• 👋Hello, please SIGN-UP FOR A FREE account and become a member of our community!
    You will then be able to start threads, post comments and send messages to other members. Thanks!
  • 💪IronMag Labs® 30% Off Easter Sale👉www.ironmaglabs.com Coupon code: EASTER30🐰

Date a Single Mom Dancer? Maintaining Sanity

Get Shredded!
I talked to her about only fans! That’s hilarious. Already went there. It would need to be pulling in bucks if that’s something to consider.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
Bro, she's a single mom who strips. Of course she's gonna like you because you're one of the few guys who would even humor a single mom, much less a stripper. I personally wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a single mom or a stripper and especially not one who was both.. There's just too many beautiful young women I could date who are not moms. Why settle for less than you deserve?

Well I’ve always dated older because everyone my age either plays games, is in the party phase, or we haven’t had anything in common. I seasoned myself early on. I find that my life experience has matured me in a sense. I’m not really even attracted to women my age, only physically. I’ve had plenty of sex, not even exciting anymore.

I do recognize I deserve a better circumstance. I’m a little fucked up. A sick side of me likes the chaos. Hence the counseling advice mentioned earlier from a friend lmfao.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
I talked to her about only fans! That’s hilarious. Already went there. It would need to be pulling in bucks if that’s something to consider.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

My niece is fat and ugly IMO and she makes money.
 
Big girls need lovin too lol

Seriously tho, some guys like them big girls


Personally I like em petite and 20 something


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Lol this is true. I mean people are paying her and she's making a living doing it so I guess so.

I like em the same way I just can't stray lol. Maybe some day lol.
 
I guess I am looking for someone to answer the way I’d like. I’m already fixated on the decision. I pretty much am looking for advice in dealing with the decision I’m making and whether or not anyone has some valuable experience or noteworthy comments that would help me overcome this.

I’m fortunate I haven’t been to a strip club/club/ or bar. I don’t use drugs or drink anymore. So this whole “fun” side of this situation is off the table. I think that’s why she wants to see where we go.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Told ya
 
Unsure what your babbling about. My wife and life is great. Thanks for thinking of me though. Apparently I owe everything to a self absorbed douche. The same guy that surrounds himself with "skanks", thinks of woman purely as fuck holes, and acts like a complete douche bag, but wonders why he can't find a good woman. Because no good woman would waste a second with you.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk

How tall are you, 5'5" 5'6"? Your wife is a skanky fuck hole too. Probably one of ours back in the day.
 
Last edited:
Phil Anselmo you dumb fuck.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk

Don't you wish you could talk that tough instead of just typing it? Your dad wasn't much of a role model, was he? Lol
 
There was alot of good advice in this thread but youve already had your mind made up that you want to be with her before you even posted it. Your just sifting through the comments looking for the one or two people to give you validation so you can feel like the situation you are in is ok. Ill say it again that i think you should not get serious with her but if you do then its ok because everyone goes through learning experiences in relationships which i think you need. Im just going to make an assumption and i could be completely wrong but i feel like she is the only girl tjat has showed attention to you in awhile and your excited by the fact that a girl is this into you that you block out any and all of the negative about her that you already know about her.... thats why you posted here.. .. and your gear comment is total bs man its not even in the same ball park as the things you told us about her. Its like she found out one thing about you and she can flip the script on you to deflect her and your going along with it. I feel like your gonna get with her and become whipped. Give it a shot if you really want you may get a learning experience.
 
IML Gear Cream!
And guys please let this man have his thread back. Can you make a new thread to fight on. Lol
 
How tall are you, 5'5" 5'6"? Your wife is a skanky fuck hole too. Probably one of ours back in the day.
Don't you wish you could talk that tough instead of just typing it? Your dad wasn't much of a role model, was he? Lol
5'11".
You said it yourself, you are Jackson County white trash, so by default your dad was a meth smoking piece of shit.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk
 
These type of situations make me appreciate how ridiculous sayings like " follow your heart" are ....the heart is treacherous and can't be trusted

100%

If I’d followed my heart, I’d be dead by now. Sometimes ya gotta think logically. Like all the time really.
 
100%

If I’d followed my heart, I’d be dead by now. Sometimes ya gotta think logically. Like all the time really.

