Dating a virgin...

Just recently started talking to this really hot girl, into the same things im into.. And once again she is hot... She 21 im 25, she a lil young barely 21 for like 2 weeks now... She doesnt drink she doesnt party she doesnt go out much... She into fitness 100% which is cool I like it... We get along good... But I had reason to suspect she was a virgin, I had her in my room a few times cuddle kiss here an there not use the kinda aggressive girls I pull... And I asked her are you a virgin randomly and she told me ya...??!!! So im trying to figure out should just make her a friend or see if I can Pop that cherry??? What do you fellas think? She been in past realationships were the virgin part came into play alot.... Im just like all you guys 24\7 i think about sex.... Its not hard being in the same with her and not getting any. but as time goes on it will play A HUGE FACTOR...

Id give it a shot, you might get lucky. A 21 year old virgin is a very rare thing. Did she go into any detail as to why she is still a virgin? The answer to that question could be the answer as to whether or not your going to be that lucky guy.......good luck bro.

Some virgins are comfortable with giving blow jobs. A good blow job is just about as good as sex. Maybe better.

Slutty girls are everywhere good girls are hard to come by I'd say stick with her if your ready to settle down if not kick rocks

Thats a hard one bro! Girls that have been around usually are the freaky ones that I like, a virgin on the other hand might have to be taught those skills. I'd still go for it just to bust it for the first time!

@darkshadowlander... Ya man Today she came over same thing cuddle movie talk about whatever, than I asked why are you still a virgin and she told me she wants to feel attracted by whoever is dating her...3 hours later im still trying to figure out what she means by that... And fucked up today... on 3rd time hanging kinda gave into her cuteness and was affectionate with her... Ughh!! a little early for that lol...wned: Ya 21 year old virgin is really rare... You know I cant say if im ready to seattle down cause when i do say that I end up dating crazy ass bitch... So who knows what will happen ill figure it out or let itself work it out... Cause like you said bro its really rare to find a 21 year old virgin.. I mean dude she cute fuckin hot cuban white wasted girl body height ass everything... Is it bad for me say im still gonna do my thing thought... Go out with my boys bars etc an still smash... Because Like I said man Im a phine to sex like everyone on this board....

@meatalhead... Whats up bro ya man thats what I like to... Thats all ive ever dated was aggressive crazy freaks in the bedroom... I like to switch it up when she riding me or teaching me a thing or 2... Also I like my women about my age or older... So a younger for me is educating her... Cause she is really family protected lol... Her family are her friends and her older bro so i dunno will see whats up give it time see whats happens... I still got a few girls lined up for the weekend when they get horny they hit me up or vice verse... But like I said maybe i want to seattle but dont know it yet cause I havent found a girl worth settling down with you know...

MP you got me reminiscing about the days when I was young and single.

Me personally, I would stick with her... As long as you can find something meaningful about her that you really like, then the time will come and you'll get yours. Most likely if she's as hot as you say and she's 21 and still a virgin, then there's some reason as to why she has chosen to stay celibate this long. For reasons of personal preference, religious values, lack of comfort from other guys or because she has self control, confidence and doesn't need to sleep around. I have dated a couple older virgins before and from my experience, it's for some reason... For me it's never been, "just because". Remember this too, if you just started seeing her, no matter how hard you try, she's probably not going to give it up that easy. She's going to want something from you in return. So back to what you where asking, if you really like her and your attracted to her and she has the attributes that you look for in a woman and you can see yourself waiting, then wait bro, the time will come. In the meanwhile, use your lotion and some elbow grease and you'll get what you want.

I'm behind rr4m here 100%. I'll admit, I really love nerdy chicks that are smarter than me, yet aggressive and self confident. I took the v cards of several of these very girls over my college years, and I don't regret a single second of it. Go for it, brother.

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RoidsR4m3 said:

Me personally, I would stick with her... As long as you can find something meaningful about her that you really like, then the time will come and you'll get yours. Most likely if she's as hot as you say and she's 21 and still a virgin, then there's some reason as to why she has chosen to stay celibate this long. For reasons of personal preference, religious values, lack of comfort from other guys or because she has self control, confidence and doesn't need to sleep around. I have dated a couple older virgins before and from my experience, it's for some reason... For me it's never been, "just because". Remember this too, if you just started seeing her, no matter how hard you try, she's probably not going to give it up that easy. She's going to want something from you in return. So back to what you where asking, if you really like her and your attracted to her and she has the attributes that you look for in a woman and you can see yourself waiting, then wait bro, the time will come. In the meanwhile, use your lotion and some elbow grease and you'll get what you want.

