Never cycled, newly married, wife wants kids and wants me to wait

Hey guys

Ok so ive neen doing research on this site for months on how to cycle properly and know that i want to give this a go. I have been lifting for about 9 years with a couple breaks due to life and injury. My wife has a condition called endometriosis. She really wants to be a mom and would make a wonderful mother but this disease makes her chances of getting pregnant and actaully carrying a child to term quite slim. So she doesnt want me to hurt our chances any more with gear. Ive explained to her that i would be using hcg to keep me fertile durimg cycle and that many have concieved a child on cycle even without hcg or hmg or whatever other fertility drugs but she still insists i wait. I want to respect her wishes but waiting and being stuck with the slowest gains possible is shitty. Are peptides an option maybe? Hgh is a little pricey for me. I have already tried hiding it from her and that didnt go well. Did one injection of test e last year and she knew exactly why i was limping. Any suggestions or words of wisdom? Thanks

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You got plenty of time my man. I didn't run anything till I was in my 30's. Happy wife=happy life.

Or you could kick her to the curb and start blasting.

nattytillnow said:

Hey guys

Ok so ive neen doing research on this site for months on how to cycle properly and know that i want to give this a go. I have been lifting for about 9 years with a couple breaks due to life and injury. My wife has a condition called endometriosis. She really wants to be a mom and would make a wonderful mother but this disease makes her chances of getting pregnant and actaully carrying a child to term quite slim. So she doesnt want me to hurt our chances any more with gear. Ive explained to her that i would be using hcg to keep me fertile durimg cycle and that many have concieved a child on cycle even without hcg or hmg or whatever other fertility drugs but she still insists i wait. I want to respect her wishes but waiting and being stuck with the slowest gains possible is shitty. Are peptides an option maybe? Hgh is a little pricey for me. I have already tried hiding it from her and that didnt go well. Did one injection of test e last year and she knew exactly why i was limping. Any suggestions or words of wisdom? Thanks

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5'6"
190 lbs 20%

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if you mess around with any steroids and something goes wrong with her pregnancy every one will blame your steroid use for it..better get her pregnant first then do a cycle.

Prego then juice.

Your age is why you are asking this question. What a freaking joke.... your wife should kick you in the balls.

Have kids and be happy, you may not even want to join the dark side once you experience the joys and rewards of being a father, and having a happy wife..You have plenty of time to do this down the road.. focus on the family.. But this does not mean you still cant read, learn and understand the ways of life and whats expected with the commitment with cycling/running compounds..Research PCT,blood work, ext.. Read, read and read some more.. But have kids and read to them first!

My wife has the same condition. We tried unsuccessfully for a long time to have a kid. It was only after we gave up that she got pregnant. Follow the given advise ^^^ and good luck.

You have plenty of time. Get her prego before you go on cycle. If ANYTHING happens to the baby if your on cycle you will blame yourself and so will she. Better to be safe then sorry. I waited until I had my daughter plus 2 more years.

Thanks fellas. I needed to hear it from you. Hopefully we can get lucky like you jas101

This is why I like ASF. Tranny porn and bullshit galore, plus great and accurate advice when required.

stay natural as long as possible man. youre still in your 20's, don't rush things. As for Endo, my 1st wife had that when we were together. We had a son 3 yrs after her surgery. Then she and her new husband have 3 more together kids, so don't think its not possible. Live life and enjoy it all. This will be around after all is said and done, no worries. I started my ride late 30's and I know a lot of guys on here later in 40's-50's. So have fun and relax. The family will enjoy you more.

nattytillnow said:

Hey guys

Ok so ive neen doing research on this site for months on how to cycle properly and know that i want to give this a go. I have been lifting for about 9 years with a couple breaks due to life and injury. My wife has a condition called endometriosis. She really wants to be a mom and would make a wonderful mother but this disease makes her chances of getting pregnant and actaully carrying a child to term quite slim. So she doesnt want me to hurt our chances any more with gear. Ive explained to her that i would be using hcg to keep me fertile durimg cycle and that many have concieved a child on cycle even without hcg or hmg or whatever other fertility drugs but she still insists i wait. I want to respect her wishes but waiting and being stuck with the slowest gains possible is shitty. Are peptides an option maybe? Hgh is a little pricey for me. I have already tried hiding it from her and that didnt go well. Did one injection of test e last year and she knew exactly why i was limping. Any suggestions or words of wisdom? Thanks

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5'6"
190 lbs 20%

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You don't need to cycle at all. I'm 45 and started AAS for the first time in my life a month ago. I was able to bench a clean 425lbs @ 155lb body weight and that was with a total Test level of 210. Make sure your priorities are health and family and not something that is selfishly vain then revisit something like this way down the road. If it makes you feel better get a lab panel showing your Test and HCG is in the normal range.

nattytillnow said:

Hey guys

Ok so ive neen doing research on this site for months on how to cycle properly and know that i want to give this a go. I have been lifting for about 9 years with a couple breaks due to life and injury. My wife has a condition called endometriosis. She really wants to be a mom and would make a wonderful mother but this disease makes her chances of getting pregnant and actaully carrying a child to term quite slim. So she doesnt want me to hurt our chances any more with gear. Ive explained to her that i would be using hcg to keep me fertile durimg cycle and that many have concieved a child on cycle even without hcg or hmg or whatever other fertility drugs but she still insists i wait. I want to respect her wishes but waiting and being stuck with the slowest gains possible is shitty. Are peptides an option maybe? Hgh is a little pricey for me. I have already tried hiding it from her and that didnt go well. Did one injection of test e last year and she knew exactly why i was limping. Any suggestions or words of wisdom? Thanks

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5'6"
190 lbs 20%

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Don't be selfish brotha. That's your wife who wants a family and already has a speed bump. Don't be a shit and create another possible speed bump. The odds of being able to conceive a child while on cycle is as slim as it is for her to carry to term. Do your research. How bad would you feel and how much would she hate you if for any reason you crapped that chance. Take it from someone who's married with a child. Having a baby is what most all women want with their partner. For you to try and talk her into letting you cycle and then try for a baby just so you can have a little more muscle is fucking absurd and extremely selfish. The gear and your ability to make gains will always be there. The chance for her to have a child won't. So get to work and create a family. Trust me, you won't regret it and she'll love you even more. She'll most likely resent you if you go the other route. Why risk that for a little muscle gain. Be smart kid.

