Burrfoot1313
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Let me start by saying...I'm not the biggest dude in the world nor do I pretend to be. However when I go out, I think it's obvious I lift.
Here's the dilemma. I'm out last weekend and explaining to my friend that it seems like talking to girls, and girls simply engaging with me, was easier and more frequent when I didn't lift.
My buddy says "dude, you're not approachable with those muscles and that scowl on your face. You look scary."
Now I don't "scowl" per say but I have been told I look angry a lot. I just have a serious look on my face unless I'm talking to someone, then I'm all smiles and laughs. I'm very easy going joking kind of guy once I open up to someone.
But is he right? Are bigger guys not as approachable? Don't get me wrong, I do ok with the ladies but it takes a lot more work. It's like I'm having to defend my size and sell myself as a nice guy or something bc of it.
Thoughts?
Here's the dilemma. I'm out last weekend and explaining to my friend that it seems like talking to girls, and girls simply engaging with me, was easier and more frequent when I didn't lift.
My buddy says "dude, you're not approachable with those muscles and that scowl on your face. You look scary."
Now I don't "scowl" per say but I have been told I look angry a lot. I just have a serious look on my face unless I'm talking to someone, then I'm all smiles and laughs. I'm very easy going joking kind of guy once I open up to someone.
But is he right? Are bigger guys not as approachable? Don't get me wrong, I do ok with the ladies but it takes a lot more work. It's like I'm having to defend my size and sell myself as a nice guy or something bc of it.
Thoughts?