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My gf lazy as shit, hasn’t worked in months

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Run her ass off. Plenty of women who can help provide. I do t need my woman to make a lot of money but you damn sure won’t sit at the house

In Florida if you don’t have a job. It’s because you don’t want one. Everyone is hiring
 
100! I don't care how hot she is. If that disrespect is allowed, it'll continue. Nope.
 
Some guys in here with great advice but i
Side with Farmaton on this one… my girl
has been there and looking. My girl absolutely was petrified of change… it was as if it was debilitating to her. When she found herself without a job it was scary and enough to through her into a depression. The answer to
every fire is water… and never gasoline.

Sometimes it takes more than just words… we’ve all been in dark times and we all know how hard it is to get out. Communicating with her and giving her some insight on what you’re financially facing would be the first step… and being there to get her out of that funk is your second step. Giving her the tools and the confidence she needs to get back on her horse. She may need to do the work but if you love this woman than be real with her and be kind to what she may be facing…. By kind I don’t mean enable her or allow her to do nothing but rather being the man she may need you to be right now. And brother I am not saying you haven’t been that man… if you see your future with this woman be there for her and get her back up and on her feet… she will always remember you not giving up on her and you being there in a supportive way.

Now…. That all goes out the window if she’s just being lazy and doesn’t accept your advice or support. If that happens… personally I would understand we’re in this life for a reason and we are also in relationships for a reason. A very long time ago men and woman were married for political reasons and reasons of stature… what job they held or positions they carried. Women married men in search of bright futures and successful lives. Along the way this stopped becoming reasons for marriage and looks and attractiveness became a more important quality. Well… with that change we stopped marrying the people we would work best with and we began the process of marrying for less important reasons… life is one shot and you’re done. Being in a relationship is not just about lust or love… it can be about many things but the main reason should be you’re a strong team. It takes a team to raise kids and it takes a team to keep the house afloat. Every person in the village has a role… if there’s someone not fulfilling their role than what do you have?

Good luck with your situation my friend. Be calm and leave headed right now… look ahead and see your moves. Sometimes the best move is when your lost in the woods is to stay put… other times it’s humping it out by foot.
 
heckler7 said:
a women would not let you sit around without a job for a minute, they would dump your ass and clown on you. just sayn
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TheOldJJdigs said:
Some guys in here with great advice but i
Side with Farmaton on this one… my girl
has been there and looking. My girl absolutely was petrified of change… it was as if it was debilitating to her. When she found herself without a job it was scary and enough to through her into a depression. The answer to
every fire is water… and never gasoline.

Sometimes it takes more than just words… we’ve all been in dark times and we all know how hard it is to get out. Communicating with her and giving her some insight on what you’re financially facing would be the first step… and being there to get her out of that funk is your second step. Giving her the tools and the confidence she needs to get back on her horse. She may need to do the work but if you love this woman than be real with her and be kind to what she may be facing…. By kind I don’t mean enable her or allow her to do nothing but rather being the man she may need you to be right now. And brother I am not saying you haven’t been that man… if you see your future with this woman be there for her and get her back up and on her feet… she will always remember you not giving up on her and you being there in a supportive way.

Now…. That all goes out the window if she’s just being lazy and doesn’t accept your advice or support. If that happens… personally I would understand we’re in this life for a reason and we are also in relationships for a reason. A very long time ago men and woman were married for political reasons and reasons of stature… what job they held or positions they carried. Women married men in search of bright futures and successful lives. Along the way this stopped becoming reasons for marriage and looks and attractiveness became a more important quality. Well… with that change we stopped marrying the people we would work best with and we began the process of marrying for less important reasons… life is one shot and you’re done. Being in a relationship is not just about lust or love… it can be about many things but the main reason should be you’re a strong team. It takes a team to raise kids and it takes a team to keep the house afloat. Every person in the village has a role… if there’s someone not fulfilling their role than what do you have?

Good luck with your situation my friend. Be calm and leave headed right now… look ahead and see your moves. Sometimes the best move is when your lost in the woods is to stay put… other times it’s humping it out by foot.
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This is excellent advice 👏
 
My girl had a job and quit. Still complains about not having money but it is like DAMN....wonder what could have solved that problem! I laid out my finances to 1) show her the reality of the situation and 2) so she can see where I need help. A partnership is supposed to be equal and when 1 is a drain, that needs to be addressed. A mistake that is repeated is a choice. Tons of jobs available but she feels like she would be settling for less than what she is worth taking them. At this point, money is money, and it is more than 0 by passing them all up over pride. It is not sustainable to have a drain. I don't do freeloaders. Carry your weight or find someone else who will but it isn't me. Definitely better advice in this thread than what I am giving here but that's just me. Wouldn't want you to be as hard lined as I am and risk losing her if you care that much for her.
 