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Ya Brother most def will ride it out and hangout with her and chill time is on myside.. .She really mellow complete opposite of the girls im use to dealing with... It wont hurt to get know her its not like I really got alot going on in my social life, I wont let her know that.... I can see she is into me alot, dont want her to feel uncomfortable around me cause she has told me being a virgin isnt fun at times cause most guy she dates turn her down cause of the fact she a virgin... Which sucks... I respect for having her values I can suspect why she a virgin her family is over protected of her and private school kinda girl... She really is fun to be around dork smart with fitness works hard etc... She into the whole bikkni prep thing fitness contest for women... So thats her life right now... She told me she a loner and it really doesnt have any friends lol i dont know why either she a cool chick and im a hard person to get along with my flaws she finds cute... lol eff it... And that age gap at times comes into play... She really is inexperienced with a social life, I mean for god sakes i took her for sushi today and never had it!!!!WTF? lol
If I play my cards right with her ill pop that cheery before 4th of july... Cause she tells me when we wrestle in bed she gets urges badly lol... But not as bad as me cause we all know what happen after she left my house earlier today

Sounds like asometimes a challenge is good ya kno.

Word man... I'm gonna see if I have it in me I know i do.... Its just how you make the girl feel... Gonna make her feel wanted.... And so far I'm into her so works out...

Good luck.

Whats wrong with developing a long lasting loving relationship?

Nothing. Whos known what will happen... At her age sought it...

Sounds like you may be on to something special! It's not very often you run into ladies like that. Show her some respect and put this one on a pedestal and treat her like a lady and your time will come. Like someone else had said, a little lotion and some elbow grease never hurts!

I briefly dated a chick I went to HS with right after graduation. She was "saving" herself for marriage which was strange given it was 2000. Anyway, I almost stopped talkin to her cuz I figured she wasnt gonna crack.... but to my surprise she was ok with blowjobs and ANAL!!!!

Might wanna see how she feels about that.

Tell her you can stick it in her ass and she can still be a virgin if she wants

Darkshadowlander said:

Did she go into any detail as to why she is still a virgin? The answer to that question could be the answer as to whether or not your going to be that lucky guy.......good luck bro.

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Yes it could be a red flag.

She could be weird. Is she hot but homely? I think that I had only had 1 or 2 virgins in my time. I have had many offers back in the day to be the first but I would decline. Girls that were 16-18 who had a crush on me but I didnt have feelings for them. I just didnt feel right doing it. Although I did have a few so called virgins that were down with anal, they brought it up. That was a pretty cool surprise. Find out if she is down with anal? You would be shocked at how many really are.
My experience with virgins over 20 is just that they are annoying girls, or stupid. I am sure not all of them are that way but its my experience. As for now if I had an offer for an 18 year old virgin, I would pass. I would rather bang a chick who knows what she is doing than a virgin. But this brings up the anal thing again. I met one girl from out of state who came to my house and we were messing around and I got her pants off and she told me she was a virgin but said she likes it in her ass. So that was all good. She came over two days later and I took her virginity. It was pretty hot since she technically knew how to fuck.

I am curious as to why this chick is still a v. Do you live in the bible belt?


Edit, I just read the other replies. haha. So yes, its true. Girls accept anal instead of vaginal and consider themselves virgins. This is interesting and I know the reason. teen preg has dropped over the past 5 years and they are wondering why. Its the first time it has dropped since the 60's. I know the reason, anal. It has become mainstream with the mainstreaming of porn. Its not looked upon nearly as badly as it was. it also coincides with the downfall of america. They are all connected..................... Its the lost of Christianity and I am not even remotely religious.

Ya Thats the other thing anal lol is a good idea... But also her being a virgin im gonna have to step an show her how to fuck lol... AND SHE DOESNT SEEM TO RELGIOUS... I just think given how she was brought up she didnt have the oppurtunity to get laid... Whats my window im looking at 6 weeks here lol? Ill be honest ive never taken a virginity before... And like some other user posted I like my women with experince in the bed....

Also...She already getting clingy wants to hangout everyday texts me constant....

She might have a dick

Ya know something.... I have never been with a virgin. Never really wanted one either. When I was young I was inexperienced so I wanted to be with someone more experienced. Actually I've been like that with all aspects of my life. Always seemed to gravitate towards people I could learn from. Then as I grew older the last thing I wanted to deal with was 'teaching' someone.

