GDI this all makes me paranoid now!
Going home now to give my wife the big stink eye, don't know why but I am.
Man I'll tell ya skip, I dont wish this on any person.. its an awful thing to go through.. cheating happens for all sorts of reasons, so because people dont get the nurturing feeling they deserve.. but when its backed by a huge web of lies, it just makes you sick.. I never ever ever seen it coming amd during that time frame (4 months) we did things like a norm family, I never seen any signs.. now that I look back on it, I see glimpse of images of her sitting on the sofa nose deep in her texts, texting while Im driving, texting while Im shopping.. she always chats with her ladys, but when the guy told me how often they would chat it was all done while I was near.. of it all, what hurt the most was she would text him on her brake, then call me (15 min brake)..
cheaters will blame their spouse for driving them to cheat.. I worked to much, I was always in the gym, I was at the volunteer youth center to much , blah blah blah.. sorry I made you trip and fall and land on a dick of a married man!
its funny, during that time I did have one moment where I questioned her, and she was swearing she would never do that, and that most people are married, and even if the person was married she didnt want to be the "other woman".. and all that time she was!
Bigrich helped me through a lot of it, because I couldnt talk to anyone in my life because everyone is some intertwined with one and other.. BigRich was on the phone/messages with me day and night for weeks.. I owe him huge!
at the end of the day, people cheat, everyone thinks about it, some act on it, some have a chance but morals kick in..no matter what, never be that person because its awful..