Make a list of pros vs. cons in having her around. Pros win, keep her and make a path forward to figure out the finance situation (together). Cons win, you know what to do. Thing that stands out to me is starting a fight when you are clearly letting her know that you are struggling financially. Like many have said there are tons of ways to make money and contribute these days, it’s not like she only has 1-2 choices. Hell there are a ton of basic data entry jobs you can do from home that require 0 experience that pay something. And something is better than nothing when you are struggling. Good luck bro!
 
There are a lot of single guys on this thread! 😄"Who hurt you?" Lol!
Guess the younger generation does the "50/50" thing pretty hard. Damn! Ready to throw your women away over some money? 🤨
To each their own 🤷‍♂️
 
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FARMATON said:
There are a lot of single guys on this thread! 😄"Who hurt you?" Lol!
Guess the younger generation does the "50/50" thing pretty hard. Damn! Ready to throw your women away over some money? 🤨
To each their own 🤷‍♂️
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I don’t know where you live but where I live they want 650k for a shitty 2 bedroom house with a leaky roof, no inspection. Hell yeah, I’m throwing away some ass if she doesn’t wanna pull some weight. This isn’t 1973, she better bring something else to the table. (Yes I’m scared of women) 😂
 
FARMATON said:
There are a lot of single guys on this thread! 😄"Who hurt you?" Lol!
Guess the younger generation does the "50/50" thing pretty hard. Damn! Ready to throw your women away over some money? 🤨
To each their own 🤷‍♂️
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No I’m not going to throw her away I been with her 3 yrs, it’s just frustrating
 
Tren_Setter253 said:
I don’t know where you live but where I live they want 650k for a shitty 2 bedroom house with a leaky roof, no inspection. Hell yeah, I’m throwing away some ass if she doesn’t wanna pull some weight. This isn’t 1973, she better bring something else to the table. (Yes I’m scared of women) 😂
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I’m in New Jersey, where are you that prices that high?
 
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Papasmurf said:
Make a list of pros vs. cons in having her around. Pros win, keep her and make a path forward to figure out the finance situation (together). Cons win, you know what to do. Thing that stands out to me is starting a fight when you are clearly letting her know that you are struggling financially. Like many have said there are tons of ways to make money and contribute these days, it’s not like she only has 1-2 choices. Hell there are a ton of basic data entry jobs you can do from home that require 0 experience that pay something. And something is better than nothing when you are struggling. Good luck bro!
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I know trust me I try telling her but she got bad temper so sometimes it better to leave it alone , sexy as hell but a bad temper
 
FARMATON said:
Understandably frustrating. Does she contribute at home? Keep the place nice, meals, back-rubs, booty etc... ?
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Sometimes , we been fighting a lot lately I’m working 50+ hours a week so we survive , I’m tired of her laying around
 
Shotta609 said:
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I know trust me I try telling her but she got bad temper so sometimes it better to leave it alone , sexy as hell but a bad temper
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Yeah a pros & cons list is something you do when you're car-shopping, lol, this is a person and 3 year relationship we're talking about,
Anger covers fear brother. You get angry because you fear what will happen without a 2nd income, she probably fears losing you or having you think shes a dead-beat.
If you love her then love her, love has a price-tag, but you can't buy it. People spend fortunes just looking for love, you are ahead of the game. This is just a temporary set-back financially.
 
FARMATON said:
Yeah a pros & cons list is something you do when you're car-shopping, lol, this is a person and 3 year relationship we're talking about,
Anger covers fear brother. You get angry because you fear what will happen without a 2nd income, she probably fears losing you or having you think shes a dead-beat.
If you love her then love her, love has a price-tag, but you can't buy it. People spend fortunes just looking for love, you are ahead of the game. This is just a temporary set-back financially.
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Not all women are damsels in distress… you ever see “snapped”

Feminism has done this to society. Bitches shoulda known their roles…. They wanted change, they got change. Time to “woman up” and contribute.

If she doesn’t cook, clean and suck then she better be bringing home some of the bacon.

But I understand where you’re coming from.

In the kitchen, pregnant and barefoot I always say.
 
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