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What do you do to stay grounded?

bigtime916

bigtime916

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This has been a pretty big year for me. My body has changed a shit load in 1 year. I've been married 20 years and never cheated. Shit before my body really started changing I would get a little bit of looks. Now I feel like the shit is crazy. I had a 25 year old hottie buy me a drink last weekend. The bar tender also bought me two drinks even after asking if she was trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me lol. Yea I had a few drinks before that came out.
A married lady 36 asked if I had kik two weeks ago. So we could be "friends" I'm no player shit I don't even think I'm good looking so all this new attention is fucking with me. Friends are saying I'm "changing" but I think it's just the tren run. Yes I've become more confident.
Anyway, for those of you that haven't been working out for years and years. How did you deal with all this new shit?
The wife is being super jelly and I keep telling her it's no different when you got your tits done going from A to a full C now a D. Maybe that's why shes tripping because she knows what it was like. Lol.
It's very odd to see women as shallow as men.
Anyway I figured a lot of you have been through this so I thought I would pick your brains. I also don't want to lose any good friends over it.
 
Have you ever considered man whoring?

EDIT: just kidding, that is a Duce Bigelow line.
 
bigtime916 said:
This has been a pretty big year for me. My body has changed a shit load in 1 year. I've been married 20 years and never cheated. Shit before my body really started changing I would get a little bit of looks. Now I feel like the shit is crazy. I had a 25 year old hottie buy me a drink last weekend. The bar tender also bought me two drinks even after asking if she was trying to get me drunk to take advantage of me lol. Yea I had a few drinks before that came out.
A married lady 36 asked if I had kik two weeks ago. So we could be "friends" I'm no player shit I don't even think I'm good looking so all this new attention is fucking with me. Friends are saying I'm "changing" but I think it's just the tren run. Yes I've become more confident.
Anyway, for those of you that haven't been working out for years and years. How did you deal with all this new shit?
The wife is being super jelly and I keep telling her it's no different when you got your tits done going from A to a full C now a D. Maybe that's why shes tripping because she knows what it was like. Lol.
It's very odd to see women as shallow as men.
Anyway I figured a lot of you have been through this so I thought I would pick your brains. I also don't want to lose any good friends over it.
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Keep your head on straight and don't allow any outside influence into your relationship. And just think to yourself. If I cheat and my wife leaves me then I will be a xx year old starting over and loose most if not all of my shit.

That should be enough to keep you grounded. You haven't cheated for so long so what's the reason to do it now? Besides you posted pictures of your wife and she's beautiful!
 
I have zero respect for cheating lying sluts so I would be a hypocrite to do the same thing. If you wanna play the field then get out of the relationship, it's simple. If you're married then well, you made that decision and you have to live with it haha
 
Lol Im NOT saying I want to cheat! Trust me it could of been done. Im not seeking permission either.

I was asking, what you guys do to stay grounded?
 
bigtime916 said:
Lol Im NOT saying I want to cheat! Trust me it could of been done. Im not seeking permission either.

I was asking, what you guys do to stay grounded?
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As long as my wife has sex with me, there are no issues and I see no reason to stray from my relationship. I crave my wife's body, I want it.

Any asshole can score pussy on the side but I do not understand why the need to do it. Is it because you need to feed your ego? Does your wife not satisfy you?

Why stray away?
 
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embrace it, leave your wife, and bang every skank that comes your way.

it's worked out well for me.
 
Going to the gym and watching sports and having alone time is what keeps me grounded haha
 
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Skip Foursome said:
As long as my wife has sex with me, there are no issues and I see no reason to stray from my relationship. I crave my wife's body, I want it.

Any asshole can score pussy on the side but I do not understand why the need to do it. Is it because you need to feed your ego? Does your wife not satisfy you?

Why stray away?
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FUCK, AGAIN IM NOT TRYING TO CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
bigtime916 said:
FUCK, AGAIN IM NOT TRYING TO CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Then blame me.

You are talking about chicks wanting to fuck you and how to avoid them, or at least that is what I got from it. Dial me in, I have been known to be slow from time to time :)
 
You presented your question wrong bro, you made it seem like you're trying to haha. I answered the question you meant
 
bc123jm said:
what exactly do you mean by grounded ?
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Well everyone is giving me shit about what I wear now. Shit I want to show of my hard ass work. I have more confidence now and I guess thats a bit much for some. Just sux because Im the same guy that still is faithful and always the one trying to stay in touch with buddies. It all has me wanting to just embrace the "asshole" part of me. But I know I need to stay grounded.

Even tho my buddies have all cheated and they know Im faithful they act like they dont want me around their girl's anymore and it kind of pisses me off because Im the same dude!
 
Dude I just just have more sex with the ol' lady. A lot more. She wants to fuck all the time. I just know that I have a pretty decent life built so I'm not going to throw it away just because a bunch of hoes want to fuck me. My lady and I have been through some serious shit together and she stayed with me so I'll never betray her trust.

Nothing wrong with showing it off in my opinion either. Shit what do we do it for if we don't show it off?
 
