Date a Single Mom Dancer? Maintaining Sanity

Page 1 of 16 1234511 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 238
  1. #1
    Senior Member
    sxboicexb's Avatar


    Join Date
    Aug 2020
    Posts
    210

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    28
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    84
    Thanked in
    61 Posts
    Rep Points
    840100

    Date a Single Mom Dancer? Maintaining Sanity

    Hopefully someone gets a kick out of this,

    Started dating this woman. She’s been feeling me out seeing if I am capable of taking her on. Didn’t know she had a kid until we made plans to hang out at her place. (She arranged for her kid to be with her dad) About a week later out of left field. (“We need to talk”) turns out she didn’t anticipate liking me and that she spoke with her Mom, her Mom said to tell me the truth about dancing (stripping) as her main income. She told me she could not see her self moving forward without playing games until she told me. She cried, I choked for a bit trying to wrap my head around what I was told.

    Needless to say, this has been so difficult! Im the one sleeping in her bed at night, but Goddamn does it fuck with my head that her job is to flirt, tease, attend warehouse parties, work guys for loads of money, etc, etc. We have communicated about my concerns and it genuinely seems like she wants me and only me at the end of the day. Despite all the flirtatious conversations floating around her iMessage. Wether they are clients or not. Grrr... I want to take her on.

    My life’s a circus I’m open for fun and jokes but this is also very real. Lmfao. I would like to get some different perspectives on how someone would deal with a circumstance like this? How would you separate in your mind the work and her loyalty to you?


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

  2. #2
    Senior Member
    bigtime916's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2015
    Location
    In the Basement
    Age
    46
    Posts
    6,066

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    567
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    1,711
    Thanked in
    1,057 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147483647

    Nudes.

  3. #3
    Newbie


    Join Date
    Mar 2020
    Posts
    9

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    0
    Thanked in
    0 Posts
    Rep Points
    100

    Quote Originally Posted by bigtime916 View Post
    Nudes.
    Look, a sensitive guy

  4. #4
    Senior Member
    bigtime916's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2015
    Location
    In the Basement
    Age
    46
    Posts
    6,066

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    567
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    1,711
    Thanked in
    1,057 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147483647

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterTer View Post
    Look, a sensitive guy
    Hey its the pit. You take the good with the bad.

  5. #5
    The Video Guy
    Mighty-Mouse's Avatar


    Join Date
    Sep 2014
    Location
    In my wife's purse
    Posts
    8,221

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    871
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    1,569
    Thanked in
    836 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147483647

    Show the pussy or gtfo


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

  6. #6
    Newbie


    Join Date
    Mar 2020
    Posts
    9

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    0
    Thanked in
    0 Posts
    Rep Points
    100

    Quote Originally Posted by bigtime916 View Post
    Hey its the pit. You take the good with the bad.
    I’ve got it :-)

  7. #7
    Senior Member
    johnny0utlaw's Avatar


    Join Date
    Feb 2016
    Posts
    837

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    1
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    25
    Thanked in
    19 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147483647

    By you asking shows you are having second thoughts. You shouldn’t be having these strong of doubts this early on. When I was younger in my early 20s i met a stripper at a strip club we started dating and it became serious and after a few months she moved in with me. At the time i never had any real relationship experience. I was young so i thought it was bad ass to be dating a fine ass stripper. She was loaded. Bought me whatever I wanted I thought i was the man. Once things started getting serious i started to realize sitting at home by myself that while im sitting here bored she is at the strip club naked grinding on a guys cock for money all these men watching her naked on stage. Her flirting for hours with other men. I was like wtf am i doing. It was no longer cool with me I gave her a decision to quit her job or im out. She didnt quit so i left.

    theres nothing wrong with dating a girl with kids but she held that from you and her being a stripper that is red flags man. What else is she not telling you. If your in it just to have fub in then go for it but it sounds like your want a real relationship so ima say its not worth it man.
    Last edited by johnny0utlaw; 02-07-2021 at 01:10 AM.
    .

  8. #8
    Senior Member


    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    129

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    2
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    61
    Thanked in
    43 Posts
    Rep Points
    620100

    Whatever you decide is up to you. But do not go see her at work, that will change the way she looks at you.

