I'm 44 years old and never had nor wanted kids. I never felt that void in my life and never imagined myself as a father. I have no regrets and couldn't imagine raising a child and wouldn't want that responsibility. I'm also a very selfish person and that's another reason I never wanted children. Couldn't imagine giving up the things I enjoy in life for the sake of reproducing. There are enough people in the world today anyway...
valid points. all of them. enough that i would never argue with that logic
at the same time, being the head of a family, example to my son what a man should be , an example to my daughters what a husband and father should be
has made me into something much greater than i ever was, ever would have been, without becoming a father.
i missed out on a lot of fine pussy being married.
i missed out on being able to fuck my wife at least as many times as i have managed to bang her - becuae the kids are on me and her both like a bunch of little wet t shirts with feet 24/7
i like being a father because I'm selfish
defender
provider
setting the example for honor chivalry and strength
i love my woman, my children, more than i could ever have loved myself
and i love being the old lion watching everyone grow and begin to venture out on their own
but ohhhh, some days.. some girly whirly flirting with me, and I'm going home to listen to kids bicker and a baby cry with a wife thats on the rag
yeah, doesn't matter whats mssing. you're just gonna miss out
whatever it is you don't pursue, tends to become that green green grass on the other side
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Fathering a child does not define you as a man. Any man can father a child. There's plenty of piece of shit, deadbeat mother fuckers out there that have kids.
a father , not a fucking sperm donor
you get that right..