I don't play into it man. Although i still got attention when i was overweight, it got worse as i got fit and more confident. My wife was there from the beginning though...helping me and pushing me through it all, so now she reaps the benefits. I pay no attention to it when it happens, and my wife see's that and it makes her feel good and confident. My advice is if you want to keep your wife happy, don't let that shit go to your head.
 
Environment is everything. People don't change. Only their environments do. Don't want to feel edged on by others? Don't put yourself around them.

Example? Don't go to a bar without your wife.
 
staying grounded at a bar...getting free drinks from women... without your spouse all while displaying your singular self described great gains sounds like a good grounded plan....

so in plain terms...your either unattracted to your spouse or your great gains make you feel she is not up to par with these great gains after 20 years of marriage...

solution: eat a bunch of pizza and beer at home..then go jack off to the latest hot list on XNXX porn site..bingo..it solves all your concerns of being grounded...

or there is the SheriV private collection which can be purchashed for $1.29 a month with a additional .99 cents with captions like "oh my snach is hotter then a volcano for your great gains"...paypal is excepted..
 
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Titan5011 said:
Environment is everything. People don't change. Only their environments do. Don't want to feel edged on by others? Don't put yourself around them.

Example? Don't go to a bar without your wife.
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It was a UFC fight. I sold my shop and did well. Now I'm home with my daughter. I dont get out at all! This was the first time I've been anywhere by myself in months! Love UFC and the fights and wanted a little time to myself. My little one even goes to the gym with me. Don't get me wrong I LOVE spending time with them both but every now and then I start climbing the walls and tren doesn't seem to help it.

Hell I'm in a new state and I don't know anyone but my gym partner.


Oh and I wasn't going to pay to see Ronda fight.
 
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s2h said:
staying grounded at a bar...getting free drinks from women... without your spouse all while displaying your singular self described great gains sounds like a good grounded plan....

so in plain terms...your either unattracted to your spouse or your great gains make you feel she is not up to par with these great gains after 20 years of marriage...

solution: eat a bunch of pizza and beer at home..then go jack off to the latest hot list on XNXX porn site..bingo..it solves all your concerns of being grounded...

or there is the SheriV private collection which can be purchashed for $1.29 a month with a additional .99 cents with captions like "oh my snach is hotter then a volcano for your great gains"...paypal is excepted..
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See my last post. Oh and no I'm no where near where I want to be I still look like shit imo. But I do see some changes and it does make me feel good after weighting 300lbs.
 
sorry option #3..the talking pocket pussy....you can set it to say "oh your great gains are filling up my 7cc seed chamber"...$129.50 at Adam and Eve...
 
s2h said:
sorry option #3..the talking pocket pussy....you can set it to say "oh your great gains are filling up my 7cc seed chamber"...$129.50 at Adam and Eve...
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No issues at home at all. 5 days a week I'm happy! She still looks amazing!!!
 
bigtime916 said:
See my last post. Oh and no I'm no where near where I want to be I still look like shit imo. But I do see some changes and it does make me feel good after weighting 300lbs.
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weak answer.....your seeking peer validation to cheat on your wife.....imho..
 
Guess I should have left out the girl parts. I just didn't think everyone would think that means I want to fuck someone else.

The attention feels good and yeah I don't want it to change me because it does get to your head a bit. For some odd reason I thought you guys may have gone through this with a body change. Oh Well, night guys.

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s2h said:
weak answer.....your seeking peer validation to cheat on your wife.....imho..
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I need validation? This is the fucking net! What am I going to tell the wife? The internetz said it was Ok? Wtf
 
bigtime916 said:
Guess I should have left out the girl parts. I just didn't think everyone would think that means I want to fuck someone else.

The attention feels good and yeah I don't want it to change me because it does get to your head a bit. For some odd reason I thought you guys may have gone through this with a body change. Oh Well, night guys.

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I need validation? This is the fucking net! What am I going to tell the wife? The internetz said it was Ok? Wtf
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the entire theme of this thread is about finding validation......How do you stay grounded?....the title says it all....i could care less if you bang some chick from a bar watching the UFC fight you could have watched from home.....
 
Here's your problem. You're on tren and finally not a fat fuck and now you're in awe of how it feels, you're wondering if guys walk around their whole lives like that. And some do. But no it doesn't mean you have an excuse to cheat you mothafucca


hahah don't get butt hurt, all in good fun my man
 
bigtime916 said:
Well everyone is giving me shit about what I wear now. Shit I want to show of my hard ass work. I have more confidence now and I guess thats a bit much for some. Just sux because Im the same guy that still is faithful and always the one trying to stay in touch with buddies. It all has me wanting to just embrace the "asshole" part of me. But I know I need to stay grounded.

Even tho my buddies have all cheated and they know Im faithful they act like they dont want me around their girl's anymore and it kind of pisses me off because Im the same dude!
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nothing wrong with showing it off but truth be told in public i kinda feel like a d-bag wearing a tight shirt. i guess i'm just getting old.
but yeah we all seek some kind of attention. just dont let it get you in trouble
 
s2h said:
sorry option #3..the talking pocket pussy....you can set it to say "oh your great gains are filling up my 7cc seed chamber"...$129.50 at Adam and Eve...
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so it really talks? i'm gonna have to look into getting one lol
 
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