I agree me too,I’d have to really pray about it and follow my gut instinct and relize what you are getting yourself into and be prepared


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
Bro, she's a single mom who strips. Of course she's gonna like you because you're one of the few guys who would even humor a single mom, much less a stripper. I personally wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a single mom or a stripper and especially not one who was both.. There's just too many beautiful young women I could date who are not moms. Why settle for less than you deserve?

Not dating someone because they are a single mom is the one of the most shallow shit I’d ever heard.
 
5'11".
You said it yourself, you are Jackson County white trash, so by default your dad was a meth smoking piece of shit.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk

Lol 5'8" at best. Lol @ 5'11"
That's right. I am Jacko white trash. Proud of it. Better than being a midget at 5'8" lol. Yeah you'd never stand a chance. I'd almost feel bad for you but not quite. I'm curious to know if your whore of a wife was one of our little sluts back in the day. I'm gonna say yes, she was lol. I should tell you stories about how we'd treat our little sluts. You'd look at her differently for sure
 
Last edited:
How does it feel to know its possible this piece of tattooed white trash was balls deep in your slut wife before you were?

- - - Updated - - -

And the abuse she loved going thru lol

- - - Updated - - -

I'll tell you this, 90% of the sluts we ran thru were ass-to-mouth girls. Can you ATM that bitch?
 
100%

If I’d followed my heart, I’d be dead by now. Sometimes ya gotta think logically. Like all the time really.

I used to think this way.

Then one day I fell in love hard with someone. But logically I resisted some shit and went back and forth trying to decide...and lost her.

Tried so hard to get her back. But it was too late and I fucked up. Was also on Tren so that was another thing, and to this day, I won't touch Tren again.

I swore if I was lucky enough to really find great love again, I would follow my heart no matter what.

I did and I married her.

And I am extremely happy. Life is really really good.

IMO sometimes you have to follow your heart, or live with the regret.
 
No ragrets brotha.... never don’t give up
 
Give up. If you're in love with a stripper your life is destined for other failures.
Take HPM for example. His slut wife is a ho to a housewife. Failure
 
Get Shredded!
You never will. All you can do is say "fuck it. Shes a stripper at least I know what I have" just don't marry her. Fuck her holes as often as you can. Have fun. Just don't marry her

^This. If she’s a stripper, she is troubled. Don’t fall for the cliche “paying my way through school to become a brain surgeon” bullshit. That’s what they all say and the fact is that 99% of them are just supporting an addiction and they’re sex addicted pansexual mental cases. You’re just setting yourself up for months, perhaps years of drama and heartache if you fall for her. I know she’s probably giving you porn style sex and let’s you stick it in places you never thought possible. But, keep your emotions out of it. The moment you think you’re falling in love “pull out.” Then start fucking her gfs (when she’s not).
In the meantime, can we see her asshole?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
^This. If she’s a stripper, she is troubled. Don’t fall for the cliche “paying my way through school to become a brain surgeon” bullshit. That’s what they all say and the fact is that 99% of them are just supporting an addiction and they’re sex addicted pansexual mental cases. You’re just setting yourself up for months, perhaps years of drama and heartache if you fall for her. I know she’s probably giving you porn style sex and let’s you stick it in places you never thought possible. But, keep your emotions out of it. The moment you think you’re falling in love “pull out.” Then start fucking her gfs (when she’s not).
In the meantime, can we see her asshole?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Lol love this. Let's see those spokes!
 
people are quick to point out if a woman is a stripper she has life issues, but always neglect to point out that dudes who would date a stripper have their issues as well. just saying
 
people are quick to point out if a woman is a stripper she has life issues, but always neglect to point out that dudes who would date a stripper have their issues as well. just saying

Potential for an average guy to land a hot girl stripper with issues... high.

Potential for an average guy to land a hot girl with her shit together... Nil.
 
Potential for an average guy to land a hot girl stripper with issues... high.

Potential for an average guy to land a hot girl with her shit together... Nil.

Truth.

demotivation.us_NO-MATTER-HOW-GOOD-SHE-LOOKS-Someone-somewhere-is-tired-of-her-shit_13610521833.jpg
 
Lol 5'8" at best. Lol @ 5'11"
That's right. I am Jacko white trash. Proud of it. Better than being a midget at 5'8" lol. Yeah you'd never stand a chance. I'd almost feel bad for you but not quite. I'm curious to know if your whore of a wife was one of our little sluts back in the day. I'm gonna say yes, she was lol. I should tell you stories about how we'd treat our little sluts. You'd look at her differently for sure
How does it feel to know its possible this piece of tattooed white trash was balls deep in your slut wife before you were?

