Still - getting denied that much sucks- try the test P - 10 mg 3 times a week ? Spread sheet was hilarious -OD
I should point out that I usually initiate sex when I come home from the gym...sweaty and stinky. I say "just give me a blow job, and we are good." She asks "are you clean?" That means have you showered after all the working out and especially have you washed since your last poop. I say "clean enough" and usually ram my cock into her mouth or somewhere else.
I really can't fault her for denying me when I am filthy dirty. Turn the tables and ask yourself "will you perform oral on a girl; that just pooped?" However, that does not give her a pass all of the
time.
Last night I snuggled up with her. I was clean. She was busy with doing payroll for her work force (she manages medical facilities and makes more than 6 figures). I said "I am not going to have sex with you sweetie, I am just cuddling". I then started fingering her, she got up off the bed, sat in a chair and went back to work.
I did not say a word and left the room. This time she really pissed me off. However, I never ague with my wife. The best thing to do when a woman rejects you is to remove yourself from her life.
If we are dating I end the relationship. Plain and simple. Marriage is, of course different. You cant just walk away, but there must be consequences for bad behavior.
My wife rejected my advances last night, so I am putting a moratorium on our involvement. I will avoid her completely for the next three days (Sat 7 PM). If she calls/texts I will not answer. If she asks me something I will politely say can you give me a minute, sweetie, and then I disappear.
The message here is that you will not tolerate being treated badly. Most of the time my wife will apologize, but I am not waiting for that.
You also must ways be able to walk...this give you POWER. At my age there are 4 single woman for every single man.
So, no contact with my wife whatsoever for 3 days (unless she apologizes which she often does). In 3 days I am gong to have a heart to heart.
She makes more money than me (which I think is the source of her dissatisfaction with me). She once said "I married a college professor not a personal trainer". Most of my clients are professional or high end amateurs (for example one of my clients recently set a world record). I even coach the local golf pro.
Therefore, I am going to tell her that she needs to find a better man. Someone with a more prestigious job than mine. I asked her "why do you stay married to someone you are not attracted to? You deserve better than that." She is 15 years younger than me and still has a 9 face.
I am preparing myself mentally for what is to come. Where I live a couple can do a legal separation, and still be able to stay in your own house. You have to be this way guys, protect your heart at all costs. There is only one parachute in a relationship. Drop her before he drops you.