  9. #9
    Banned


    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    1,060

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    230
    Thanked in
    192 Posts
    Rep Points
    -3094075

    Quote Originally Posted by sxboicexb View Post
    Hopefully someone gets a kick out of this,

    Started dating this woman. She’s been feeling me out seeing if I am capable of taking her on. Didn’t know she had a kid until we made plans to hang out at her place. (She arranged for her kid to be with her dad) About a week later out of left field. (“We need to talk”) turns out she didn’t anticipate liking me and that she spoke with her Mom, her Mom said to tell me the truth about dancing (stripping) as her main income. She told me she could not see her self moving forward without playing games until she told me. She cried, I choked for a bit trying to wrap my head around what I was told.

    Needless to say, this has been so difficult! Im the one sleeping in her bed at night, but Goddamn does it fuck with my head that her job is to flirt, tease, attend warehouse parties, work guys for loads of money, etc, etc. We have communicated about my concerns and it genuinely seems like she wants me and only me at the end of the day. Despite all the flirtatious conversations floating around her iMessage. Wether they are clients or not. Grrr... I want to take her on.

    My life’s a circus I’m open for fun and jokes but this is also very real. Lmfao. I would like to get some different perspectives on how someone would deal with a circumstance like this? How would you separate in your mind the work and her loyalty to you?


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
    You never will. All you can do is say "fuck it. Shes a stripper at least I know what I have" just don't marry her. Fuck her holes as often as you can. Have fun. Just don't marry her
    Last edited by GSD; 02-07-2021 at 01:30 AM.

  10. #10
    Banned


    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    1,060

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    230
    Thanked in
    192 Posts
    Rep Points
    -3094075

    For the love of God, son. Save us from reading a debacle in a few months and don't marry her

  11. #11
    Senior Member
    Lathe Crasher's Avatar


    Join Date
    Aug 2016
    Posts
    1,019

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    351
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    1,075
    Thanked in
    542 Posts
    Rep Points
    2033768570

    She’s hustling you. Think carefully about something you have that she wants. She’s a fucking stripper after all. Her whole life is built on being a sexual con artist and that kid is gonna be fucked up. Run bro.
    Last edited by Lathe Crasher; 02-07-2021 at 02:35 AM.
    Sent from my iFoam using Crackatalk.

  12. #12
    Banned


    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    1,060

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    230
    Thanked in
    192 Posts
    Rep Points
    -3094075

    Abuse those fuck holes for a while then bail out. Just dont marry her I don't care how tight that slam hole is. Nothing better than treating a whore like a whore.
    Last edited by GSD; 02-07-2021 at 02:46 AM.

  13. #13
    Senior Member
    Milford King's Avatar


    Join Date
    Jan 2018
    Location
    Milky Way
    Posts
    11,090

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    7,199
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    8,083
    Thanked in
    4,776 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147483647

    Haha

    its a job. But.... rule #1 never fall in love with a stripper... could be worse, she could be a porn actress.


    does she make house calls? Asking for a friend....

  14. #14
    NO LIMITS.
    SUPER MOD
    HFO3's Avatar


    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    10,682

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    2,822
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    6,678
    Thanked in
    3,924 Posts
    Rep Points
    2147473647

    Personally I’d be out the door on any type of relationship so fast she wouldn’t even have time to say bye, I get it you like her but she’s a stripper amd strippers ride hard cockS all night long and feel up every guy they dance for. For all you know she’s got “customers” that pay 100s of $$$ just to sit with her her but she didn’t fuck em

    I’d keep her as a booty call/fwb.


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

  15. #15
    Banned


    Join Date
    May 2020
    Posts
    1,060

    Thanks Thanks Given 
    0
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    230
    Thanked in
    192 Posts
    Rep Points
    -3094075

    The whole "she cried, I choked for a bit..." classic. Just a god damn classic. Youngsters these days... hey I didn't listen either at that age. So I get it
    Last edited by GSD; 02-07-2021 at 04:09 AM.

Similar Threads

  1. Live longer by maintaining muscle mass
    By The Admin in forum Muscle Central
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 01-24-2017, 12:20 PM
  2. cutting ant maintaining muscle with steroids
    By gytonilas in forum Anabolic Steroids
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 09-30-2014, 02:45 PM
  3. Maintaining speed and agility
    By KingRose300 in forum Anabolic Steroids
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 12-18-2013, 11:41 PM
  4. Replies: 0
    Last Post: 01-31-2013, 04:39 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
Copyright© 2012-2021 Anabolic Steroid Discussion Forums