 mind you). I just said , maybe but, IDK. I can’t believe that you won’t try something on me. He assured me and then she is really aggressive and comes right up to my face and tells me she want my “blah ::/;-,-?/“ . I led them on and gave a possibly , they tried asking for my Room # ,
    I denied them.

    Anyway, the woman was good to go , big tits. I was just untrusting and couldn’t get myself to do it. Fast forward now : had it happen like over 30x! Crazy but, there are a lot of horny couples . I also have been with my papa, uncles , and had escorts(hookers) walk up like regular girls interested and I instantly know : the clothes give them away and just how they operate. My naive uncle is taking the bait !lol
    I told him, he was like damn, I thought I was getting lucky. If I was single and an introvert :
    I would get a new one every week . After dont the math: it is a deal compared to a girlfriend .
    I am not though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wesley_swolle View Post
    Got damn! Maybe I need to be asking you for advice, lol

    I didn't choose the swolle life, the swolle life chose me~Wesley Swolle
    Meh the last one was 6 years ago so we're rusty lol.
    It was super fun tho. The last one was my wife's best friend and it started getting weird. She was pretty much living with us and walking around naked and shit. That was the end lol. Wife said wait I'm your wife and I feel like she's married to us so this has to stop. I didn't argue. The friend freaked out and it was like a bad break up. But now we're all friends but it's weird talking to her husband when we all get together. He's a bit of a cuck so we don't have a lot in common.

    The main thing is if you want a 3 some is to always make it about your girl and not to focus on the other girl too much. Make her confident as hell. Act like you don't give a fuk if it happens or not. Just plant seeds here and there. We've both pulled girls from work. Mine didn't work out so well for obvious reasons.

    Weird part was back then I didn't care about screwing the other girls. Everything else was enough. I'm talking 4 hr sessions of crazy shit. 🤪

    I honestly think MOST women are down. You just have to plant those seeds and have a great relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxmuscle1 View Post
    Girls here are super expensive but, it is all about what you want/they list what they do online and in there ads. Some will let you make sex tape for $$ amount. There are high end , famous porn girls, IG girls(that u think are just sexy) but they hook. Then you have the real bad , waking streets types(nobody does that except other addicts). Although, a local Doc got arrested(Indian) : He would only give the girl $30 after agreeing on $100. Get this: she actually called the police and turned him in (she was arrested but was so mad(and mental obviously). What a fool! He is well known too.
    Cheap bastard! . For some reason, I am a magnet for couples: at clubs/parties/even at a hotel pool by myself. They all use similar tactics everytime: True story:
    I am barely out of high school, at a Extended Stay Hotel by myself for 2 weeks. I am laying out at pool , only about 25 people hanging at pool. So, this 30 something guy walks up and starts small talk(workout stuff Everytime), Then he asks if I think “that girl is hot?” Pointing over to where he was earlier. I instantly know it is his girl , so of course I am cordial(she was pretty but) I didn’t want to be outta line . I say “ Very “
    He tells me his name and then tells me it is his wife and she likes my looks. I am getting the creep factor feeling now. I was didn’t know what to say , just “thats cool”, he takes a sec more and the nice to meet you, repeating his and his wife’s name. Later, I’m walking out and he catches me , wife starting to follow. They tell me the room number and try to tie me down for drinks later. I don’t drink, sorry. Then he just lets it out: “ Dude, I am not gay and I swear I won’t touch you. I will sit in a chair but, my wife wants you and I don’t mind you fucking her, I like to see her do it! (I am 19 mind you). I just said , maybe but, IDK. I can’t believe that you won’t try something on me. He assured me and then she is really aggressive and comes right up to my face and tells me she want my “blah ::/;-,-?/“ . I led them on and gave a possibly , they tried asking for my Room # ,
    I denied them.

