The cat is out of the bag gentlemen

[GarlicChicken]

This is true. Maybe we should place the focus back on Swole for a minute...

I told my wife about this scenario. Her response was, "Well is the guy being an asshole to his girlfriend due to his AAS use and raging hormones? Maybe her concerns are justified."

Could very well be. If not then it's bs imo. But there's usually more to the story

 

[roscoe221]

What ever you do and however I still highly recommend at least temporarily having a clean house when you’re in the beginning stages of being discovered. Women can act extremely rashly. Who knows how many friends or family they broadcast it to! All it takes is one friend or mom who decided she is going to save her friend/daughter from the evil bad man or the woman going to save the bad man from himself for things to turn bad. Even if some of the above scenarios are not enough for a full blown search it’s just best to err on the side of caution.

 

[Milford King]

Not every woman is as sweet an innocent as the wives of you guys that automatically assume that swole welder is somehow at fault....

some of these bitches are fucked up...you ever seen ‘snapped’ on ID channel?

Enough of the anti man movement...some of guys are lucky, I hope you let your girl know how grateful you are to not be married or dating a selfish psycho.



give the guy a break ... he’s a flamethrower with some serious inflammation

 

[ldog]

Intelligent post

I’m more than willing to bet that your feeling mediocre has a lot to do with her. Just saying. It’s not something that happens overnight, but over time, women like this break you down little by little. I was super confident before I got married. I loved life. Felt on top of the world. When I got divorced, I felt I was on the same level as dog shit. And the whole time I felt like I had made something of myself being a father and a husband. So when she split, I was at an all time low. But I realized I had created this sense of self that relied entirely on being with her and fighting so hard for her approval.

This “discovery” she made isn’t the reason she left. She’s had this in mind for a while and this gave her her out.

Take the next few months to a year working on yourself. Read. Learn. Broaden your horizons. Take classes on shit that interest you that you couldn’t do before because you were expected to spend time with her. Hell, go do yoga for 60 days straight. Do whatever you want and you’ll realize how soon how great it is to enjoy life on your terms and no one else’s. Stay out of relationships. Don’t go looking to fill the void. Really concentrate on you. Accept you’ll have nights of loneliness. You’ll have those asshole friends that’ll text you at one in the morning saying “hey I saw your ex all over some guy at the bar”. But the freedom and the confidence you’ll build in yourself will carry forward for the rest of your life. And the next relationship your in you’ll always remember to keep YOU first. You’ll be fine brother. I think you’ve read enough from us that you aren’t alone and the advice you’re getting is from years and years of similar experiences. Good luck.


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[heavyiron]

I made a compromise with my wife years ago. If it seriously effects me in a negative way I won't use some of the harsher steroids like Tren. Pretty much every other compound has zero effect on my aggression or irritability but Tren is an exception and I can live with that. No Tren for me.

 

[juiceddawg]

I hope all goes well with swolewelder wishing him the best on this stuation,not bragging or anything but I gotta say I'm a lucky guy,my wife doesnt mind me using in fact not only does she pin me where I cant get too but she also takes anavar. Only thing she told me was not to get out of hand with it so all in all I guess I'm one of the few lucky ones.

 

[MrBulk798]

quit the gear, quit the gym, quit enjoying life, and resent her for it, she’ll fuck around on you with some other dude, you’ll get divorced, then you’ll be right back to where you are now.

Good luck bud

x2

 

[Chez25]

I tried to hide it from my wife. I only made it two weeks and said fuck it, I'll just end up getting caught. Turns out she loves when I'm on cycle. Ordered my last round of needles, picks me up prep wipes. She said she'd help with the injections, then saw the 1.5" needle and backed out. She's one of those "if you know what you're doing I support it" kind of women. Find one of those. No need to lie to a lady like that and in this game there can be enough stress.

 

[Sem]

I do love my wife, my second wife I mean. BUT THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO TO A WOMAN YOU LOVE IS MARRY...HER...stop AAS now it will be beer next then her name on your checking account.....

 

[wesley_swolle]

I read through 130 posts, anyone know how this ended? How about another update @Swolewelder

I Didn't Choose the Swolle Life, The Swolle Life Chose Me

 

[TripleOvertime]

I read through 130 posts, anyone know how this ended? How about another update @Swolewelder

I Didn't Choose the Swolle Life, The Swolle Life Chose Me

Haven't seen him around in some time. Seems as if he let the wife decide for him how it was going to be? However it went down, I hope he is happy with it.

 

[wesley_swolle]

Haven't seen him around in some time. Seems as if he let the wife decide for him how it was going to be? However it went down, I hope he is happy with it.

Yeah, I guess we'll never know for sure what happened. I hate being left hanging...kinda like watching only the first two LOTR movies

I Didn't Choose the Swolle Life, The Swolle Life Chose Me

 

[Multislacking]

He's only been mia for a couple of weeks. From his posts, he was still running stuff.