Be that as it may, I would suggest that you don;t concern yourself with "breaking her cherry" and worry more about being a good man with her. She's a virgin by choice and she says she's waiting for someone special. Special isn't someone 'trying to break her cherry' but someone who treats her special. Just be real dood. That will always prove the better path for you in the long run... in all relationships.

giver her some MT2...and let the riding commence

vettedood said:

Ya know something.... I have never been with a virgin. Never really wanted one either. When I was young I was inexperienced so I wanted to be with someone more experienced. Actually I've been like that with all aspects of my life. Always seemed to gravitate towards people I could learn from. Then as I grew older the last thing I wanted to deal with was 'teaching' someone.

Be that as it may, I would suggest that you don;t concern yourself with "breaking her cherry" and worry more about being a good man with her. She's a virgin by choice and she says she's waiting for someone special. Special isn't someone 'trying to break her cherry' but someone who treats her special. Just be real dood. That will always prove the better path for you in the long run... in all relationships.

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Ya man I here you on that... I respect for women in general and the innocents a lil more... Im gonna agree with what you said here ^ and not concern myself with popping her cheery... Im gonna hangout with her more on a friends basis so I cant feel more relaxed and whatever happens happens... But im still gonna do me you know...

Well said guys but i would keep her now you say shes hot how bout cute whats the diff . Hot we can find anywere cute is hard to come by . Shes a virgin even better if you realy think shes a keeper you could always use the shower as your personal beat off area , sad to say but if you are in for the long hall you know what you have to do if it was me and shes a cutey i would do the shower bit . So good luck bro do the right thing fresh fish on the line is the best nothing beats that lol

Mp5navy187 said:

Ya man I here you on that... I respect for women in general and the innocents a lil more... Im gonna agree with what you said here ^ and not concern myself with popping her cheery... Im gonna hangout with her more on a friends basis so I cant feel more relaxed and whatever happens happens... But im still gonna do me you know...

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LOL - "Do You" as much as you want bro. I'm a big believer in "quality ME time" lol

You say she's young, only 21 and you;re 25. Dood, to me and many of us here you're young also. That's a great thing so remember you do have all your life to 'have sex.' You're right... respect is the way to go. Also, this is something people don't generally realize till they get a little older, but you can always tell when someone is 'trying' to do whatever. Set your self apart from the masses of guys that are "trying" to be cool.. bad ass.. great lovers etc. Set your self apart from them by not "trying" but by BEING all those things. They're all doing the same thing... be different. Be the guy the girls look at and say "He's got his shit together."

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LOL - "Do You" as much as you want bro. I'm a big believer in "quality ME time" lol

You say she's young, only 21 and you;re 25. Dood, to me and many of us here you're young also. That's a great thing so remember you do have all your life to 'have sex.' You're right... respect is the way to go. Also, this is something people don't generally realize till they get a little older, but you can always tell when someone is 'trying' to do whatever. Set your self apart from the masses of guys that are "trying" to be cool.. bad ass.. great lovers etc. Set your self apart from them by not "trying" but by BEING all those things. They're all doing the same thing... be different. Be the guy the girls look at and say "He's got his shit together."

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Ya man major respect for most women... Not really sluts lol ive been burned alot in my past from whores... Thats why im slowly approaching this chick... Ya 25 going on 26 next month.. And you know what, funny mention i have set myself apart from most my guy friends there still my boys but there shits all over the place and there older than me im not judging im just trying to shoot for a differnt road you know trying to make up for lost times..


On another note... Its werid im trying to reach out this girl as far as communcation, but it feels like she been locked in a closet lol the last 10 years of her life... She really isnt indept with social outings... She isnt into movies really not into restaurants not into vegas doesnt drink... Only into the gym is her focus right now and working which is cool but kinda makes it no fun for me and im trying to get her involed in the world....

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On another note... Its werid im trying to reach out this girl as far as communcation, but it feels like she been locked in a closet lol the last 10 years of her life... She really isnt indept with social outings... She isnt into movies really not into restaurants not into vegas doesnt drink... Only into the gym is her focus right now and working which is cool but kinda makes it no fun for me and im trying to get her involed in the world....

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This is something you have to decide if you want to be part of. If you like her enough you may be ok being the one to show her the brave new world outside of her comfort zone. It will take patience on your part... probably a lot of patience. If it seems like too much work and you'll be missing out on other stuff you like, then this may not be for you.