Sherk said:

Don't be selfish brotha. That's your wife who wants a family and already has a speed bump. Don't be a shit and create another possible speed bump. The odds of being able to conceive a child while on cycle is as slim as it is for her to carry to term. Do your research. How bad would you feel and how much would she hate you if for any reason you crapped that chance. Take it from someone who's married with a child. Having a baby is what most all women want with their partner. For you to try and talk her into letting you cycle and then try for a baby just so you can have a little more muscle is fucking absurd and extremely selfish. The gear and your ability to make gains will always be there. The chance for her to have a child won't. So get to work and create a family. Trust me, you won't regret it and she'll love you even more. She'll most likely resent you if you go the other route. Why risk that for a little muscle gain. Be smart kid.

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This right here...

dont be selfish... She married you because of the hopes and dreams that you promised to give and create, plus the dreams she had since she was a lil girl, do NOT take that away from her.. she married you man, she didnt marry your selfish goals... how would you feel if you saved money for a house, and one day you come home only to find out that she used most of it for a set of tits? you are both in a commitment,act like it..

we're not being harsh... We been there, and many of us are still there... love your wife man, because you would let her down in so many ways,its just not worth it.. Give her a minion,and then do you after that..boats,quads,bikes, and jeeps, and gear come later man.. Your a family man now, act like it!

Adopt. Run heavy.

nattytillnow said:

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5'6"
190 lbs 20%

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Get her preggos first and use the time to get that bodyfat down to 10%. You are carrying 38 pounds of fat. Testosterone aromatizes in fat cells. That means estrogen. Not good. Diet and cardio. Keep lifting.

nattytillnow....as many others, my wife also suffers from this condition, severely.....many treatments, many fertility visits, meds etc. I hear the story about those who just quit trying having kids all the time, and that is awesome!!! But let me tell you my brother, @ 42 we quit trying 7 years ago, and we are childless for good. It wasn't in the cards for us. My wife has feelings I cannot explain, the bitterness, the hatred of baby showers, the isolation from EVERYONE GIRL SHE KNOWS, beccuase everything pertains to kids and that doesn't include activities of childless women. She feels so alone, my days can be filled with light switch mood changes if presented with a KID situation.....dude, it ain't good. So my advice LIKE EVERYONE ELSES is, if she wants kids, do not be the "OTHER" excuse why you can't have them because your life will not be all that good otherwise. You change your diet, lose some BF and at 5'6" you'll have a much better appearance, look bigger and be much more refined. Hit the VaJayJay now juicy juice later. And tone up, you'll surprise yourself in the mirror!!

Thanks guys. Im just being a fat kid and trying to have my cake and eat it too. My priority is her and making a life for us both. And ya jeeptree i know all about what your saying. She gets very upset with things involving new children and being a mom. Light switch is flicked quite often.Ya i need to start actually doing that cardio again. Hurt my knee and gave up on the cardio in september and have been eating for bulk and not always clean so i put on the fat pretty quick. I was 170. None of my clothing fits either. Thanks for the good advice. Your a good bunch of dudes here.

Smart man bro. This stuff will always be here. Plus like a few have stated, this will give you time to lean up and learn about nutrition and get on a clean healthy diet and creating a good training program. That when you start a cycle you'll have everything zeroed in and not waste your time, money and loose your gains when you're done.

My wife just got pregnant on a full blown cycle.. So it happens

And she has pcoh which also makes pregnancy very hard.. Unprotected sex for 2 years did the trick

nattytillnow said:

Hurt my knee and gave up on the cardio in september and have been eating for bulk and not always clean so i put on the fat pretty quick.

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Well, the great thing about this post is that you realize exactly what the issues are. Now you just need to put it into action. Get your diet spot on. Post it in the nutrition area here along with your goal and let others help you tweak it. Then stick to it.

As for cardio, I found the elliptical machine helps a lot with getting cardio when suffering from knee or hip issues. Try it out. Move up the intensity (resistance and speed) and length of time progressively with each workout.

Losing weight will also help with knee pain.

Keep us updated.

Now get into the nutrition forum and post up that diet. Also, try myfitnesspal for tracking calories, protein, carbs, and fat.

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nattytillnow said:

Hurt my knee and gave up on the cardio in september and have been eating for bulk and not always clean so i put on the fat pretty quick.

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Well, the great thing about this post is that you realize exactly what the issues are. Now you just need to put it into action. Get your diet spot on. Post it in the nutrition area here along with your goal and let others help you tweak it. Then stick to it.

As for cardio, I found the elliptical machine helps a lot with getting cardio when suffering from knee or hip issues. Try it out. Move up the intensity (resistance and speed) and length of time progressively with each workout.

Losing weight will also help with knee pain.

Keep us updated.

Now get into the nutrition forum and post up that diet. Also, try myfitnesspal for tracking calories, protein, carbs, and fat.