- - - Updated - - -

And the abuse she loved going thru lol

- - - Updated - - -

I'll tell you this, 90% of the sluts we ran thru were ass-to-mouth girls. Can you ATM that bitch?
You feel better now? I doubt it. The real tragedy is that 3 year old of yours has to grow up with a father figure like you. Good thing the child is probably in the care of the mother because you have proved to be an unfit husband or father. Your feeble attempts at insults are quite lame and predictable.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk
 
Realistically I’m all sorts of fucked up. Hence why I’m entertaining this relationship. The attention piece mentioned is on point. It feels good knowing that someone is willing to put effort in to me. Plus it is clear as day she is actually putting forward effort and making sacrifices to participate in life with me. I’m definitely going to keep things where they are for a while. I definitely don’t need her deflecting her shit by using my lifestyle as a reason to justify hers. Than again, if she doesn’t start making better decisions soon and her words don’t match what her feet are doing than I’m not going to put up with her.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
You feel better now? I doubt it. The real tragedy is that 3 year old of yours has to grow up with a father figure like you. Good thing the child is probably in the care of the mother because you have proved to be an unfit husband or father. Your feeble attempts at insults are quite lame and predictable.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk

Oh that's cute. Bring the kids into it. Not smart enough to come up with your own shit you have to drag a 3yr old into it lol. Enough said
 
Realistically I’m all sorts of fucked up. Hence why I’m entertaining this relationship. The attention piece mentioned is on point. It feels good knowing that someone is willing to put effort in to me. Plus it is clear as day she is actually putting forward effort and making sacrifices to participate in life with me. I’m definitely going to keep things where they are for a while. I definitely don’t need her deflecting her shit by using my lifestyle as a reason to justify hers. Than again, if she doesn’t start making better decisions soon and her words don’t match what her feet are doing than I’m not going to put up with her.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Dude we're all fucked up. Some more than others. Embrace it. Accept it. Recognize it and move forward. Don't trip on what us experienced guys say. It isn't like we've had multiple sexual encounters with strippers. Just don't marry the skank. Abuse her little fuck holes then find another one. Eventually you'll mature more, and grow up. And you'll realize 'hey, the og's were right'. Then you can set the bar a little higher. Good luck dude. I'm pullin for ya

- - - Updated - - -

You feel better now? I doubt it. The real tragedy is that 3 year old of yours has to grow up with a father figure like you. Good thing the child is probably in the care of the mother because you have proved to be an unfit husband or father. Your feeble attempts at insults are quite lame and predictable.

Sent from my LG-H871 using Tapatalk

Don't you wish you had the actual balls to say that to my face? Don't you wish you could be that guy? Lol
 
IMO sometimes you have to follow your heart, or live with the regret.


Problem is, sometimes you’re heart is telling you what you want to believe. If after a few months of dating her, you find yourself constantly walking around in a daze, feeling hurt and trying to rationalize/justify the shit you are going through with her, it will be too late to get out of the relationship unscathed.

You may find yourself trying to make excuses for why she did this or that, finding suspicious text messages on her phone and having to decipher and make sense out of the lame ass explanations she gives you when you ask about them. She’ll act defensive and try to tell you that if you really loved her, you would trust and believe her. You may end up having to put up with the “guy friends” who keep texting and calling her, only to find out that they have no idea that you exist and you would never have known about them if you hadn’t found those texts while you were “invading her privacy.”

The upside is some temporary great sex. The downside is misery for months or years to come, only to have it come to an abrupt end when she finally gets tired of getting caught lying and having to make up BS explanations each time. At this point, she’ll just act like it’s all your fault because you won’t trust her.

Then boom!, you’re instantly ghosted, whether you’ve been together three months or four years; doesn’t matter. It’ll be like it never happened. At this point, you will be damaged goods and you won’t even feel like dating anyone for a long ass time. She’ll stay around as long as you are filling some kind of emotional need. Once she feels like the relationship is damaged beyond repair and she might be able to get those needs met with a fresh new warm body, she’ll be history. Not worth it.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 
Back
Top