 

[Tall Deck]

I've seen the same pattern in this thread that I've seen in others with the same topic: Most wives/girlfriends, (not all, but most) who are ok with their man using gear, ALSO exercise hard or workout themselves, where as most, (if not all) wives/girlfriends who do not exercise nor workout at the gym themselves, do not/will not accept their man using gear. With the possible exception of some nurses, the women who do not workout tend to view steroid use by anyone as being the same as recreational drug use such as opiods or cocaine use, simply because steroids are illegal just as those recreational drug use is, PERIOD.

And you won't change their minds about that because they've been conditioned by our gov and by the media concerning steroid use way back since the time there was a big fiasco about it with plympic althletes and ML baseball payers like Ben Johnson, Mark McGuire, and Barry Bonds being caught using steroids.

 

[Sem]

My ex tolerated me juicing, she knew but even living together I was discreet but no secret. She didn't ask me to quit until she wanted a child, so PTC....I stayed off for years.

Second wife will pick on me about it but digs my tight arms but calls me a "fake fit" guy (I deadlifted 555lbs at 28 so how fake?), I got her prego while on a gram of test c AND deca with 150 mg ED Anadrol...LOL..and because it made my man-hood thicker she was afraid of him awhile. She thinks I'm too thick now (maybe the cialis?). I found some old "John Holmes" porn online, the one where he is out hiking and gets invited into a ranch house by a pretty woman....wife decided you could do worse ;-p I'm not built like a horse but ole Johnny was

 

[rickyg587]

Man you are right on with this post. I fought for a decade to have a life with my kids and went through rather severe parental alienation from the ex. Poisoning their minds. Same, never been arrested, but was treated like a criminal. Couldn’t see my kids except with law-enforcement present. I know God has a plan and I’ll find out what it was when I’m dead. You know how it goes, telephone, telegraph, tell a bitch. Don’t tell them anything you wouldn’t want the world to know. As I am older now I just date women who have low self-esteem and daddy issues! LOL.

 

[Packman84]

This is a choice thst only you can make, but one thing to keep in mind is the manner in which women store and use ammunition. If she's like my girl, from now on, everything you say or do that she doesn't 100% approve of will cause her to blame your decision making on the juice. It could be like (and I hope for your sake that it is not like this) being on a witness stand during a cross-examination. She would be opposing counsel and she may hit you with a variety of questions. However, when your answer doesn't fit her narrative, she will remind the jury that you are not credible because you use steroids, and steroids are drugs. Moreover, they are drugs that come out of a needle. You're practically a drug addict willing to say anything to get your next fix. Because that's how steroids work and all.
Seriously, I hope your girl is not like mine in terms of holding things over your head and taking them out of context, but I know when I first got caught, my girl was yelling and screaming and asking me where my track marks were. She also took pics of the needles and sent them to my mother during a fight several months later. My relationship is nothing to aspire to lol. It is definitely not how healthy 35 year old individuals in a loving relationship should act. However, this brings up my next point. I'm no angel here. I told her they were from an old cycle that I did as an experiment before I met her (I had admitted to doing this much). I flushed a little bit down the toilet in front of her but fortunately she was too pissed to care, so I stashed the rest and continued using. After a while, she just got used to it. Sometimes she would attack me for it, sometimes she would just take not of a red spot on my ass from pinning. I guess my point is, you should ask yourself, if you are considering choosing your girl, will you stick to staying off the gear? Or will you sneak in a few cycles here and there?
Finally, to give credit where it's due, from what I gather, this is not her world. I make light of it, but to her, juice may seem like dangerous shit. Anything requiring needles can shock the uninitiated. Still, she let you finish your cycle and is willing to stick around. I'm not pushing you either way, I mainly just wanted to point out that those ignorant of this world will use it to take cheap shots. Anyway, good luck, hope it all works out.

 

[maxmuscle1]

As a divorced 41 year old, I’m going to give you advice that, if you don’t follow it, I promise you’ll regret it when you’re my age and married.

Anyone that gives you an ultimatum between them and something you enjoy doing needs to be kept to the curb.

It’s fine for her or anyone to question it. But once you explain it, it should be enough. I guarantee if you give that up for her, the next ultimatum will be her or your friends, her or your job or her or your family.

Women get worse once they marry you. Way worse. Their inner control monster pops out. And what’s worse is they’ll somehow justify everything they do. So if your gf is telling you now what you can and can’t do, it only gets worse. I’m willing to bet several other guys will chime in and give the same advice.


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Most sound advice I have heard. Totally true BTW
{old thread, but still true}
Max

 

[Daark]

Damn there are some mean girls in this world.

I have an ex that would have totally tried to ruin my life if I was using then. Find yourself a bitch that won't judge you for shit.