    Anyway, the woman was good to go , big tits. I was just untrusting and couldn’t get myself to do it. Fast forward now : had it happen like over 30x! Crazy but, there are a lot of horny couples . I also have been with my papa, uncles , and had escorts(hookers) walk up like regular girls interested and I instantly know : the clothes give them away and just how they operate. My naive uncle is taking the bait !lol
    I told him, he was like damn, I thought I was getting lucky. If I was single and an introvert :
    I would get a new one every week . After dont the math: it is a deal compared to a girlfriend .
    I am not though.

    Max
    Thats some crazy shit. I couldn't do that shit either. I would be like what's the deal here. Will this dude try to step in mid pump? Lol.
    But hey if that shit gets you off you gotta do what ya gotta do! Women are coming up it seems and the woke crowd are cucks happy to see their wives get screwed. Just weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Multislacking View Post
    Every boy pays for kisses.



    FYI--you're doing the midlife crisis thing from the sound of things. Your wife does it all, but you're wondering what a different puss would feel like? You know what they feel like. Real great right up until you bust and then it's just another puss and you're wondering why the hell you did it. If you made it this long, you made it for a reason. Instead of investing that time and effort into figuring out which whore won't give you a disease, spend it romancing the wife. If you just have a prostitute fantasy, tell the wife...throw some 20's at her and tell her you want your dick sucked like there's no tomorrow.
    This is great advice right here . I have been with my wife 21 years and have a 18 year old daughter and trust me if you were to get caught it would be ugly . I did some stuff before the kid was born and it is still brought up to this day . It isn’t worth it
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    Quote Originally Posted by frank zazz View Post
    This is great advice right here . I have been with my wife 21 years and have a 18 year old daughter and trust me if you were to get caught it would be ugly . I did some stuff before the kid was born and it is still brought up to this day . It isn’t worth it
    I didn't want to bring up another point. These guys that do cheat and then feel guilty and confess to the wife... *HUGE* mistake. That shit will get thrown in your face every argument for the rest of your marriage. I've never understood why guys do that to themselves. Just keep your mouth shut and be prepared to live with it. I'm all for honesty in a marriage, but some things are best left unsaid. Never tell her you cheated, she's fat, etc. No win situations that you will regret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigtime916 View Post
    Thats some crazy shit. I couldn't do that shit either. I would be like what's the deal here. Will this dude try to step in mid pump? Lol.
    But hey if that shit gets you off you gotta do what ya gotta do! Women are coming up it seems and the woke crowd are cucks happy to see their wives get screwed. Just weird.
    Yeah. If I was older and had more life experience: I would have definitely hammered her . But, I would do it on my terms. I thought the exact thing . I didn’t even mention, they offered me $200 too. I just thought for sure the guy was definitely off, had that look of - overly excited look and All kinds of scenarios went through my head. I am sure they were high now thinking back. They didn’t have any beer or drinks at the pool

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    I pay for sex everyday for the last 14 years.... I know who gets the money just not sure whose getting the sex....

    also.... cheating is not worth it even if you don’t get caught. What gets done in the dark will get brought out into the light. Yes I am a hypocrite but sweating bullets everytime your wife gives you the silent treatment sucks donkey balls.

    and if you do decide to play in someone else’s playground ; consider this.... if your wife decided to do that to you, would you wanna know? Especially married with children men who have good lives and don’t want to lose everything they’ve worked for over some slip of the tongue (pun intended).

    trust me.... leaving your home and your kids because you were curious about “what could be” will lead to some serious regrets when the “honeymoon” stage wears off.

    don’t do it. Spice things up with your wife some other way. I feel sorry for you guys whose wives did allow another woman into your bed.... I mean once you’re bored of that where do you go from there?

    I still at least have the option of maybe having that happen for me (doubtful) lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by maxmuscle1 View Post
    Yeah. If I was older and had more life experience: I would have definitely hammered her . But, I would do it on my terms. I thought the exact thing . I didn’t even mention, they offered me $200 too. I just thought for sure the guy was definitely off, had that look of - overly excited look and All kinds of scenarios went through my head. I am sure they were high now thinking back. They didn’t have any beer or drinks at the pool

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    Yeah just sketch. Now if you're single and you are willing to get up and leave if the husband gets weird I say go for it.

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