Velociraptor44
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Go for it again and just be a deadbeat dad
Suck it up bitch
Ya know you want kidz. Get back together with her. She seemed like a cool chick.
Raising up some one else’s children is Hard. Specially when you have one of your own. You will always prioritize your child and in the act neglect the step children. Bias will always be there.
Its a lot of baggage but if you do take a decision and decide to be the step dad. Dont be a douchebag and deprive the girls of a father figure.
So bottom line is
Just fuck her for the time being while you decide wether you have the aptitude for the long term investment in the relationship with a mother of 2.
Do not commit this early.
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Jesus man! She had twin 3 yo girls and was excited about being a stepdad. Does that make me weird?
I agree to all of what you said.You do not have to prioritize your own child. You have to choose to love the other two as much as your own. You won’t know that it’s a little bit different until you have one of your own. But it is hard and the question is always in the back of your mind, “Would I have acted that way if this was my daughter genetically?”
Everything is easier when they are small. It gets harder as they get older, but you don’t get to back out later. You take the responsibility, you own it. Kids deserve security.
The other hard thing is investing 100% in these kids and being vulnerable as a result and then wondering if they will give a shit about you when they grow up. If you do your job well, they will. But you never have that worry with your own.
I agree don’t commit early. I also agree get that pussy lol. What can I say, I’m a dude.
But also don’t commit casually or blindly.
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Follow your heart, not the advice of horny, juiced up gearheads. Oh wait....
EVERY time I have backtracked on pussy (anything over five years or so) I was sorely disappointed. It was never good. It was like driving a favorite car of your youth, now with worn out mileage and loaded with baggage.
Plus, if they were great before, the newfound disappointment required me to remove them from my spank bank.
My wife said she is very disappointed in you for even considering this... so I say go for it. It'll give her someone else to be disappointed with and lecture via text. Woman's thumbs can produce encyclopedias of contempt in seconds and if you aren't responding she has no problem calling you and yelling that shit at you rapid fire and loud enough to make your Bluetooth earpiece sound like a fucking PA system.
Your wife intimidates the hell outta me!
God help us. Every one.And she likes you...
And she likes you...
Bet that's where Rap goes for those special treatmentsGo to the YMCA, there are always happy endings there.
<insert giant winkfinger here>
what was your first gut instinct? hit it?